Other - Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

no 'more wishes!!!' allowed!!!

2007-03-16 01:47:34 · 9 answers · asked by LusT aFter INsaNIty 2

My mom keeps fighting with me. Should I permanantly fall out with her
if she does'nt listen to me, and understand that she hurts me?

She can be very rude. I do feel she uses me because her two daughters
don't talk to her, and her other son lives in Singapore, and she thinks the world of him.

When I married in 2003, she realised it was the end of an era, but I wanted to keep a good relationship
with her. Instead of welcoming my wife as a new daughter, she soon fell out with her and things have not improved.

My mom gets involved in her own world at times, and thinks her problems are bigger than anyone
elses. She refuses to listen to me or taken my advice, and as a result she is agoraphobic, alcohol dependant
and socially inept.

I should also say she is capable of being really nice, but cannot keep it up. I would love a good relationship
with her, but with Mother's day and St Patrick's Day coming up, I feel so sad that the whole relationship seems
impossible to keep steady.

2007-03-16 01:46:19 · 5 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

I have been living with my 3 kids , and a man with his 3 kids(all under 11 years) for 4 yrs now . All 3 of mine want to seperate from them (so do I) . But his kids love us and seem to be having issues with it , and I think it is because of what he says to them about it . He is in OVER - love , with me , and this has been the most difficult obstacle I have ever had to face in my whole life ! I am feeling so guilty for this . At the same time trying to save up money , and look for a new place . Any ideas ?

2007-03-16 01:40:58 · 3 answers · asked by NotSoPerfect 3

2007-03-16 01:34:12 · 6 answers · asked by pritam99 1

my ex left me about a month ago and i want to forget about her because she hurt me really bad. i've just moved house and have now started to train to be a nurse and every1 thinks that i've moved on. but when im alone at night or when some1 mentions her name i cant stop thinking about her. i know that its natural to pine after the 1 you love but i dont want her back and i certainly dont love her anymore. ive turned my life around and all i want to do is forget about her... should i ask my friends to not talk about her? im finding it difficult and i dont want this to effect my training or my life anymore than what it has... any suggestions on how to lift my spirits would be greatly appriciated...

2007-03-16 01:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't just want to buy him clothes or DVDs or CDs or aftershave this time.

I already bought him a leatherman last year, I bought him new soccer boots, he has chains and a very good watch, and a good wallet. He doesn't drink, he doesn't get excited by cars or computer games, I don't want to encourage his smoking by buying him an engraved zippo or cigarette case...
I already have the bake a cake and cook him his favourite meal planned but what to get as a present?? Its in a week and I have noooo idea? He loves Soccer... thats about it.

2007-03-16 01:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by Ms_S 5

2007-03-16 01:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 01:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like a major part of my dating dilemma is that I am honest when I tell people I am not interested in having children. I didn't realize that so many men want to start families. I am also one of the only women I know who does not want to have children. I feel like I am abnormal... anybody here feel that way?

2007-03-16 01:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by ppaper.wingss 3

Sometimes I get the feeling my friend likes me, but I keep telling myself it's not possible. Whenever he sees me he smiles - a proper, face-lighting-up smile. He sometimes smiles at me across the room for no particular reason. When we're walking somewhere he walks really close to me, but I might be imagining that. He'll often sit next to me, either when we're at friends' houses or at church (where I know him from). Recently he's started apologising if he doesn't sit with me - saying things like 'I've just got to go and talk to ...' when I'd made no mention of him sitting with me. I talk to him a lot, and sometimes he asks me questions like when my birthday is. He tells me a lot about himself and his family, and has confided in me when he's had problems with one of his friends. He'll always talk to me when he sees me, and sometimes I get the impression he's trying to be close to me or coming to things because he knows I'll be there. He's shy so it's hard to tell what he's thinking.

2007-03-16 00:47:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 00:41:07 · 17 answers · asked by Eco Doc 4

I have never had sex not due to my appearance or anything, just never found the right person and this isnt religion either. But now i really want to try it, but because i've left it so long it's almost quite scary and im unsure what i should do - please help me and offer me some advice.

2007-03-16 00:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by punteroftheworld 2

I love my boyfriend and we have an awesome relationship. But lately he has decided to get back into smoking weed. He always has from time to time, maybe once or twice a month, and never around me. But now it's every day, multiple times a day, and around me even though he knows I hate it. He's very stubborn and I'm afraid if I bring this up too much or nag too much it will turn into a big fight, and I don't even have a good reason as to why I hate it other then the fact that I've always thought drugs are "wrong". But it bothers me and I can't help that. Should I just be able to look past this? Should I end the relationship and move out over something that I can't even explain why it bothers me so much? I'm so confused here.

2007-03-16 00:29:22 · 10 answers · asked by elisamal428 1

if ur a guy and answer this question u little noisy selfs!!!!u should be ashamed!!!!lol!!!!!hahahahahah!!!!i luv tricking people is ur a girl pleaz answer this!!!!Y IS MEN SOOOO NOISY ABOUT WAT GIRLS TALK ABOUT!!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!

2007-03-16 00:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by Beauty 2 the next level!!!!!!!!! 1

2007-03-16 00:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by Kamlesh 2