Other - Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I(28) think my husband(29) is getting bored with me intimately, I want to WOW him does anyone have any ideas to spice up our love life? (All serious answers apperciated)

Other information:
-We have been married since April.2001
-We have 4 children(3 adopted)

2006-12-06 18:44:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this girl I met at the gym, we talk everytime we see each other. She's decent, have a job, educated, beautiful. Ive always wanted to ask her out, but dont have the nerve too. I guess I dont want to ruin a smooth acquaintance/friendship, if she says no. Tonight was different, Ive waited weeks for this. I asked her "Hey do you want to go out with me" I mean if "you're not seeing someone off course." "You eat dinner right?" She told me that cant commit to it, because she works until 9 PM. I asked her " what does that mean? " she said " she cant do dinner." I know she works late, and thats not an excuse. So I guess, what do I do now? I see her at the gym again tommorrow.. Do i still have a chance to ask her out? How do i ask her out again??? I dont want to sound pushy.. or was that it? I was just shuned in a nice way. I really like this girl...

2006-12-06 18:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was messing around on yahoo being bored and I decided to type in my friend's names just bcus I typed in my boyfriend's name and then something caught my eye. So I clicked on the link and read the information it wasn't detailed but it listed his phone number, and parent's names. I knew that information and it was no big deal until I looked at the age and it was 6 years older than he said he was. i thought that was weird do i went to a people finder website and tried it on them. same thing. I figured it could be two things a typo on his birth certificate or he lied. I understand why he would he just moved on his own, and he's still in school maybe he was embarassed. But I'm kinda weirded out and don't want to ask him bcus he's very secretive. But I am still dying to know if this is the case or not,I don't really care if he's older but i feel like if he did lie, he could lie about bigger things. Would you react the same? what would you do? any random input. Serious responses only pls.

2006-12-06 18:38:33 · 3 answers · asked by LoveLeighe 4

I am 22 and this girl is 19 with a 2 year old son. I dated her for a little over a month and i thought things were great. It felt like we connected, we had lots of fun, and i enjoyed hanging out with her son. At first i was wary about dating someone with a child but i decided to at least try it. But she has goals like goin to college herself and she seemed like such a strong woman which i was very attracted to. She shocked me by telling me we are on very different paths and she basically left me with the feeling that she wanted someone who was a security blanket and a replacement dad. The father passed away before he was born so i think she had a lot of issues to work out. But after all this i feel taken advantage of,i felt she should have given our relationship a better chance since i took the chance to date a girl with a child. I cared for her alot and it seemed like i was there just as a security blanket for her. Should i ever date any1 with a kid again?

2006-12-06 18:32:35 · 10 answers · asked by Mikey 2

I am woried about my sister she seems to like a boyfriend that hells at her and it verbal abusive. How can I convince her she needs someone better. Are should I go there and protect my sister. Are would I be putting my self in harms way.

2006-12-06 18:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by andrea0428@sbcglobal.net 2

I(28) have been a housewife since November of 2005(I was a pediatrictian before I was a housewife) and I think I am doing a great job at it, but I always think there is room for improvement, so if you have any ideas/tips/positive criticism on how I might improve on being a homemaker or better wife please feel free to share :)

Things I do and other info:

-Married my husband(29,Cardiologist) in April. 2001

-Take care of our 4 children (2 boys:18 months and 2 year old, and 2 girls: 2 year old and 6 year old, we adopted all except are youngest)

-Cook Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner (Daily)
-Clean the house(Vacum, Mop, Dust, Iron Clothes, Dishes, Ect.)

-Homeschool all children

-Take children to activites (Ballet class, Gymboree, and Girlscouts)

-Do the Laundry

-Go to church

-Go grocery shopping

-Go to the gym(My husband stays in shape for me, so I feel like I should return the favor and I

2006-12-06 18:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in this relationship for about 5 years and we have sex like once a week...but it just really sux....is he gay? inexperienced or what? have any explanations?

2006-12-06 18:14:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

and smiles?What if it's someone you know?

2006-12-06 18:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by greg g 1

My boyfriend has been going through a difficult time as he is looking for a new job. He is not happy with his current one. He is looking for a job in my area. We are in a long-distance relationship. I am going to meet him this Friday as he invited me to go to to his country for a weekend. His friend has a farewell party and he wanted me to be there for it. The thing is since he has been focusing on his job search, I feel like he has been neglecting me. He asked me to be patient, strong and to let him concentrate and we can relax this weekend together. The thing is I became needy of him in the past two days and he got very very angry with me last night telling me that I have no respect for him and he said I don't support him at all and he told me if I don't stop annoying him, he will not talk to me anymore. I am so sad. I feel like he does not care about me anymore? What should I do please?

2006-12-06 17:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by violet b 1

here it continues itold my hubby everything a day before my marriage and he told me nothing and married me but now i was in usa illegal i cant study i cant do anything i cant go back bcoz i am illegal here and iam not happy with my husband bcoz we have totally diffrent thoughts and we cant sit peacfully for 5 min if we sit toghether for 5 min 6th min we start fighting for anything he is cruel so hot headed tat he dont care about anything when he is mad ha can brake or kill anything so then i started calling my lover again and he still loves me and waiting for me to come back otherwise he will not marry anyone else .what should i do should i leave this guy go back but how can i go back but sometimes i think that if i work here i can earn good money and make my parents happy but i dont under stand anything what should i do and i have done 12th standard with medical.and that is it after that i got married can someone pls solve my life's puzzule.with good solution REST IS ON ANOTHER QUES

2006-12-06 17:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it just fine? what age does a woman be devirginized?

2006-12-06 17:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by workaholicguy 2

let me explain u in short i having affair with a guy in india who really loved me a lot and liked his house and his family members and they all liked me.But one day my parents got to know about him and then they called him he asked my parents that he want to marry me but they said no because he was poor and works in army at a very small post so my parents asked me about him i kept on saying yes for marrying him but they were not happy and beated me alot then i was afraid and told them a big lie that was that guy is in underworld and warned and scared and pushed me to say yes to him and i acted like i am innocent so they thought i was true and took me to punjab i was livin in M.P. then this reached here also but i was still the same that i am innocent and then my parents found a guy and married me with him and sent me to usa illegally and he didnt knew anything.then i got married to this guy who is 32 now and i am 19 i told him everything and he took everythnglet me post again cont.

2006-12-06 17:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that now I am 30, I could look back to when I was 10, 15, 20, 21.. etc and know what I should have done different and what should have been my goals. Hindsight is 20/20! Now that you are 35 or older, what do you wish you would have done or planned for 30? I don't want to miss any more opportunities or wasted time! Help guide me with your wisdom, and tell me your age if you'd be so kind! Thanks for your advice! :)

2006-12-06 17:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by ananswerer 4

He calls me a ho. I told him I didn't like that & he says he's always called me that.

He flicks me off... says, “**** you.”

He gripes at me for things like crushing his chips in the shopping cart, taking 10 minutes to get ready to go out.

He mocks me almost everytime I talk to him.

I say “I love you” & a lot of the times he just says “Sure” or “No you don’t.”

He wouldn't let me go to my house after a wedding and change clothes because it was really cold. He didn't want his friend to wait at the restaurant for 5-10 minutes. (I live 2 minutes away from it). He said it would be rude to have him wait... wtf?

I noticed that most of these things started recently. The last thing was part of the fight we had a few days ago. It ended up being switched to how I've been letting all my stress out on him. It led me to saying sorry plenty of times. Did he manipulate me? I feel like I get angry too easily with him and all this is just in my head.

Is it just me?? Any advice??

2006-12-06 17:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by Wendi 1

2006-12-06 17:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by edwin 2

By wayne Weening?

2006-12-06 17:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by ozidash 2

her sister walks around naked all the time... she says she just feels more comfortable..and i agree so i walk around naked all the time..it feels very natural and not the least bit "sexy"... my gf on the otherhand, thinks we are nasty and should be ashamed of ourselves... are we wrong for not being ashamed of our naked bodies???? oh.. her sister and i have never had sex alone..we did have a couple of threesomes just for fun and games..nothing serious

2006-12-06 17:11:14 · 5 answers · asked by NONAME 2

Okay, so I just turned 20, and my girlfriend of one year decided to reveal to me that she "isn't exactly turning 18" anytime soon. In fact, she is only 15 years old. I don't know how she got away with lying to me for so long. She said it was a lie that got way out of control and after a while she was just scared to tell me. I would never consider dating a 15 year old, and she knew that. But I guess its too late, I already love her to death and I'm close to her family. We've been through a lot including the recent death of her father. I was upset for a couple days but I couldn't stay mad at her. The worst part is her mother, family, and friends all knew she was lieing to me, but I never had a clue. I guess I feel kinda like a pedophile. Its also gonna be hard to explain to my friends that I'm in the military and dating a 15 year old. Is it wrong for me to want to stay with her?

2006-12-06 17:08:16 · 30 answers · asked by Vernam 1

Her kids don't really like him either. Last night, there was an episode which led to me telling her to choose between him or me in her life which upset her. But hey, I don't need him calling me names and treating her and her kids the way he does, they just lost their dad six months ago. He told me that he can't stand her kids and can't stand to be around them or even in the same room as them. I have told my sister, he has to accept them all or none of them, why can't she see this? What do I do? He sure likes to spend her money when he is given the chance to but she don't see this either.

2006-12-06 16:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by dini 2

2006-12-06 16:45:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you found out that your spouse slept with one of your close cousins?
would you:
(A) forgive and forget and try to move on with your marriage, keeping in mind the fact that you've done terrible terrible things to your significant other also (like cheating even though it wasn't their cousin)
or...
(B) leave them and never ever look back

2006-12-06 16:24:57 · 16 answers · asked by mamacita 4

2006-12-06 16:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by LadyBug 1

i go to his class for sign language, he's singing to me in class. he's always trying to hold my hand.i want to tell him he's not my type without hurting his feelings. the teacher said just to understand him and stuff. but i cant take it anymore!!!

2006-12-06 16:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok guys, I'm married, but theres a gal that i like and she likes me but neither of our marrigaes are worth a crap. she wants to get together and have a little fun, would it be worth it, or would i be just getting myself into another problem that wouldn't be worth it? I'm confused and need help...

2006-12-06 16:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 15:57:11 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2

He's 29 and I'm 30 - we met in a bar. We met three years ago, and we both drank rather a lot socially. Now, I know I've changed. I'm now into fitness, and my job, and want more than our Brooklyn neighborhood, which is centered around the bar where we met. He also has a new job, and at two work functions he's gotten so drunk he admitted he couldn't remember half of the evening. He drinks 4-6 beers each night normally. Every night of the week, and more on weekends. He has some shakes on the few mornings pre-coffee that I've paid attention.

I know this is a stupid question as it seems obvious, but I'm in the relationship and I am having problems saying this might be true. Am I engaged to an alcoholic? Or do guys just do this? Drink every night?

He's not abusive to me, never has been. But I'm scared. Is it only a matter of time?

2006-12-06 15:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by yupagirl 2

2006-12-06 15:40:14 · 9 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1

2006-12-06 15:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by icy 3

2006-12-06 15:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Hil 1

I think he is on drugs he sleeps all day, doesn't work and hasn't held a job longer than 2 months all year. Borrows money from her check from family members. Both of them lives with my dad, no bill but is always broke. When the family confronted him and her about these issues my Aunt received a phone call from his phone (that she pays for) with the sound of a gun shooting.This is completely out of her charter

2006-12-06 15:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Smile 2