well me and my girlfriend have a very strong relationship together and i want to move on with our relationship and do more things (if u catch my drift) well im ready and im not sure if she is and i asked her about it and the only thing she said is that i dont want to get pregnent and im not sure what to do or what to tell her becasue shes really worried if she did come out pregnent then her life would be ruined not because of the baby but thats she is to young to have one, in my perspective.
2006-11-26 15:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by Dalton H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How to put this tastefully; there's always the greek variant, if oral does not appeal.
Remember, a gentleman never goes a*s to mouth.
2006-11-26 15:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's one thing you need to know for sure... Is getting pregnant the ONLY reason why your girlfriend doesn't want to "move on" or is that the only answer she's giving you? There may be more to it than she's telling you! You have to sit down with her and ask her if that's honestly the only thing holding her back. If so, you may check into the different kinds of birth control offered today. However, keep in mind that birth control offers absolutely NO protection against Sexually Transmitted Diseases. On the other hand, if your girlfriend reveals to you another reason why she's not ready, you must respect her wishes (and body) and wait until she IS ready. It really is a bigger step for girls than guys!
2006-11-27 00:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by legacydance2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study up on different options for birth control, like condoms and the pill. Learn all the facts so she can be comfortable in knowing that you know what you're doing. There is also the possibility that she is just saying that she's scared because she doesn't actually want to do it, but doesn't want to let you down. Make sure she really wants it also, first.
2006-11-26 23:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by geektacular 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all it's "my girlfriend and I" 2nd I catch your drift and if the only reason you (and she) can think of not to have sex is pregnancy then you are both too immature to even be going out with each other.
Get back to school and worry about sex when you are mature enough to know what you are doing and the con=sequences physically, mentally and morally.
2006-11-27 00:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Smurfetta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad she has a head on her shoulders- she's a keeper. Respect her and know that you don't have to have sex in order to be in love. She needs to get on birth control if you plan to have sex and also you need condoms and you need to be very careful. Maybe she is scared it will hurt. It will come in time as long as you respect her.
2006-11-26 23:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say....only have sex if you're willing and able to raise a child for the next 21 years.
No matter what form of birth control you use...none of them are 100% child-proof.
2006-11-27 00:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do other stuff than straight up having sexual intercorse. oral is an option!
2006-11-26 23:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋