Other - Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

my name is Jiau Lin.I'm looking for an english name that is closses to my name

2006-12-04 23:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by tan 1

2006-12-04 23:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by Jesus G 2

For this whole semester my ego had eaten me up. My marks fell down drastically. I was the smartest in class and I thought that I had what it takes to face the tests and hence the situations caused me to forget that everything needs hard work. I realised that recently. I am committed to work 200% harder next semester. But, is it too late? Please give me some words of encouragement.

2006-12-04 23:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1

I figure my partner couldn't have loved me when we first started as over the years she's done her best to change me. And she's done it in such a way that for a long time I believed I made the changes because I wanted to. Now I realise I was forced. Without starting WW3, just how can I subtley change things back?

2006-12-04 23:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl at chruch she is 15 i am 17; and oneday after chruch done. i want to pick up a book that i look at her that she looks at me. alot. and lasttime i was at chruch she put her hand up to ask something to my firend and she keeps on looking at me. when i bink she binks. last time one of her firend hold some chips i take the chips of her firend and give it to her. does she know what does that mean.?

2006-12-04 23:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know why,it's because they were preggers with you, raised you etc. but must we love them.does everybody loves their parents? i don't really feel anything for my parents. i'm polite to them but that's all.they're called parents because it's their job to raise us. i think my mom knows i don't really love her as she loves me. she asked whether i love her a few times. and it makes me feel so bad cos i know the answer and why can't i be like other normal ppl that loves their parents.

2006-12-04 23:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1

I JUST FARTED AND CANT SMELL OR SEE IT WERE DID IT GO ANY HELP IN FINDING IT WILL BE GREAT I'LL TELL YOU WHAT HAPPENED I TRYED TO MAKE A ''CUPCAKE'' SO I FARTED IN MY HAND THEN CLOSED IT THEN OPENED AND HAD A LOOK AND ITS NOT THERE AND DOESNT SMELL WHY IS THAT?????


DO YOU THINK I MIGHT HAVE A GHOST IN MY ROOM AND HE OR SHE OR SHIM OR THAT OR A IT, TOOK IT?????



HOW WOULD I EXPLAIN THIS TO MY IMAGENERY FRIEND THAT HIS CUPCAKE IS GONE!!!!!!!!!!!???

2006-12-04 23:11:28 · 4 answers · asked by p1mp_1n 1

my good mate died a liitle while after a someone burgaled her house and i saw her die and come out of her house on the ambulance stretcher thing and i wernt aloud to go to her funeral coz of ****** school. my auntie died, my little cousin deid when she was 1 and my gf's mum died. i just keep having flashbacks and nightmares and dont no how to get rid of them, any suggestions

2006-12-04 22:57:11 · 8 answers · asked by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3

All my life i have had someone living with me, family friends etc. And never spent a night alone in a house. Then when i moved out of home and had to spend my first tiem alone cos my house mate was away i was stalked and he was never caught. Since then i have had 2 kids and up until 2 yrs ago i still got a friend to stay when hubby was away. Now if hes away its just me and the kids. I sleep restlessly, making sure everything is deadlocked. My mobile is next to my bed and so is my cordless. I aslo dont do too sleep until late. And keep waking up to everynoise. I hate to feel like this. Does anyone else feel this way.

2006-12-04 22:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-04 22:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by divalicious 2

2006-12-04 22:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by FossiL 1

out with their friends? and is it a problem?

2006-12-04 22:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by Pebbles 2

Fallen in love with your FWB but then when this was over realised that it wasn't actually love?

2006-12-04 22:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by dfgdfdf d 1

I hv a gal friend 4 twelve months now,we are ol in da same college,am a last year but she is one year b4 last, I lov her so much! One day she explained mi abt one guy approaching her,it was june, but I com 2 reliase that she is having relation with him! I met them on the bed! She said sorry 2 mi! Wat can I do? Should I liv her!should I excuse her! Help me pls my friends!

2006-12-04 22:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by kijana 1

Is it less selfish to leave your family(spouse and kids) to start a new life for yourself, or is commiting suicide less selfish?

2006-12-04 22:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wife and baby now, in another country. I'm having a hard time seeing why I shouldn't date liberally, like I did before, in another country besides where my family is. Instinctively, I feel the need to do it. But, at the same time, I instinctively feel it's wrong. What gives?

2006-12-04 22:00:36 · 17 answers · asked by manna eater 3

who feels that gay, queers, puffs (whaterver you want to call them) should all be put down, Before you give an emotional answer, just think what they do to each other!!!! Is that really natural? would you like them near your sons and daughters or younger brothers and sister? Go on report me for abuse, but first have the grace to see what the answers produce.

2006-12-04 21:50:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew an older woman at work for about a year. She is 35 and I'm 24, she is divorced with 3 kids. We got on really well and we were really great friends but behind the scenes we were having sex. I thought that we were good, good friends until I got a new job away from her and we started to argue, mostly because she got a new man etc etc.

People at work began to notice this, and the first thing they said when I got the new job is "at least it will put some distance between you two". Since then when I have talked to them they have said she uses people, really loud and she is friends with another man in the office.

I want to know they wanted to seperate us? I really liked her

2006-12-04 21:43:39 · 3 answers · asked by dfgdfdf d 1

He somehow talked me into living with him, and I regret it so much. He helped me out in the past, but I feel like I have to draw the line somewhere. I'm trying to clean up my life and I can not do it while living with him. He gets too messed up on drugs and can't handle his booze either. What would you do?

2006-12-04 21:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by cygnusx1 1

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-04 21:09:29 · 3 answers · asked by downtokissit 1

i am sorry i was not clear. i am a 21, 6 foot 3 year old Cuban. i go to the gym at least 3 times a week and i am 210lb and i good looking. i get along very well with woman. i make then laugh, i make then feel comfortable around me. the question meant, that given all of that why am i still a virgin.

2006-12-04 21:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by Dennis B 1

2006-12-04 20:45:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby is a teacher in one of the language school in the city. He has lots of students (adults) from different countries. He mentioned to me that he has an Eastern Europe student.

Yesterday after I checked my mail, I had this urge to check his mail (I know that I was being such a lousy wife and I shouldn't crossed his privacy like this, but I did.. I wish I didn't!). So, I checked his mail. And there it was an email from his student (I know this because she's an eastern europian, plus from her e-mail address) sent him pictures of her, some of the picture were really bugged me. She said on her mail that she sent those pictures as she promised to him. The pictures weren't rude but quite inappropiate between student-teacher! I was so crossed but at the same time I coulnd't tell him how I feel.

So, in the next morning, I tried to logged-in to his e-mail account to see if he's contacting her and this time I couldn't logged-in. He has changed his password! I'm so worried! help me!

2006-12-04 20:33:50 · 17 answers · asked by minime_risk 2

i asked this guy out for a drink and he said yeah,give me a call when your next in town (we live in differrent towns).

so, whenever im out in town i let him know and he does the same.we have only kissed,even though ive stayed at his place a few times.he wanted to take things a little further sexually but i didnt.he still wants to see me.i know this was giving out the wrong signals.

this arrangement has been going on for months now.why wont he ask me out on a date?
is he confued by my mixed signals?

he knows i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 8 months ago.he does ask about my ex.

is he concerned about my ex?

my ex has moved away though.

is he shy?

hes 29,single and has never been married before.he has his own place and his career is sorted.wouldnt he be looking to settle down?

2006-12-04 20:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1

2006-12-04 20:06:59 · 3 answers · asked by dweebette4lks 1

2006-12-04 20:05:41 · 12 answers · asked by dtaz 1

I have beeen in a 2 yr relationship with my b/f and we live together. For the last 6-7 months I have been uninterested in him sexually. I can't pin-point what triggered this, other than we bought a house together around that time. He is really hurt by this and it has caused a severe rift in our relationship. Is it normal to lose interest in sex when you love the person you are with? Any suggestions (nothing dirty) on how to get back to normal?

2006-12-04 20:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by Moose 2

this guy started me over msn and hes telling me to go to his house and stuff to fight him with no weapons so i did then i went out his dad came round the corner to bash me then my mate pulled a knife on him because he was protecting me then that guy hit my mate with a golf club and now the guy is charging us and we also through a beer bottle at his house
what do u think will happen

2006-12-04 19:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Rick M 1

There's nothing wrong with the passion levels, (au contraire mon frere) but because we're not married we've decided to wait. (I thought that was the pruning initially..) but no... Jo's got other things on his mind. Won't tell me what it is, but has told me he loves me more than life itself and cannot live without me. Except he says the pruning bit kinda sad, and will NOT tell me... "Will talk to you about it at a later stage my baby.." HUH??!!! ...

P.S. those who answered the question on would you feel safe or stalked - same guy ... and yes, I love him completely too.

2006-12-04 19:29:09 · 2 answers · asked by Sugar 4

If a man says it's time to "prune the tree of this relationship so that it can grow strong."

What does he mean?

2006-12-04 19:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by Sugar 4