I cheated on my Girlfriend of 2 months when i was ill with Depression & Anxiety Attacks because my head was a mess and because i felt i could not confide in her about my illness because i thought it was too early to drop something like that on her......... but when i got better and eventually told her it turned out she was really supportive & told me she loved me for the first time which is when i got hit with this sudden urge of guilt which is eating me up to the point of me getting ill again and i don't know what to do now and no words from anyone can take this horrible guilt away, i really love her more now and want to do the right thing but don't know what that is?
2006-11-30 23:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh really...??? finding an excuse and blaming it on your depression and anxiety attacks...If you cant think well.. then dont go into a relationship...
2006-12-01 00:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break. Yes, you cheated and that was a bad thing to do and you should feel guilty.
However, learn from this mistake and move on. Never, ever kiss another girl again or do anything which remotely suggests cheating on your girlfriend. Try and forget about kissing someone else and instead do something nice for your girlfriend.
This isnt worth making yourself ill over really. Learn from it and dont do it again.
2006-11-30 23:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion,it wasn't cheating. You kissed another girl-that's as far as it went-and you realized your mistake. Do you have any plans to hook up with this girl you kissed again? Are you in contact with her?If the answers to those 2 questions are no,then I would say it was a brief moment of madness. Try to forget about it,and concentrate on getting your depression and anxiety attacks controlled,and also concentrate on building a loving relationship with your girlfriend.
Take care and best of luck.
2006-11-30 23:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will relieve your guilt is to tell her what you have done and don't make excuses for yourself. We all make mistakes, however, you have to realise that your girlfriend may well feel betrayed for some time. I would definately say that you should not see the other girl any more as that would add extra hurt. The decision is yours.
2006-11-30 23:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Princesspoison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was only a kiss forget about it it is not really cheating as long as you do not keep on doing it or do more with this girl move on with your girlfriend she does not need to know about a kiss i would not want to know if it was me as long as that is all it was and u never see her again i would just forget it but if you think it might push you back into depression then confess she will probably be mad at first but she should get over it soon enough it was ONLY A KISS????
2006-11-30 23:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men and women view "cheating" differently! For women, it's emotional - for men, it's usually physical. Most women would say if you're having an emotional relationship with another woman, you're cheating. Men don't think they're cheating until something was physical.
2006-11-30 23:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by MHB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right thing is to sit her down and tell her. you will feel better and hopefully she will be understanding. tell her that you love her more than anything and you feel that you have to be honest with her because you feel so bad for what you did....also tell her things like no one compares to her and that you stopped in the middle of it because you realized what you were doing....but if she is anything like i am be prepared for questions like: what did you do to get so close? what did you do to make her think that she could kiss you? things like that because if my bf kissed another girl i would know that there had to be something he did to make her think that it is ok to kiss her like touching, flirting, comments, being really close...things like that....so be prepared for that kinda stuff.....normally i wouldnt help someone that did what you did but everyone deserves a second chance...right.
i hope i could help in some way.
2006-11-30 23:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but yea it is cheating no matter of the excuse!!!
Look dont touch thats the motto with me and the BF we have a wonderful and loyal relationship
2006-11-30 23:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about someone so much your heart and your mind should never let you do that. If you both love each other then she would have understood what you was going through. i would call that cheating, if it was an actual passionate kiss.
2006-12-04 02:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by xlottyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was only a kiss put it behind you and move on don't let the guilt eat at you as it will destroy your relationship. yes you did wrong and you know you did its in the past live for your future.
2006-11-30 23:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by pussycatwinnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋