My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months already. We went to a party and I was with my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friend went also. Some other girl that I thought was hot and is actually my girlfriend's friend claimed that she wanted to have sex with me. She even kissed me. I just brushed her off and told her that I am already dating a girl. I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's friend because I am already have a girl. I didn't tell my girlfriend. Did my girlfriend set me up to see if I am always loyal to her only? and plus, did I do the right thing by not having sex with my girlfriend's friend? my girlfriend and I didn't start having sex nor we are not going to start soon.
2007-03-16 04:53:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it might have been a set up maybe not but you did the right thing by blowing her off but tell your girlfriend right away what happend cause if not a set up her friend if really likes you will tell the girlfriend you came on to her just to break you up and because you didnt tell her she will belive the friend but be prepared for it if you do tell the girlfrien that she will confront her friend who will lie and say it was you and big drama will occur hope you and girlfriend are really trusting to each other cause then she will belive you over the friend good luck with what you choose to do its a ruf one to answer cause it can go eather way for you
2007-03-16 05:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all why are you questioning if you did the right thing?? Yea you did! By brushing that girl off it shows that you're loyal and nothing will come betweeen you too!! Self-control is hard to maintain but you still did! Maybe you should tell her and explain that it didn't effect you at all. I'm not sure if she tested you or not, but either way you passed.
2007-03-16 12:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by BuddhaBuddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good point thinking that you might have been set up. Women are devious like that. But that set aside, yea, you did the right thing. Especially with all of the viruses going around.
2007-03-16 12:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by D.Y. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two committed already at 2 months....It was a harmless kiss that went no further. I think if you two are serious then you should have told her but maybe it will cause drama...so as long as you didn't have sex you are cool.
2007-03-16 11:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by **~~ShAwTy Is ThE sHiT~~** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doenst matter if u and ur gurl rnt having sex yet, u shouldnt cheat. So yes u did do the right thing by brushing her off!!
2007-03-16 12:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don' think that your girlfriend was trying to test if you were loyal and all.
Stay away from the other woman.
2007-03-16 12:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did the right hting and no your girlfriend didnt set it up if she hasnt said anyhting about the kiss you r alright bcecause she would have said something of she had but it is good you said no
2007-03-16 12:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋