I have never had sex not due to my appearance or anything, just never found the right person and this isnt religion either. But now i really want to try it, but because i've left it so long it's almost quite scary and im unsure what i should do - please help me and offer me some advice.
2007-03-16 00:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by punteroftheworld 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think, you've gone this far... You might as well complete the mission.. BUT if you must lose your virginity, do it with an older chick with experience and patience.. Ask her to teach you... lol... I taught 2 guys, they are freaks now...
2007-03-16 00:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, sex is no longer something that's considered to be taboo outside of marriage. Don't worry about waiting forever, but don't jump at the next chance to get laid either. Just stick around until you find the right person, they'll come along. And most people would be thrilled to share such a special moment with you, so don't worry about feeling scared or abnormal that you haven't had sex yet.
2007-03-16 12:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm virgin too and i am 26 years old. Why do you want to lose your virginity?It is a priceless gift that should not be given to dogs.Don't be in haste, wait for the right guy and don't think you keep or get a guy with sex . If that is possible then there won't be so many divorcees today. There is nothing old fashioned about being a virgin.
2007-03-16 07:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin isn't something to be ashamed of. When you lose it you realise it was never a big deal in the first place.
If you really want to lose it, the first thing to do is stop worrying about it. Girls won't sleep with you if you are desperate just to get laid.
Idealy you need to find a girlfriend first, which means getting your confident levels up. Don't think how anyone could ever be with you, start thinking that girls deserve someone like you - and they would be lucky to find someone like you.
Once you have a stable relationship, the rest is just up to you on how you compose yourself intimately. You don't have to tell them you are a virgin, just ease your way into sex when you feel comfortable.
1. Get confidence and don't be desperate.
2. Get a girlfriend.
3. Get comfortable and get jiggy.
2007-03-16 07:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by jimi h-b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting for the right person.
Sex is just sex, nothing special, we have it now for the end result of an orgasm. When you have sex when you are in love, it is soo much better, it is an expression of that love, it is a union. Sounds corny, but I promise you, it is a lot better.
My parents told me this when I had the birds and the bees chat, I didnt believe them, and I did have sex with people, and even though it was enjoyable it wasnt the fireworks and angelic music that I had read about.
Then when I started having sex with my boyfriend, I almost cried. It was passionate, loving and so amazing.
I wish I had waited and given him my virginity.
2007-03-16 07:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by natasha * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did exactly the same, and then threw it all away on a night stand, I was so drunk to get rid off the nerves, and did not know anything about her.
The one true regret off my life was not waiting for somebody special to share it with, it is not as embarrassing as you think, And if you wait for a girl you really like and would want a relationship with it will be much better, please trust me.
Any girl you care about will understand and take there time with you, trust me I was scarred for years after the one night stand, where I now have a great girlfriend who is understanding and patient.
Don't just throw it away like it is nothing, have some respect and wait for somebody special.
Also anybody who takes the pi*s out off you is not a true friend and should be ignored it is your body, not anybody Else's.
Good luck in what ever you decide.
2007-03-16 07:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very curious how old you are, but regardless here is my answer for you. When the time is right it will happen, stop stressing over it, its a great thing to have yes, but better when you are ready for it, obviously up till now you haven't been. There will come a time and a person you know with out a doubt that you have to have. Hope it is everything you want, Good Luck.
2007-03-16 08:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late to learn, but don't rush in to this , seek advice from your own doctor or person with whom you have a complete and trusting relationship,and not the next person who promises you the world to let him take your virginity away from you as many will, and possibly leave you with a sexually transmitted decease, so please do ensure a condom is used for your own health, plus it will also help to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
2007-03-16 08:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by kenvectis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you havent lost your virginity yet. look here is what to do. depending on how old you are becaus if you're too old this wont work. make sure ....break time out...
listen i will have to be allowed to PM you or on yahoo messenger for the rest of the advise. pm on how to correspond with you more privately, as this advise is kinda persnonal.
2007-03-16 08:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by lillylickr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit the Bunny Ranch.
2007-03-16 07:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋