Other - Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I am not talking about happiness...I am asking what or who really and deaply brings you true joy?

2006-11-30 23:52:48 · 19 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

I cheated on my Girlfriend of 2 months when i was ill with Depression & Anxiety Attacks because my head was a mess and because i felt i could not confide in her about my illness because i thought it was too early to drop something like that on her......... but when i got better and eventually told her it turned out she was really supportive & told me she loved me for the first time which is when i got hit with this sudden urge of guilt which is eating me up to the point of me getting ill again and i don't know what to do now and no words from anyone can take this horrible guilt away, i really love her more now and want to do the right thing but don't know what that is?

2006-11-30 23:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by jack s 1

(I know your on Yahoo answers so don't be silly)

I am in yatton, Bristol at work and it is 11.59 in the morning ! And I am BORED STIFF!

2006-11-30 22:58:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 22:55:56 · 2 answers · asked by appu k 1

What would you write on the ticket of wishes for the sixtieth anniversary of your grandparent?

2006-11-30 22:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 15 and i'm 5 8". one of the girls in my school basketball team asked if i could join as they were looking for tall girls. i said i'll get back to them. now basketball is something i wouldn't even dream of doing so i thought that i'll just say no the other day as i'm not really interested but when i told my parents they so happy and asked me to join. now i don't want to let down my parents expectations and i'm worried if i'll make a fool of myself. i'm even kinda nervous as i don't know anyone else in coaching. what do i do?

2006-11-30 22:42:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family only buy the “under 16’s”, my parents don’t even buy for my bro or I as they feel Xmas is too commercialised &prefer2 buy gifts during the year–so we don’t really celebrate Xmas. My husband has 2brothers&1sister–who always spend £100 including partners and parents (none of them have kids) whereby my husband has 2. We can’t afford the £550 this year (we have just got married) -so I suggested a “secret santa” so we only have to buy1 gift as opposed to9.They ALL said xmas isn’t xmas without presents so it was dismissed. No one can afford it but will buy gifts for every1 & get into debt JUST to get presents in return.I feel his family are being greedy &am reluctant to buy gifts as I don’t want debt-but I don’t want to make a fuss as this has been the “norm” for them forever!My hubby agrees with me – but doesn’t want to change the “tradition” My argument is a) we cant afford presents b) I would prefer 2 buy gifts for my hubbys kids rather than “adult” family, what should I do?

2006-11-30 22:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have our own house, very good jobs and a strong relationship, what do you think?

2006-11-30 22:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by ~Natacha~ 2

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2006-11-30 22:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years.. and living with him for 2 years.. but were not married. ANd i met this guy about 6 months ago that Lives with his girlfriend and they have a child together.. but there not married. The relationship started out as a friendship but one thing led to another.. and me and the "other guy" have agreed that we are boyfriend/ girlfriend. I love my Real boyfriend alot.. but i love the other one tooo and he loves me.. i know its wrong cause he has a kid but im in love. Call me a ***** or w/e but it is what is is.. but my question is.. is it really an AFFAIR? since neither group is married? and could the other man leave his other girlfriend to be with me ? Even though theres a child involved? Please help!! thanx.

2006-11-30 21:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by LifeisCrazy. 1

I have been with him for three months, and he has practically lived with me - as he has spent everynight staying at my house (which i do a houseshare with other ppl) He has asked me to move in with him (At his mums house-although she is never there) which financially would be very good, and we are always together anyway so it would be the same.
Should i move in with him ? Is this the right thing to do ?

2006-11-30 21:38:24 · 29 answers · asked by Tamara 2

I get them all the time, well.. at least once a day (everrryday). I just had another one. Sometimes it even makes me emotional and want to cry. Like seeing/reading about an old friend online, and thinking about how much we have matured and are out in this big world by ourselves now. It seems like "just yesterday" we were 6 y/o in girl scouts and ballet class. Or, thinking about sitting in French class and just staring at the pictures and imagining what'd it be like to be in some exotic place-the carefree nature is what I miss most I think.

Do you have this? Or am I one of the only ones that gets sad over these things? I'm 22 now and get glum every time I realize that I've lived 1/3 of my life expectancy.

2006-11-30 21:19:53 · 8 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

I do not have a clue what to get my girlfriend for Christmas, I have only been with her for 3 months and I would to love to buy her something original, she has been so so good to me since we got together and I would love to buy her something nice. I am only on a low wage and can spend about £50, maybe look at Amazon but I have no idea what to buy. All help greatly appreciated.

2006-11-30 20:41:08 · 34 answers · asked by Paul C 6

He's 23 and I'm 22, we've been dating/living together for 2 years. Over this past summer he wanted to break up w/me for 2 days bc I "wouldn't support him" if he moved for a career (at a summer camp). He left a few days later to work temporary as a fill-in at a camp where he had many gf's growing up. I told him yes though, I would drop school and move with him.

The entire time he was there he talked about buying my engagement ring and what it should be like, but now.. months later he does not remember it at all. Although, a few weeks ago he remembered it bc he said "oh yeah, I was going to buy it w/$ from camp.. but I bought an xbox" and laughed about it.

I have also found girl clothes/things in his car that are not mine.

What'd ya think?

2006-11-30 20:40:50 · 8 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

2006-11-30 20:26:08 · 7 answers · asked by rocnat 1

2006-11-30 20:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 20:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everybody! I'm 15 now and I remember when I was like 6 or probably younger my older cousin (in his teens than,23 now) would sit me on his lap and put his hands in my panties and he would like bounce ME and move around.I would tell him to stop but he would hold on to me.I was close to my brothers so I would hang around them and my cousins a lot. I cant remember if it was just me or him or one of my brothers or other cousins was there. But theres no way my brothers will let him do that to me.I used to share beds with my brothers and they never tried anything with me. I never told anybody but I remember and think about it a lot. I thought it was nothing than but now I know it was wrong for him to be touching me. And I think he remembers to,cuz every time I see him now he alwayz make the conversation short and I'm like so scared of him and mad at him at the same time. I was so happy when him and his family moved out of state just coming bac for the holidays. Now hes out of college and is APART of a big Christian Band In VA. How do I tell my family what happened...will they believe me? Should I get over my fear of him & go to him and just ask why he did that to me?

2006-11-30 20:12:46 · 22 answers · asked by so_real_n_beautiful09 2

My Boyfriend works third shift and he works in an accounting office, basically a 9x9 room. he usually works alone but recently he works with a woman who usually works the days my man has off. because it is Christmas coming up, so they have been working together... I know it is stupid but i get jealous when he is working with this woman and i dont know why it is really stupid and petty but i get pissed when they work together...IS this completely foolish?? i know he loves me and is not screwing around at work but i just feel like he is spending all his work hours alone at night with another woman, talking and laughing and blah blah blah.. I know it is his job but i get jealous... Am i totally screwed up?????

2006-11-30 20:01:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in love with the guy im chatting for several months now, and he feels the same way too..but the thing is, he doesn't know that im already married my husband is working in another country.. i know its cheating..but i can't control it. At first, it was just for fun and for me to keep my mind busy..but later on..i found out that i'm fallen for him and so is he with me...we keep on chatting until now...and he will come here in my country just to see me..what will i do? As for me, i still dont want this feeling to end..and i don' know what to do..pls...help!

2006-11-30 19:58:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well what happened was, me mother shadow and Llama were drinking frothy coffees in the kitchen and wondering which kippers to hang on the xmas tree when we could hear strange sounds coming from the cellar. The last time any of us went down the cellar was 1997 when I discovered I had feelings for cats. It couldnt be brother surely because he said he was going out to buy some new knickers. Anyway, we opened the door and we could see a big heap at the bottom of the stairs and it was moving around. We turned on the light and to our shock we could see brother naked with his bum out and the bum of a 65 year old man!! Brother was behind the man and they looked like they were dancing. We asked what he was doing ,he said the man had fallen down the stairs and lost use of his legs so he was trying to 'shove' him back up the stairs. I mean I would usually believe it if it was anywhere else but why did he have to do it in the cellar?Couldnt he have done it in the kitchen like normal?sent

2006-11-30 19:56:50 · 22 answers · asked by fletch 2

My ex-boyfriend has been bothering me lately, hes trying to get me back! Im 9 months pregnant to my now boyfriend tho. my ex wont stop calling and he wont stop comin over. How do I tell him to back off!?

2006-11-30 19:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Yahmina 2

I have a boyfriend of 9 1/2 months. We've been friends for over a year before that. We're in our early 20s.

We talk about marriage all the time and our future kids. However, little things about our future seem to clash. Like he wants dogs. I don't want slobbering pooping tearing things apart machines. He wants to be able to pee in the shower. I don't wanna shower in that. He wants to wear shoes in the house. I don't want whatever he stepped on outside (poop, mud, gum, etc.) all over the house. I know these are little things, but I can't stop thinking about it.

Is it too early to even be thinking about these kinds of things in the future? Should I worry about this way later? I really don't know if he's downright serious about that kinda stuff. I don't wanna surprise him and bring something like that up outta nowhere.

I know it's normal in a long term relationship to talk about the future. And compromise is important.

I'd just like to hear what you guys think. Thanks. : }

2006-11-30 19:29:48 · 19 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7

I love my husband and a nother man who is just the oposit of my husband. me and my husband are tring to work things out. But i am in love with his cousin he doesn't know i love or have a major thing for him. [the other guy] he is such a jetalmen and is sooo cute and he doesn't drink like my husband does. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!

2006-11-30 19:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by distantangel78 1

Do you bully others or did others bully you? In our school, I have seen students bully others. I want to know your opinions especially those who bully and have been bullied. How did your friends, teachers or parents with the problem? Do share. Thanks!

2006-11-30 18:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by Tsina 2

my date of bith is 12mar1987.lstly i lover her too much

2006-11-30 18:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How we can make a girl to love us ?

2006-11-30 18:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a virgin, but i'm gonna lose me virginity in 2 days, but i don't know what to do. HELP!!!! What do you have to do in sex besides wearing a condom. HELP!!!

2006-11-30 17:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by greenguy45 1

other on&off.We live&work in the same neighborhood so we see each other everyday unless I go out of my way to avoid it.He said he loves & misses me too but what I can’t understand is why I am always be the first one to call to make up with him even it his faults.I stop seeing him for a week every time he hurt my feelings then I will call him he always makes it hard for me before he gives in.Even when he was just my boyfriend I asked him why he can bear not calling me for weeks if he really love and miss me, his answer is:“I am just a strong guy”.He said whenever he sees me walk by, he look away because he said it melts his heart.Times I let him see me pass by & he would do something to call my attention to look his way.We made up but it is still true that if not for me walking by where he works, it will never happen.Is he really just a strong guy with high pride or he really doesn’t love and miss me that much anymore?He said he doesn’t mean all the mean&cruel things that he says to me?

2006-11-30 17:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by liv 1

just be the sane-minded person you are the rest of the year? I mean, every year you go through this, feel the obligations, get out the decorations, put them away again, say how joyful you are, etc. Would you stop if you could?

Bottom line, what is your fly-on-the-wasll perspective on the holidays?

2006-11-30 17:01:57 · 22 answers · asked by Who Knew? 2