Other - Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

My boyfriend of 1.5 years is dealing with a lot of work stress right now; so I've decided to back off and give him some space (not calling, not making him commit to plans) so that he doesn't feel that he's juggling me too. This isn't an attempt at reverse psychology, I just think that if the situation were reversed, I'd need some breathing room too.

Is this the right thing to do or do you think I'm just adding to his stress?

2006-12-06 09:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by LifesAMystery 3

i have this new birth control (mirena) and have been on it for the past 4 months. i have noticed though that after i get off my period i have this sensation to wanna have sex the moment that i can....does anyone's birth control make you feel that way?

2006-12-06 09:25:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jacinda 2

I have a problem.......whenever my mom, dad, grandma, or any one in my family says anything to me lately i just get agrivated no matter what. I dont get why. I mean it never used to be like that. I mean i used to enjoy talking to my mom but now she just pisses me off. I mean i can talk to my friends for hours and it doesnt bother me but i get sooooooooooooo agrivated when i talk to my family. Any ideas on how to solve this?? i mean im getting in trouble because of it. Grounded for 10 days the first time ever!!!!

2006-12-06 09:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by - 2

So, my boyfriend (17yrs.) is sick.... he has the chicken pox. Not only does he itch all over, but he's also in a lot of pain. And, plus he has to miss all of his major exams. He also has a trip to England soon and they won't let him leave if he isn't well by then. So, I want to do something sweet to make him feel better. You know how the guys always bring soup and a teddy bear, etc. Well, what's the "guy version" of that? What should I put together to give him?

Help please.

2006-12-06 09:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by shortnspunky 2

I hate and am in love with my now ex man because he's always right about everything.

2006-12-06 09:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by sexycutenicelatinaepettiewoman 1

How do you know if you or some one else is flirting

2006-12-06 09:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by YOUR MY BEST FRIEND 1

2006-12-06 09:04:31 · 36 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

There is a guy who is 36 years old and the only thing he could say about how he felt about his mate...was that he felt good....I mean good...he could not come up with nothing better than good...I mean he is 36 years old and has been in his relationship for 2 1/2 years and all he could come up with in his extensive vocabulary was good. I mean he says that he cares about his mate but all he could say was good....what do you say??????????????

2006-12-06 09:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by dy_mond05 1

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-06 08:56:21 · 5 answers · asked by downtokissit 1

Are you “Super In-Love?”, “Gushingly Ga-Ga?” “Over-The-Moon? ...
or "Dying of Boredom", "Throwing in the Towel", "Ready to Kill 'Em", etc., etc.

2006-12-06 08:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 08:50:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my bf want to have anal sex wiht me and i want to also but everytime he sticks it in it hurts too bad and i ask him to take it out... i would just like to know how i can numb the pain and if there is no way to numb it how long the pain will last... and if i choose to do it again will it hurt the second time too? this is a serious question!!!!

2006-12-06 08:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is not even my type. He is a bully, but not a bad boy or a thug. He's very intelligent and well to do but a bully none the less. I don't want to be attracted to him, I don't even know how or when it started, but the more I see the more I know I shouldn't be attracted to him ( but I am). What do I do? How do I make these feelings like i should be with him stop?

2006-12-06 08:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by RealDeal 2

I was adopted when I was born because my biological mom though that I would have a better life. (my real dad was in jail at the time) I really want to meet my real family but I dont know how. My mom that adopted me doesnt want me to. All she would tell me about my family is that I have a brother named Kyle. Also that my biological mom told everyone that I died when I was born so that my real dad wouldnt come looking for me. I have always wanted a brother or sister eventhough all my friends complain about theres....its lonely being an only child! Does anyone know how I could find them. (I tryed all those ancester sites and they didne help at all!) Please help if you can!

2006-12-06 08:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by annastar92 2

im an 18 yr old girl in university. is it okay to have a boyfriend? is it weird for parents to get pissed off? i mean when you are 18 yrs in London you are considered to be an adult.

2006-12-06 08:27:34 · 1 answers · asked by Betty 2

or sit on the fence shy girls?

Whats ur preference?

2006-12-06 08:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by sammyantha 4

I am a 30 year old female and I have had many failed relationships. I think I need a guy who can put me in my place and lead the relationship. My cousin is engaged and they are in a DD relationship and it sounds wonderful she raves about it. How can I get involved in one of my own?

2006-12-06 08:17:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, me and Shadow my cat and lover have been together for a while now and we decided to go to the cinema. We took some home made kipper popcorn and kipcoke which is very tasty and couldnt wait for the film to start. Anyway, we sat on the back row and as it started to get a bit more crowded we noticed people were looking at us srtange. Do you think its because Shadow was wearing a leotard, i mean its all he had clean at the time. Well anyway, when the lights went dim, shadow put his paws around me to embrace me and then all these sweets came flying on our heads and we got chucked out! Do you think they are jelous because Shadow is so beautiful and hes mine? Or is it because they think cats cant see the cinema screen? Can anyone help? (ps do you know how to get sticky sweets out of cat fur?) sent

2006-12-06 08:17:17 · 19 answers · asked by fletch 2

Ok here is the situation. I am in love with a wonderful man. The problems that I have is my Ex-husband I think still wants control over what I do and who I am with. He said that he doesnt want his kids around my Fiance and that he is going to try and take my kids from me and all this BS. He is remarried (to my best friend for 18 years. she left her hubby for mine!) That is number one. Number two is my parents are racist (exhubby also racist). My Fiance is Indian/black/white. I moved to another state just so that I could be with him and we have not told anyone. He has his own place. I have mine but we spend a lot of time together. We have been seeing each other off and on for almost 3 years now. His mom feels the same about me. We make each other very happy and want to be together all the time but we have all of this stress from our Familys. Family is important to anyone and they are important to us but we also want to be happy. We are to be married on June 22nd 2006. What should I do?

2006-12-06 08:17:10 · 2 answers · asked by Believe 2

Sometimes I'm afraid it is.

2006-12-06 08:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my missus has just gone berserk at the telly because she has just settled down to watch LOVE ACTUALLY on ITV and it breaks for the news at 10.30pm for half an hour....she went mental...wot do i do

2006-12-06 08:09:03 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2

basically am in a longdistance relationship at the moment, my girlfriend lives in another country, we talk almost everyday but am afraid that she will get bored of me cause of that, she tells me she got used to it and that she likes it but I dont know if she say it to make me feel better, on top of that those long distance calls are becoming expensive...so what can I do for not getting her bored of me and maintaining a good relationship??

2006-12-06 07:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by habsfan1979 2

here are the order of events--
1. i am married for a few years
2. i am going to have a baby
3. i ask my best friend to be the Godmother and she agrees
4. she is single and she has a boyfriend that wants to break up with her
5. she tells me she is going to plan to forget to take her Pill bc maybe if she gets pregnant he will marry her
6. i have my baby and she doesn't send me a card or present
7. she gets pregnant, then engaged
8. then she asks me to be the matron of honor in her wedding
9. i don't go to the wedding bc it is out of state and my baby is 2 weeks old.
10. now i don't feel like sending her a gift.

what do you make of this?

2006-12-06 07:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, as you all know, brother did the annual shaving in my pubes to make a Xmas tree like we do every xmas. Now its coming up to 9pm on december 6th when its the official switch on! Everones very excited, they are dancing around with baubles attatched to their nipples and glittery knickers, but we have one problem.In the past ive had to stand by the plug socket and stay there all xmas for them to enjoy the lights, but now ive got Shadow my cat and lover, its nice to move around and do things together. Is there a way that I could get a power source from any other part of my body? Mother says maybe my bum would wrk. Would this give off energy do you think or does she just want to stick something up there and laugh at me and dance? I must act quickly, there is crowd gathering, please help? sent

2006-12-06 07:51:06 · 10 answers · asked by jackie t 2

my girlfreind wants me to move in with her and the four kids and live as man and wife am unemployed and she works as a cleanergetting £30 per week can anyone tell us how much we would get

2006-12-06 07:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by PRIVATE 1

2006-12-06 07:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by mna 2

i heard some guys cheat because obviously theres something the #1 person isn't giving them and looks for it w. someone else (other than sex). it is because the lack of Attention? Love? understanding? Space? I want to know why would you guys cheat and don't want to let go of the one your cheating on, why not just break it off and there wouldn't be any cheating!!! thats why i need to understand.

2006-12-06 07:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by yalamea2003 1

I love my boyfriend, but i don't think its the forever kind of love. It was once, but now its different. How can i explain that to him without hurting his feelings?

2006-12-06 07:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by Jaymi C 1

He found me, my first love, both are married with kids, he had a baby to be born soon. He emailed me, i took the bait, hes had my heart for a long time. We rekindled, he was honest and told me his baby was due in 3 weeks, but that he loved me and wanted to see me, I tried to resist at first, but I was afraid if I didnt, Id never know. So I did, all the feelings came back, that Id kept in my heart (8 yrs)He told me he was gonna tell her, he told his parents, they told him to follow his heart, then when he told the wife, she called his parents and threated them with the grandchildren. they then threated to disown him if he didnt do the right thing. So, he came to see me and told me that he had to be where he was at, he couldnt turn his back on the new baby. So he couldnt see me anymore, cause that made him want to be with me. SO the baby was born and Ive heard nothing since. He told me he wanted me to wait for him.His wife doesnt care. My husband forgave me. This was real love.

2006-12-06 07:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by janner1999 1

i get the feeling my partner doesn't love me the way that i love him, he never tells me he loves me unless im depressed he doen't show me much affection i just get the feeling he wants to be some where else

2006-12-06 07:34:00 · 17 answers · asked by zara13 1