this makes me sound like a s**t but anyway; about three weeks ago i had unprotected sex with a man, then about 5 days ago i did it again with another man. is there any way to tell who the father is if i am pregnant, before the baby is born. could they scan me and see how developed the baby is or something? i can get one of the "dads" to give DNA i think but the other one is an idiot anyway. what can i do??
2006-12-06 13:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ones white, ones black!!
2006-12-06 13:03:36 · update #1
what u siad is great they can scan you and get blood samples it sounds like a hard ? but its ok babe
2006-12-06 13:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by NICKLE C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DNA test. If you can get one guy to provide a DNA test and he's not the father then i don't see a reason to get the other guy in for a test. He would be the father. Also, I wouldn't listen to the girl called 'oh just like that'. Only you know if your ready to take care of a child. If your not i would suggest to give the child up for adoption and give him or her a chance to have a life. To love, live, laugh, cry, experience, be curious. My personal opinion is that abortion is murder. If it's growing, it's alive. Your choice though.
2006-12-06 21:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by mrd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can do a sonogram and get an estimate of how far along you are. It's not accurate enough to be able to definitely answer your question, though. If they do an amniocentisis, they can do a DNA test, but that also increases the risk of miscarriage. I suggest waiting until the baby is born.
2006-12-06 21:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually in extreme reasons(for instance, if there is something wrong with the baby) they can check the sex of the baby before you can tell on the ultrasound by withdrawing fluids out with a needle. But as far as paternity goes, you will just have to wait this out until the baby is born. and dont worry you're not a slut. It happens to the best of us.
2006-12-06 21:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you may not be able to know for sure but an ultrasound can tell you roughly how far along you may be and you could try to figure it out by that. for future reference, which i hope you know, if you dont want some idiot being the father of your child- dont have unprotected sex, and if you dont want to have this problem, dont sleep around. have more respect for yourself than that
2006-12-06 21:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a slut!Its very common,but i dont see how you can tell who fathered the child until he/she is born.My advice to you though is to please..be honest with the 2 guys.The most hurtful thing you can do is to tell a man hes the father when he might not be!!
2006-12-06 21:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by kandiebar20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg-that poor unborn child.
NO, THEY CAN'T "SCAN" YOU.
please give the child up for adoption. you really don't sound like parent material. actually, you sound 10.
take a pregnancy test, thank God if it's negative, then go get a blood test for STDs.
ps- STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX!
2006-12-06 21:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing if they are the same race ...just wait and after the birth get the dna
2006-12-06 21:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're are ready to be a mother, you should abort and save everyone.
2006-12-06 21:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋