i like a girl, who is married for 4 months. But she has been staying with her inlaws for the past 4months as her husband is working abroad. So she actually had spend only 2 weeks with her husband. should i continue or leave it here and move on with life?
2006-11-26 22:05:50 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have reservations when you say you have "feelings" for this lady? I wonder are these feeling recipricated? Are you getting clear signs that she has feelings for you or are these feelings of yours entirely related to unmet needs of your own? This situation can go one of three ways.....
(a) If she has feeling for you and is consciously sending out these signals then the relationship may develop into something more.
(b) If these feeling you have are a result of unmet needs of your own then it is a very dangerous situation and your friendship may be doomed (should you try to take things further).
(c) If (a) is the case then the relationship may develop but I doubt it will be a sincere and lasting parnership. Why? Because she has only recently committed to a life with someone else. If she is willing to sacrifice that relationship already then she is either selfish or very immature (probably both).
Sorry, just my thoughts.
Michael
2006-11-26 22:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move on with your life. Just think if you "did" end up with her, and if she left her husband for you...what happens when You go abroad,? My point is this, if she would do it to him after only a few months of marriage, what do you think she would do with you? The woman has no moral standards. Marriage is when you make a committment forever...not for a few months. You can still like her, but your best bet is to just find a single woman.
2006-11-26 22:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by shysdca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave her a long she is married now no Mary if she just spend 2 day with her husband she is still married so move on with your life
2006-11-26 22:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by EVA J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing is why you have such feeling for a married lady don't you think it will be better for her husband to have such feeling for her if hes not with her for some reason it their personal affair who are you to put your nose in their affair???? I suggest get a unmarried lady for yourself and start thinking about this lady that will be good for your health.
2006-11-27 00:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, never interrupt a marriage. It is amazing though, most people will become available if you wait long enough. Unfortunately most marriages don't last. But don't be the oaf to break it up. wait it out in the company of another woman. forget about her altogether. then, if she divorces, give it enough time and pounce.
2006-11-26 22:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you like it if when you're married someone was chasing your wife??? Even if she is already having problems or isnt living with her husband you have no right to come between them and cause them problems.
2006-11-26 22:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by ashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer would be two sided coin. For if you really LOVE her, then IT would be her happiness you would be concerned of. Not what would make you happy.
However, some would say, if you love someone, fight for it, come what may. What ever the consequences.
But above it all, does She love you? Or is it just your imagination and what you choose to believe? But what of your future, Her's?
2006-11-26 22:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by ervine B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look amte shes married for 4 months. she needs time to adjust with her in laws and husband. shes out of bounds. i suggest you leave her and get on with your life. if she is happy the way she is , let it be that way. if you love her you would care first fo her happiness.
2006-11-26 22:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divert your feelings to some other unmarried gals!
If u really love her dont disturb her married life... its a sin.
move on , life is waiting for you!
2006-11-26 23:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on because even if she could have a change of heart, it would take several years for everything to get settled again, with emotional turmoil for all.
2006-11-26 22:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Julian A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋