have you guys ever been in this situation that,
you love that person, but you dont like em?
2006-11-26 22:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by kim l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes and in family relationships that can be fine - you can love your child but don't like them. However, in a mating relationship, i.e. boyfriend/girlfriend, while love is a primary factor in attraction, the staying power is caused by being friends with each other and liking each other. Ask any married couple who have been together for a long time - they are, primarily, best friends and the initial surge of overwhelming love is long past; however, their love has 'mellowed' and is still there, but the friendship is more important.
So the single biggest thing in looking for a potential life mate is not whether you love them but whether you like them. If you like them, then you have the seed-bed for love to grow. If you don't like them, then the love you have now will soon disappear.
2006-11-26 23:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother is often a pain in the ***. My mother said for years that she loves him but doesn't like him very much.
Ironically, she's now an alcoholic, so I love her but dont like her.
My wife sometimes says (if I've been winding her up) the same thing to me (that's only temporary though!!)
2006-11-26 22:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, i love my hubby but dont like or fancy him anymore....not a good situation to be in!
2006-11-27 00:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Love is love but you can still dislike someone.
I dislike my son on times but love is the overiding emotion.
2006-11-26 23:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by dancingcar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking you can predermine. Loving you can't.
It MUST happen from time to time.
BUT itis great when both happen at once.
2006-11-26 23:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and the love just turned out to be sexual attraction
the relationship didn't last long
2006-11-26 22:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, i'm very frugal with my feelings and don't give them unless i mean them 100 precent. to love is to love entirely regardless if they annoy you.
2006-11-26 23:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea man shitty situation its best to go no were near them which is harder said then done
2006-11-26 22:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Shane R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea. i have to love my mom but i dont like her!
2006-11-26 22:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my ex but one day you will awake up and not feel any think for them
2006-11-26 22:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋