ive been seeing this guy casually.hes been chasing me for years.we live in different towns so only meet by chance.i always stay at his place.i havent slept with him.
he tells me that he likes me and always pays me compliments.hes always flirting with me and does want to take "things" further.
when i was with him recently,he kept asking about my ex.i was with my ex for 6 years and engaged which he knew about.i ended the relationship with my ex.i knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has moved away.why is he mentioning my ex?i told him that it was over and in the past.
also,in the mornings he always wants me to leave early.usually he says he has his parents coming over but recently,i asked him why and he said it doesnt have to give a reason cause its his place.which is fair enough.why the rush with no reason?he wasnt funny about it but he was serious.
he is single as far as im aware, and there is no sign of a girlfriend at his place.
2006-11-26 20:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is a very independent outgoing guy.
maybe his parents were coming over as usual but why not say that like before?
2006-11-26 20:53:35 · update #1
he also asked if ive met any other guys since my split from my ex
2006-11-26 21:04:23 · update #2
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he has a girlfriend. It might not be the best thing to do, but I would "spy" on him and find out. If you see a girl, then its obvious! There is no reason for unnecessary hurt!!!
2006-11-26 20:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' guys are so insecure, he probably takes it personally that you won't make love to him, most guys want it the second they clap eyes on a girl they fancy. There are a thousand reason's he may want you to leave early, Maybe he has a kid you don't know about and he's not sure how to tell you yet. Some gals are put off by baggage. He probably feels because you haven't made love to him yet that its coz you still love your ex. Perfectly understandable, if you don't go to bed with him he'll continue to think your not all that interested in him physically, and he'll feel like a rebound thing, which you have to ask your self if that's the case.
2006-11-27 05:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know the first thing about relationships child. You shouldn't be spending the night with someone you have so many questions about. First you get to know them deeply, you both decide if you want to spend all of life and eternity together, you make a formal committment, then you give him that. In your current ignorance you are merely someone to use. Smell the coffee, get out of that mess and if there's anything worth having, he'll come to you and let you know but only if you have enough dignity to behave like a lady, someone worth having and cherishing. Not just some open legs, hoping for more. What are you thinking?
2006-11-27 05:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he were really interested in you, he'd think of ways for you to stick around more, not to get you to leave.
If you want to take things further, maybe you should ask him if he is interested in that or if he has a girlfriend?
2006-11-27 05:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think that the reason shy he wants u to live early becoz his parents r coming....to be honest my geuss is he is living with a girl or have a girlfriend...u can meet his parents if he really interested of u....move on and find a nice guy...
2006-11-27 06:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first i would say that he likes you, but now it seems in a tangle.
my guess is he values your friendship and wants to keep things as it was, yet he probably feels nervous bc he probably thinks that you broke with your ex for him. so hes keeping it low and easy...ask him about it. why hes acting weird and all.
2006-11-27 05:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he hurries you out suggests a partner or girlfriend. If he's hurrying you out there is a reason and the fact that he won't give one is highly suspect..
2006-11-27 14:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurs always like to ask about ex's. I dunno why but we like to torture ourselves by doing it, like hoping it'll make us feel better about it but also ends up making us feel worse!!
Dunno why he always kicks you out though. Maybe it is his parents, but if there's no sign of a girlfriend what about a boyfriend??
Worth keeping your eyes and ears open to figure it out though. Oh, and don't sleep with him until you find out the truth!!
2006-11-27 05:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by John Elias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A CLOSET!!!!!
THE PARENTS WERE MAYBE TRUE AND SO HE ASK YOU TO LEAVE.GOT D PIC? HE'S HAVING AN IDENTITY CRISIS...
2006-11-27 06:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by nightingale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋