shes 17 and she had sex with a 25 year old.
i know. i KNOW.
and she keeps talking about him, saying she wants to see him again and do it again.
a direct talk wont do anyhting, as she hardly cares about her reputation or the law or the fact that its just bad.
how do i slyly talk her out of it? any clever things to say or schemes to make her not want to?
2006-11-26 14:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont think u should sugar coat anything to her, tell her like it is. Its not right, its a scary thought, and someone who does that is trying to get attention from it or is crying out for some serious help. If it were me, i would scare it out of her. tell her if u do this serious things could happen. like pregnancy, law, or stds or just whatever u can find that would get the point across to her.
2006-11-26 15:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by irishkisses17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is his age such an issue with you. other than it is illeagle. if he is a nice guy to her get over it. now if he is a jerk i can see a point. but when she is 18 it souldn't bother you. she should waite untill then. the guy needs to back off untill she is 18 or he gets what he desirves. by the way my guy is 22 years younger than me and we heve been together {living} for almost 2 and 1/2 years. just because someone is older does NOT mean they are bad for the younger person. people need too look outside their little boxes. they would be amazed at the happiness they can find.
2006-11-26 23:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K. the guy is pretty scummy for having sex with her, but other than that is a decent guy? Non abusive? Law abiding? Because a 25 year old can probably(hopefully) provide a more satisfying sexual experience than a 17 or 18 year old. And if she is going to be doing it anyway.......
2006-11-26 22:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by theobracco4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my sister was 16, she had sex with a 40 year old.
At 18, she married him. They are very happy with 4 children.
She is now 25.
Don't try and talk your friend out of it. If he makes her happy thats
great. You should be happy for her. She might be in love with him and him with her.
Personally, I'm married to a much older man and I'm very happy
too.
There is only 8 years difference in age between your friend and her guy. Thats not much. There is 20 years difference between
my husband and I.
The tone of your post makes you sound jealous. Be a good friend and let your friend be happy.
Age is just that....a number. It doesn't matter.
A "friend" of mine tried to come between me and my husband because she felt our age differnce was a bad thing. I told her
where she could get off and never spoke to her again.
I'd keep my thoughts about this one to myself, if I were you.
if you don't, you might lose a good friend.
2006-11-26 23:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok to let u kno i have had this problem except it was a 13 year old friend of mine she was with a 26 year old man so i would just tell her that you dont like what she is doin and suggest that she dont do that any more
2006-11-26 23:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is ur fren and this guy are in love? If they are couple.. its perfectly all alright to make love.. not sex. So, u got to make a clear cut whether is a make love or sex.
2006-11-26 22:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares abt age. If she really want 2 go let her go.
2006-11-26 22:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by moikeshav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, your friend is just having fun, chill out.
2006-11-26 22:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋