Other - Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

last time I ask this question I got all kinds of jokes and bad comments that didnt help, but I also got some really good.
Anyways, like I said before, I been seperated from my girl of 7 years due to all kinds of problems, verbal abuse, liyin, not carin, concentratin at work more, payin attention to my dumb guy friends, but not cheatin. Anyways I been livin at my mom's since a month ago; my girls' aunt pass away like two weeks ago, she call me, and we started gettin closer, more "ok", she did told me durin that time "i want u back, cuz u are showin that you are changin, but give me time to fall in love wit you, cuz i do love u", but then again last week I acted like an idiot, and put pressure on her for us to get back together, and now we are back to square one again, now she tells me, "right now i dont know if i want u back" the same thing that she told me when i move out of the house. Before you go all crazy on me, i know is all my fault, and I want to fix things, we have a son of 2

2006-12-06 13:00:34 · 20 answers · asked by Darksied 2

this makes me sound like a s**t but anyway; about three weeks ago i had unprotected sex with a man, then about 5 days ago i did it again with another man. is there any way to tell who the father is if i am pregnant, before the baby is born. could they scan me and see how developed the baby is or something? i can get one of the "dads" to give DNA i think but the other one is an idiot anyway. what can i do??

2006-12-06 13:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think it's ok for them to date? interracial relationship. should a law ban that? what do you Dislike about your oppisite race... for example....black and white... so on so forth

2006-12-06 12:47:35 · 27 answers · asked by Tre 1

its no or never time

2006-12-06 12:46:27 · 6 answers · asked by DILJALE 1

Assuming of course that you want to have a baby, and are otherwise in a position to do so. What do you think is the "right" length of time to wait and why?

2006-12-06 12:31:48 · 15 answers · asked by Jarby 2

2006-12-06 12:30:09 · 2 answers · asked by Good_Girl07 1

2006-12-06 12:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend found out his ex best friend was the town slut. she was only nice to him cuz she wanted to get in his pants. he stood up for her but never ever wanted her like that. he thought of her as a sister. she's like obbessed with him. leaves him 200 txts a day. calling him. showing up at his cancer treatments. wanting to **** him. he's getting pissed off at her and want her out of his life. his sister might call the cops. she keeps threatening to take pills unless he is with her. I cant take the stress and niether should my boyfriend. he has told her tons of times to stop. but she wont. I'm sick and tired of it. I feel like breaking up with him cause of it but I love him too much. HELP!!?!!?!?!?!

2006-12-06 12:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by Angelina S 1

Because I am 21 and have 2 kids people assume I'm on benefits, that my kids don't have the same father, that I have no qualifications (when I have quite a few), that I don't own my own home, that I don't have a job, that I force my boyfriend to work loads of hours while I sit watching daytime tv then complain about not seeing him. I just asked a question and everybody assumes these things, grrr. I want to work full time and let him be a house husband because I have more qualifications than him. But he wants to work in a shitty job working shitty hours because he is too proud. I don't have a social life and when I do get to go out (once a year!!) he gets jealous! I have a crappy life because men are STUBBORN! why are you so stubborn! And no he's not cheating because he hasn't got the flaming energy!

2006-12-06 11:57:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend, of 6 years (lived together for 4 years) has stook by me since we got our 1st house 4 years ago, just b4 we sighned 4 our 1st house i told her that i was doing cocaine, (quite a lot, £200 a week), but would stop!. i did for a bit, then started again, then she thought i stopped, but didnt, then i did, then carried on, an thats how its been ever since. now its like this- every time i have it, she knows, instantly, either when we talk on fone, by the tone of my voice, or instantly when she see's me, trouble is, she hates it as much as me. i think she is only hanging about to save the shame she will feel, also, i know she loves me unconditionally, why? she puts things off with her friends because she doesnt want to leave me at a loose end, i have even said and done bad things to her... look people, i know u r all gunna slag me off here, but please, after that, try an help... my partner is 100% normal, in every way, i love her loads an loads, wats up with me???????

2006-12-06 11:25:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

this person is sisters best friend. she states she's over me and is giong and bringing to party someone new it's only been 2 mont hs .how come she's already over me

2006-12-06 11:12:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was some time during school and I was wacthing teh boys play football when my other freinds came over to watch with me. Then one of my guy freinds shouted out That I like him! I was so embarrasss and left! I sit next to him in classs and when I went inside I didnt look at him and he didnt look at me. I was embarrasss and humliated. The worst part was that he was my best guy freind.

2006-12-06 11:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by carribianlatinqueen 2

Okay first thanks for helping me out with this. I've liked this guy for a really long time! And my friends asked him on Halloween if he liked me back. He like smiled, and walked away. My friends now have dared me to ask him out. But, I've never had a boyfriend before and I don't know how to ask him out! Help, please!

2006-12-06 11:09:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to start today , contacting people for my kids to be found and the flier idea was really great. And what kind of world do we live in when the police cant help with something as serious as this? All the hype people put on mothers about fathers rights, and i trusted a father who I normally wouldnt trust with my dog and he is hurting me so bad. and he is hurting my kids because they want their mom too. And my other kids, they miss their little sister and brother.

2006-12-06 11:08:19 · 1 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1

my best friend is great.. we laugh nonstop together & love each other to death. but, due to a broken family life, etc, she is very deprived of attention. this is one of her few major flaws. i never really minded it much until now, when i began to like this guy. the thing is, im so shy around him and can never get any words out. i guess she didnt like his attention away from her, so she, being the social butterfly she is, has begun to talk to him when im not around (in classes that im not in) i hear from different people that she is flrting w/ him (which she does with many ppl). she is friendly, pretty, outgoing, good at making personal connections.. so im worried that he'll begin to like her

i know that "a true friend wouldnt do that" but she has a tough background and its understandable (besides, ending the friendship is NOT an option). when i asked her to stop flirting with the guy, she got defensive & b!tchy. how do i get her to stop flirting w/o making things sore btwn us?

2006-12-06 11:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. Okay I like this guy and he is really cute but I don't know how to tel him. We are the same age and we talk on messenger and all and now I am really getting to like him a lot!! I don't know how to tell him becuase we live states away!!! So what do I do? How do I tell him?Thanks bye

2006-12-06 11:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by gddmehta 1

I was picked on a lot as a little kid. Even though it stopped by the time I was in late elementary and never had any trouble in high school, I haven't been able to move past it. I still feel the way I did when I was seven. I'm really self-conscious about myself and I'm always worried that it will happen all over again. I know it sounds stupid because it was so long ago, but I can't move past it. How can I move on?

2006-12-06 11:00:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

so all the time I hear "OMG you're so tall" or "i feel so short" and i hear it from the same people everyday. i swear i hear it atleast 20 times a day. its really getting on my nerves

so my question is...
does anyone know how i can shut these people up???? any good comebacks or something i can say to make them get on with their life and stop being concerned with how tall i am!!??

2006-12-06 10:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 10:57:56 · 4 answers · asked by priya chary 1

Im trying to get back at my worst enemy that loves chocolate.................HELP??????????

2006-12-06 10:45:58 · 24 answers · asked by Nina W 1

I dont know where they are,their father is unstable and he is a drug addict. I know I have to trust in the Lord but I need other help too. The cops cant help and legal services cant help all because he signed the birthcertificate. I trusted him even after he went to jail to visit with our kids because I thought jail changed people but apparently only people change if they want to. I live in Kalamazoo Mi and Chicago is so bigthat he can be anywhere with our 3yr old son and 4yr old daughter. I have been trying to get him to return them for 7 months. I only talk to his mom and she is going to protect her drug addict son no matter what. My family went to the cops and there was nothing they could do about it either. I dont graduate for about 3 mths now and my school told me if I miss another day I will be dropped from the Medical Assisting program. I cant afford to do that because I want to be able to have something for my children. All four. I have a 9yr old & 7yr old at home also.

2006-12-06 10:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1

access. My older son aged 11 is in tears. He wants longer hair. Their Father has access laid down in a court order. Can I refuse to send them to him if he is threating to cut their hair, and upsetting my older son? He see's them every other weekend. though can be erratic. I feel as I do the majority of the parenting it should be up to me. Where do I stand?

2006-12-06 10:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't be racist- he may be a little digital man but he's got a big heart!

2006-12-06 10:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like something we will not forget that reminds us of this year.

2006-12-06 10:25:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 10:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by man bizi 2

I am the mother of his daughter and we have a great relationship other than his porn use and looking at other women. I fear he is not faithful to me because he does this when I am home and feel he does things with me that he wants with them and uses me as his "release" body. I know he loves me, but I don't understand why he does this! I know it is natural for a guy to be into it, but he is saying he wants to devote his life to me, yet he doesn't care how unhappy this stuff makes me, he just keeps looking and it isnt even just porn it is pictures of naked girls too and it makes me feel worthless and not good enough. Everytime I try to talk with him about it, he says I am being stupid and doesn't want to and WON'T discuss it with me. It really hurts but we love each other. I would never leave him because of it, but I have a hard time trusting him because of it and feel like he would cheat on me if someone asked him to. I dont feel like I am the only woman in his sexual world. WHY!!!!????

2006-12-06 10:11:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend and i have a band together i play guitar and he sing withour other friends but he got an AMAZING offer from a record company and we come from a small town so this is a once in a lifetime chance but they only want solo artists so the rest of us arent included in the deal his family needs the money but him and i have been friends for 9 years and hes only 18 and he says he doesnt want to leave me behind while he becomes famous i have tried everything and he still wont go i even got the rest of the band to try and help me but he keeps saying he wont leave me behind im only 15 so i cant go what should i do???

2006-12-06 10:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Grandmother my mums mother in law has just died and her work is refusing to pay my mum compassionate leave for the time she had of after nanna died because she didnt request the compassionate leave the thing is my grandmother died so suddenly that we didnt have time to request this and they are now refusing to let her go to the buriel on 18th dec because she had the time off before
Please can you tell me if theres anyway we can contest this or sort this out because its making my mum depressed.

2006-12-06 10:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by lozzi_pop22 4

ok so i've been really mad this week and i know ill be the same next week......and i want to experres my emotions how can i do that???....i want to write poems...but can i write poems that dont ryme and just say how I FEEL???

2006-12-06 09:57:38 · 7 answers · asked by Me 6

Thoughts on this?

2006-12-06 09:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Simone E 2