im seeing this bloke casually but i think he may have a girlfriend.im not sure tho.i dont know if im just being paranoid. ive been to his place a few times and there is no sign of another girl.
i know im not dating this guy or anything but i dont want to carry on seeing him if hes in a relationship.
i text him saying why have you been lying to me and he text me back saying, i havent told you anything anyway so i dont see how i have been lying to you?i can see what hes saying but isnt that just a technicality?as in, if i havent said anything, then i havent lied?or, am i just being a typical girl and reading into it too much?
2006-11-26 23:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when i started seeing him he didnt have a girlfriend.
2006-11-26 23:37:01 · update #1
You're being a typical girl....
2006-11-26 23:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a typical girl, and you are gonna chase this bloke off.
If you are seeing each other "casually", then you have no hold over him either way. If you want to become more than casual, then talk to him. Ask him if he is seeing other girls, and weather he wants to go a step further in his relationship with you. If not, move on, or carry on how things are now if that suits you both. But until you have a commitment out of this guy, if he is seeing other girls or not is really none of your business. And yes, if you haven't asked any questions of him, and he hasn't given any details to you, then he has not lied to you by omission. He probably sees this relationship as a "fling" or "casual" as you put it, and sees no reason to divulge any pertinent details.
2006-11-27 09:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him if he has a girlfriend... Don't be serious or intense about it or he'll think you're a bunny boiler, but when you see him, after a casual mood has been set, drop it into the conversation casually asking him if he's seeing anyone else... If he says he isn't, then accept that and don't think about it anymore... If he does have a girlfriend then get out of it straight away, a guy with another girl is more trouble than he's worth.
2006-11-27 07:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask a vague question, hoping to provoke a response. He doesn;t fall for it,. You need some more concrete evidence before you start making accusations and angling towards a breakup.
"I heard you are seeing another girl." But if he asks where you heard it, have your supporting evidence
2006-11-27 07:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being paranoid. He's either seeing someone or has a bit on the side. Find out!
2006-11-27 07:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basis of Personality tests illustrates this principle! We see what we want to see rather than what is really out there! People deprieved of food for example, see "food" images and words more often! Try it.
2006-11-27 07:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like u really like him and want it to be something more than casual sex when he has the time, energy and inclination.
get some self respect and piss him off, he sounds like a complete wanker.
im sure he does have a girlfriend, and we should all feel sorry for her.
2006-11-27 07:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by bettie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you suspect something, its probably for a good reason. Him saying he hasnt told you anything, does kind of lead one to believe hes hiding something tho, becuase WHAT hasnt he told you! I would take it real slow with that guy!
2006-11-27 07:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by EAT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't got another girlfriend.
He's having casual sex with other girls.
Get out of there fast, he will break your heart!
2006-11-30 21:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are THAT paranoid and dislike the idea, then stop seeing him...
2006-11-27 07:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋