for 2 years now i have had this terrible habit... now it's tearing my life apart. i don't feel close to God, my friends are moving away, my family says i've become selfish and mean... what can i do?!?!? i've been trying to stop for a year now, nothing's worked! help me!!!!!!!
2006-11-26 23:02:24 · 10 answers · asked by redheads have more fun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's emabarassing... i mastu-bate and it's lead to other problems too, it needs to stop but how can i?
2006-11-29 00:32:01 · update #1
this is the point where you go get psychiatric help, no matter what the habit is...
2006-11-26 23:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel bad about it. I too have had a terrible habit for longer than you. We just have to pray and try to get close to God. Are you seeking God and some answers from Him? He is the only source of help for our suitations. Just gradually start to pray and ask God to help you with it. I am sure that He hears your pleas, and is willing to help you.
2006-11-27 07:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by David D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you stop... what?
What I do understand is that you're backsliding with your religion and you're depressed. I have a link for you, good luck.
What is depression?
Depression is a mood disorder that causes you to feel sad or hopeless for an extended period of time. More than just a bout of "the blues" or temporary feelings of grief or low energy, depression can have a significant impact on your enjoyment of life, your work, your health, and the people you care about
2006-11-27 07:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this habit is an addiction, then you need to get help.
There are lots of organizations to help you with whatever it is.
Look up your habit online, and find an organization that pertains. They should have support groups in your area.
2006-11-27 07:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...i psychiatrist helped me a lot, eventhough i didn't expect him to. I as surprised.
May i sugest, that if the habit is sex related, you go to a sexologist.
Best of luck to you
2006-11-27 07:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you don't tell the forum what the habit is then how can they help you.
Come on redheads have more fun right.
2006-11-27 07:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Go to church. Talk to a priest, rabbi, pastor or other cleric. Best wishes and God bless!
2006-11-27 07:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What habit are you talking about??
2006-11-27 07:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do it always.it's a gift from god.it's natural.even for married people.
2006-11-27 07:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek solice in alcohol it's the only way
2006-11-27 07:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Double J - Jonni Jigolo 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋