Other - Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I think there is really something wrong and I'm hoping I can get some answers. My boyfriend is 36 yrs. old and his mother acts as if he is still a child,she gets jealous if he and I invited to events with friends and she's not, she gets sort of a high when he and I fight, yet depressed and somewhat angry when we get along, when we have private conversations she wants to know what was said between us, when have an argument she wants to know what its about, she constantly on a none stop basis compares him to his dad that left them 34 yrs. ago and who is now dead, she actually told me that she knows her son is well endowed because when he was young and she would bathe him he was endowed them, this just sickens me,she is always trying to out do me in what he gets, needs, wants etc. She has interferred in every realtionship he has ever had, and makes a point of telling me just as the others that he will never marry that I should treat us as a friendship. Sick and twisted?

2006-11-26 23:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by jenznrn09 1

2006-11-26 23:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are both in love..and both happy..

2006-11-26 23:37:23 · 17 answers · asked by gracie 2

it will be very embrassing for me to bleed in front of my boyfriend.what can i do to prevent it?

2006-11-26 23:35:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 23:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by Bette 1

im seeing this bloke casually but i think he may have a girlfriend.im not sure tho.i dont know if im just being paranoid. ive been to his place a few times and there is no sign of another girl.

i know im not dating this guy or anything but i dont want to carry on seeing him if hes in a relationship.

i text him saying why have you been lying to me and he text me back saying, i havent told you anything anyway so i dont see how i have been lying to you?i can see what hes saying but isnt that just a technicality?as in, if i havent said anything, then i havent lied?or, am i just being a typical girl and reading into it too much?

2006-11-26 23:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1

his Christmas present that is x

2006-11-26 23:27:33 · 30 answers · asked by ? 6

It's on the 2nd January, but we also have to celebrate New Years' separately as it's the anniversary of the day we met!

2006-11-26 23:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Warlord 2

for 2 years now i have had this terrible habit... now it's tearing my life apart. i don't feel close to God, my friends are moving away, my family says i've become selfish and mean... what can i do?!?!? i've been trying to stop for a year now, nothing's worked! help me!!!!!!!

2006-11-26 23:02:24 · 10 answers · asked by redheads have more fun 1

2006-11-26 22:59:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sweeti 1

Men are not as soppy as women that's pretty much a fact. So what signs should I look for that my man loves me.

2006-11-26 22:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am planning to send some message of greetings for new year to my family, freinds and people in business relationship.
Is it really impolite or less sincereness to send by e-card instead of paper card?

2006-11-26 22:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by Muskie 2

have you guys ever been in this situation that,
you love that person, but you dont like em?

2006-11-26 22:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by kim l 1

We've been seeing each other for over a year now, and we knew that the question of wanting to have children would be an issue. So even before we started dating we discussed the question, and I thought we had come to a compromise that we could both live with (adoption), so that it wouldn't be an issue further down the road.
However, it seems now that it wasn't really resolved. We keep having the argument because I know I want children, and she does not. Though at the begining she said she was open to the idea as long as it was through adoption, and I agreed.
A few months into our relationship I moved cross country, and other than the children issue, we've been doing ok long distance.
Now it's time for her to move out here with me, but we're both wondering if that's the right thing, if we can't agree to have kids or not. We know it's along ways off, but should we stay with each other if we can't compromise now? Especially before the big commitment of her moving here happens?

2006-11-26 22:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because she heard that they were huge and my husband replied. Show me yours and I will show you mine. Ok she might have had a few to drink but his answer wasn't the right one I expected from him considering I was very pregnant with our fist baby. He wouldn't admit that he was flirting with her. (I'm only responding to what she said and as if I would show it to her). I was really hurt by that comment the fact that he said show me yours and I'll show mine, he already agreed to it. How do you feel if you're on that situation?

2006-11-26 22:38:53 · 29 answers · asked by Amazing Chloe 1

As he hurt me years ago, and went on as if he did nothing wrong.I will bfeel guilty id I do nothing, and the longer I leave it the worse it will get.What do I do?I'm afraid that he may cause some friction in my already hectic life.

2006-11-26 22:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1

2006-11-26 22:08:06 · 9 answers · asked by nono 3

i like a girl, who is married for 4 months. But she has been staying with her inlaws for the past 4months as her husband is working abroad. So she actually had spend only 2 weeks with her husband. should i continue or leave it here and move on with life?

2006-11-26 22:05:50 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2

Hi, my boyfriend of 7 years' been going on internet dating websites and hav been swapping intimate photos of himself with girls (from locations within the next county)... on his profile he says he's looking for 1-1 encounter and cybersex and says that he won't accommodate but will travel.

I found out 1/2 a year ago and confronted him about it, he promise me that he wouldn't do it again. The other day I found out he has done it again and I spoke to a clairvoyant. She said that he will never leave me, he is just playing but my future is not with him and he will take it further with these girls.

I told him we are finished, he explained that he did stop for a long time.. he feels he can't perform in the bedroom (sex has been practically non existant, he doesn't have the confidence to initiate). He says that the internet is a fantasy and a way for him to feel like a man and that he would never go further. He suggested relationship councelling and gave me his modem. What do I do?

2006-11-26 22:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by mandy 2

2006-11-26 21:57:28 · 9 answers · asked by rusalka 3

2006-11-26 21:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by Mowri 4

In almost all long term relationships, that "Spark" will waver....how did you or do you keep it burning? I am talking relationships that lasted at least a couple-few years, since for me that qualifies as "long-term".
I really hope some of you will share your ideas and experiences. And when I talk about those "sparks", I mean not just the bedroom kind, but the sentimental and romantic ones as well. And men, I would really love to hear from you, since I don't know if my man realizes this is rather a normal issue for couples... Thanks in advance.

2006-11-26 21:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by rachprime 3

If you had the chance to say anything to anyone right now, what would you say to who & why?

2006-11-26 21:51:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

You wake up next to your man who you love so much and the first thing he says to you is "are you alright?" and hugs you.... Isnt it just one of the nicest feelings....

2006-11-26 21:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by me_me 1

... and I need some advice on the situation. I'm 21 years old and we have a baby together who is now 3 months old. He's always a had a bit of a temper but lately it's just got worse and worse.He slapped me across the face the other day when I was holding my baby, and I nearly dropped her.

He's not a drinker, or on drugs either, but I just can't take anymore. There have been incidents where neighbours have called the police but I've had to cover for him because of his job.

It's not that I don't want him to get fired, it's more that I'm scared of his reaction to me if he does get the sack, or if he gets in trouble at work.

Also, will a copper believe me - they're all his mates.

Please help. I can't tell my parents because they've moved to the US and don't really like the guy anyway - I'll just get 'I told you so.'

2006-11-26 21:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by The Claw is my master 2

I get a violation email for letting people know that thieves are ripping off gift card numbers from the stores, and cleaning out your gift cards on line, and someone can post a question that is either not nice, rude, racist, sexually oriented, or just off the charts of what the heck was that.....I just don't get it, do you?

2006-11-26 21:15:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, every time I get on this site, it's "I'm attracted to a married man" this and "I'm married but lusting after someone else" that. Have things always been this way, it's just that now we have the internet to blab all about it to strangers?

2006-11-26 21:12:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a friend who cheating on his girlfriend with other girls. he go's out most weekends and normally he comes back with i different girl.
i never stood for cheating dont matter who it is.
im not a great fan of his girlfriend it has to be said but never the less it still not right to cheat.
shood i tell his girlfriend what he is doing??
At end of day i dont really think he loves her at all.
To him she just a bit of meat on side. i cant stand anyone useing a girl like this. yes he maybe a friend but that dont give him the right to do this does it???
no one else is going to tell her and i dont think its right.
if my girlfriend cheated on me i would like someone to tell me.
girls would u like to be told if u was getting cheated on or would u rather catch him one day at it??? what would hurt most????

2006-11-26 21:10:40 · 5 answers · asked by alan h 3

ive been seeing this guy casually.hes been chasing me for years.we live in different towns so only meet by chance.i always stay at his place.i havent slept with him.

he tells me that he likes me and always pays me compliments.hes always flirting with me and does want to take "things" further.

when i was with him recently,he kept asking about my ex.i was with my ex for 6 years and engaged which he knew about.i ended the relationship with my ex.i knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has moved away.why is he mentioning my ex?i told him that it was over and in the past.

also,in the mornings he always wants me to leave early.usually he says he has his parents coming over but recently,i asked him why and he said it doesnt have to give a reason cause its his place.which is fair enough.why the rush with no reason?he wasnt funny about it but he was serious.

he is single as far as im aware, and there is no sign of a girlfriend at his place.

2006-11-26 20:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1

I mean they're just cliches and general knowledge and irrelevant opinions and even insults just for fun. I rarely get an answer with information I can really use, especially when I'm asking more personal or technical questions. The helpfulness of Yahoo! Answers is very limited.

2006-11-26 20:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1