Other - Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I know you all probably not gonna like what I will ask, but please be as open-minded as possible. I know what I have been doing is wrong.

The thing is that: I have been with my current boyfriend for 4 years now and things have been going really good between us. But a while ago, there is this guy at work who has shown me how much he likes me and all. We have flirted a lot--hugs and kisses and all (but no sex!) I really like this guy too, but as much as I know, I do not want anything further with him. I just like the attention he gives me and all the excitement in general. Before you judge me, I know I love my BF, but my problem is, even though I love him, I also love this new stuff the new guy brings into my life. I feel really bad about kissing other guys besides my BF, so don't get me wrong. My boyfriend doesn't know this yet, and I feel extremely bad about it. What am I supposed to do? I mean seriously, I don't want to leave my BF for some excitement.

2006-11-26 16:24:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need to know what's there, is it a hangout spot? etc. boyf is up to something, found messages on fone to random number saying meet you at frodsham hill, wanna go frodsham hill etc.. whats the deal people!

2006-11-26 16:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by spongebob 1

I can't think of anything good to get my boyfriend for his birthday/chirstmas. Boys, what would you want? Something cheap that would actually mean something to you or that you would appreciate. What about something good to even make? I don't know.. Help!

2006-11-26 16:17:06 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle P 2

i was just perusing her hotmail account and i found an old email and it contained an email to her bfs boyfriend saying some pretty hot stuff
and how she wanted to fck him

i have been told by her the furthest she has gone is 2 BJ's and that she is a virgin but from what she wrote i am beginning to doubt t hat and i don't know how i should feel . right now I'm on the phone with her and quite apathetic to her cries of inquiry as to why i am so silent. should i be angry or should i try to forget it as it happened b4 we got together? (trust and truth is a major thing 4 me)

2006-11-26 16:15:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 16:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by cutie 1

2006-11-26 16:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by gaurav c 1

back, she left me because I told her the truth, I'm not gay I need her back guys help

2006-11-26 15:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well me and my girlfriend have a very strong relationship together and i want to move on with our relationship and do more things (if u catch my drift) well im ready and im not sure if she is and i asked her about it and the only thing she said is that i dont want to get pregnent and im not sure what to do or what to tell her becasue shes really worried if she did come out pregnent then her life would be ruined not because of the baby but thats she is to young to have one, in my perspective.

2006-11-26 15:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by Dalton H 1

2006-11-26 15:41:32 · 17 answers · asked by US 2

What is it I can do for people when they ask me what I want for christmas, it really bothers me to tell them anything I want. It's not that I hate christmas it's just I always feel so horrible during the season because everyone seems to give gifts and recieve gifts and people give me gifts too but I just feel like I have nothing to give back and as if I don't deserve their gift. Now I'm not sure exactly what I'm asking for from you guys may just a kind word but I just know I'm being bothered by the holidays once more and can't figure out why. I want to get people things but I never feel like I could get what they want and when people get me things I enjoy it that they thought of me and I get mad because I hate having to accept a gift that I just dont deserve. Please just somebody give me something to work with, for the people in my life to make them happy.

2006-11-26 15:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any love song that just really means something to you? why?

2006-11-26 15:39:02 · 14 answers · asked by noname446 4

I love doctors.

I can breath again, I just got my inhaler, Albutherol.
at 6am I could not breath and had to be rushed to the hospital.
Once there I was given some sort of inhalant. Took ex-rays. Made mom cry.

it's because of a cold. I should have listend to my heart, it was beating pretty hard and I was forcing air into my lungs. Took dayquil, stuff doenst work on lung infections.

but Im fine now, Im back at the dorm and I taking my health seriously. In so scared, I live on the 4th floor and nearly had a black out coming up the stairs...we have no elevator.

two kids died already this year. A freshman and a senior. You dont know what its like getting that email..Student death.

I was afraid that was gonna be me.

thank you Jesus. Im alive. As $hitty as life is , Im alive. I may moan and groan, but just like you I want my chance at life. I must have 9 lives. and Ive never been hospitalized beyond birth. Amazing.

thanks for reading....
what do you think?

2006-11-26 15:29:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 15:28:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this question has been asked countless times before but if someone truely does love you, is it enough for them to just say it? Is it really love if they don't show it in ways other then verbal? Isn't love more than just a mental thing, but a physical thing as well? What do you do when you know someone loves you, but they don't show it very well? What exatly IS love?

2006-11-26 15:24:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 4

I was thinking of something that won't perish easily like a Hersheys bar or three, and some home made cookies, but I wondering what the nation's collegiate women think of that. What about non-edible stuff? Nothing alcoholic, please.

2006-11-26 15:22:34 · 4 answers · asked by PenguinFan20085 2

I like a guy in my school. He is same age as me. Must I tell him that I like him??

2006-11-26 15:20:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I added a question regarding my cousin who's so open minded till we have sex... anyway, on saturday, a girl friend of mine came over to my house to stay due to some of her family problem. My mum and cousin shared the same room while the other, which my sis room, was locked as she went overseas. (She also dun like sharing room with others) So she (my friend) shared the same room with me. However, she and I sleep separately and DID NOT do anything. =D My cousin, who's also consider my gf, without people knowing, was jealous. This morning after my bathing, she was hugging very tight to me and did not want me to leave for work in my room of course. And I had my towels on only. She said she was jealous as she can't sleep with me while my girl friend can. What should I do to please her? Sleep with her? I mean sleeping over night. but my parents can't know of it...

2006-11-26 15:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by porridge0000 3

My husband is very kind and he loves me very much. I appreciate him. But in recent days, I fall in love with a man on a dating sites, he is a nice courteous person and have a wonderful sence of humor. I am in a dilemma situation. Btw, I came across this man on www.millionairematch.com/i/romance.

2006-11-26 15:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by chloe s 1

I have a girl friend who has this serious problem recently. She was the only child of the family and both her parents love her alot. Her parents are also very loving towards each other. Just last Saturday, her mum had went overseas due to business trip and she was left alone with her father. While she was bathing, her father peeps at her through the opening gap of the door (It was locked though). Her father even unlocked her bedroom door while she was changing and sleeping. But his excuse was just getting something in the room. (He did take something in there though). She was so scared and dared not return home since then. She came over to my house to stay. Anyway, she dared not tell her mum when she's back on Sunday as she scare they might quarrel, or worst still, divorce because of this. Whats' the advice needed in order not to let her father did this again, and not ruin her family relationship too

2006-11-26 15:14:09 · 16 answers · asked by porridge0000 3

When was the last time you cried?

What was it about?

2006-11-26 15:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

I'm 14 and have been dating my b/f for almost a year (he's 15). I just found out that he's been having a secret thing with one of my best friends. It wasn't anything physical more of a big flirtation where they were sending each other sexy e-mails and IM's and even notes and talking about what would happen if him and I ever broke up (he went out with her before he went out with me, but they were like 13 and 14 and it only lasted four months). I feel SO betrayed and now I find out it's not the first time he's done something like this. I don't know what to do. I love him and he swears he still loves me and doesn't want to lose me, but now I can't trust him. Worst thing I gave him part of me that I won't get back and I don't understand how he could do this to me.

2006-11-26 15:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's too soon, what's a good length of time?

2006-11-26 15:09:00 · 16 answers · asked by Chavahleah 2

i have been best freinds with this kid for 8 years now and last year he got a gf and they have been dating ever since.. it started out cool, with all of us hanging out together having fun. and about a month ago they had sex and now she is a complete ***** to me and is his little puppet, she went from having her own views to following him, and he is just a total cynical *** to me, ike i am lesser of a person bc i havent had sex yet.. why????

2006-11-26 15:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, what i mean is...

For me (and some people i know), when i turned 18, i really wanted to be that "independent" who was capable of doing anything and didn't need anybody's help..

Now that I'm getting older, i realize that when i was 18, i didn't know ANYTHING...i'm 20 years old and i still feel like i don't know alot but i still crave for that independence and control...I heard it's not until 21 is when you really START to understand things...you don't get the gist of everything completely but it's the beginning of some clarifying

What do you think?

2006-11-26 15:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a (almost) five year old lil' girl. Her father and I split up when she was three. If it wasn't for her I wouldn't mind if he fell off the face of the earth in any matter concerning me but my girl loves her daddy and I don't have any inclination to deprive her of him. I don't talk badly about him in front of her. I maintain a civilized, polite attitude when all 3 of us are together. I even invited him to go with us to her 1st time at Disneyland on my b-day. He has given me every reason and more to dislike, distrust & lose any respect I ever had for him. There are no custody "bindings" in place, yet. I told him I had a concern about not knowing where he lives (therefore where my daughter lives when she's w/ him) except that it's quite close. If there were some kind of accident I wouldn't know how to get there. He replied it's not an issue. WHAT?!?! Am I the only person (because I am extremely biased on this issue) that thinks this is outrageous?

2006-11-26 14:55:21 · 10 answers · asked by frustration 1

my two best freinds (a guy and a girl) lol have been together for almost a year and a half now and they started to have sex, hes being such an asshole and acting so differently to me like im some piece of trash? why? btw were all about 17 18 years old

2006-11-26 14:52:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes 17 and she had sex with a 25 year old.
i know. i KNOW.

and she keeps talking about him, saying she wants to see him again and do it again.

a direct talk wont do anyhting, as she hardly cares about her reputation or the law or the fact that its just bad.

how do i slyly talk her out of it? any clever things to say or schemes to make her not want to?

2006-11-26 14:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i told her that i took drugs at a party so she got pissed and broke up with me what do i do

2006-11-26 14:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by imstupid 1

how to make love like a pro? to make her feel great?

2006-11-26 14:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 14:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by bob 2