Because she heard that they were huge and my husband replied. Show me yours and I will show you mine. Ok she might have had a few to drink but his answer wasn't the right one I expected from him considering I was very pregnant with our fist baby. He wouldn't admit that he was flirting with her. (I'm only responding to what she said and as if I would show it to her). I was really hurt by that comment the fact that he said show me yours and I'll show mine, he already agreed to it. How do you feel if you're on that situation?
2006-11-26 22:38:53 · 29 answers · asked by Amazing Chloe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ouch-she should have never said that, but his comment was probly not ment as flirting sometimes people say that as a joke, because they know the other person would not really show them. But if you feel she would have shown him then it preobly was joking, if he also felt that she would show him.
2006-11-26 22:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That was an off-guard reply from your husband. But then, seems like he was being sarcastic and actually giving a an equally inappropriate reply to her question. Your husbands freinds wife sounds sleazy, and though I know it could be under the influence of alcohol, she has just shown you what exactly she is like after a few drinks. You ought to keep away from such people, in the sense that, you know what to expect from them, so probably keep a distance, or something. On your husbands part, I still feel that he was being sarcastic. It sure doesnt ''sound'' flirting...He must have been embarassed and annoyed to get a question like that out of nowhere. And he is right, would have shown her anyway ? Plus, if your husband really wants to flirt, he would do it on the sly, behind your back, not with statements like that in front of you which is so obvious. So please do not doubt. Put this behind you, and keep an eye next time on the lady's behaviour and then you could come to some conclusion. But I would say, avoid. That is waht is expected. And by the way, I want to ask you something on your question, '''she HEARD that they were huge.....'''' oh my god, how would she have HEARD such a thing....now, did you tell her anyting like that ? like as though it was for public viewing....or something ?
Take care at this time, and really put all this sick thoughts behind you.
2006-11-26 22:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This was all off the cuff, none the less, inappropriate. That fact that your hormones are rampaging probably made it seem worse than it actually was...
Flirting is a good thing. It reassures us that we are attractive and in affect boosts our self esteem. Whether or not we act on the flirting is entirely a different story. I said act on it, not react to it. Your hubby reacted the way any man would. Then he acted quite the loving husband and went home with you. End of story...
2006-11-26 23:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Adrienne C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control his ex-wife calling unless you tell him to tell her to knock it off. She hasn't moved on.. The unknown "friends" are not harmless flirting. If he hasn't cheated yet, he is one step away. Get the numbers written down and if you can get his phone you could txt and see what happens. Brace yourself and be prepared for the response when you do this, because you know it's going to change the course of your relationship..possibly to divorce or not. What happens when you have this information is up to you. If you don't live in a no fault state, then make pictures of the texts and the responses for validity of infidelity. Marriage is not about games. Sorry and wish you luck. Protect yourself.
2016-05-23 08:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably consider the position that he was in when he was asked...He couldn't remind her that he was married, that would take it from the level of playing, into treating it like an advance on him by a friend's wife...not a good position. About the only thing that he could do was put a price on it that he knew she could never meet. I think you would be better off if you just let this one go...how did she hear that it was huge anyway?
2006-11-26 23:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i am pregnant i would probably be offended too, pregnant women are sentsitive to such innuendo. but i think the reason your husband responded that way, because he knew that the lady wouldnt show hers, maybe at that time, it was the best answer he could come up to, but i dont think he really intended to follow thru with it. tell your husband that you are offended so there wont be a next time. at any rate, alcohol or not, that woman shouldnt have made that comment. inappropriate!
2006-11-26 22:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They were both way out of line. They knew he was married. No matter how big or how small, his pecker is his wifes toy, no one elses. If this was a flirt, would not be long before it went further.
2006-11-26 22:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They're both flirting. This man is not trustworthy. They shouldn't even be talking about sex in the first place, except with the guys.
Sorry. :(
2006-11-26 22:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are WAAAAAAAAAY overreacting... It was playful banter...
When a woman sticks her tongue out at me, I'll usually ask if she is asking or offering... And she'll go away embarrassed...
Sounds like he was pulling the same trick... Did she show him hers??? Probably not, and probably wouldn't...
2006-11-26 22:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the important question is what would've happened if it was just the 2 of them. i hope u have a master key because someone plans on keeping there closet door locked.
2006-11-26 22:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋