I was picked on a lot as a little kid. Even though it stopped by the time I was in late elementary and never had any trouble in high school, I haven't been able to move past it. I still feel the way I did when I was seven. I'm really self-conscious about myself and I'm always worried that it will happen all over again. I know it sounds stupid because it was so long ago, but I can't move past it. How can I move on?
2006-12-06 11:00:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tinkerbel, Sit in a quiet place and go inside yourself. Then go back in time to that younger Tinkerbel when she was being picked on. Talk to her, tell her you love her, are there for her and ask her how she is feeling NOW (the now is as you are talking with her). Then tell her you will always be there for her...give her a big hug and kiss and say goodbye, for now. Do this every evening for a week. And every time you are visited by these thoughts, talk to your younger self and give reassurance. Gradually, over a few days, perhaps a few weeks, you will begin to realize that youcan't change the past but you can change how you feel about the past. You are visiting your feelings and soothing them. I send you loving support.
2006-12-06 11:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you need not to worry about nothing but your future. Always remember that it won't happen because now you can make it stop. ALl you have to do is relax and enjoy the days one day at a time and to the fullest and not worry. If you can't get over it then go see a shrink he might prescribe something that can help. and if you need someone to talk or some one to listen, IM me or e-mail me I will be here for support.
2006-12-06 19:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can move on. you know when i was young in 1 n 2 grade i got picked on because my hair was short like a guys and i got picked on really bad and i cry and shyt. Now every1 tries to get wit me and even the kids that picked on me. You will always have someone criticize you but u gonna have to move one it's life.
2006-12-06 19:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by babychula928 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember this...(this quote helped me get through my self esteem issues)..."dwelling on the past only sets limitations for the future".
2006-12-06 19:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋