i have been best freinds with this kid for 8 years now and last year he got a gf and they have been dating ever since.. it started out cool, with all of us hanging out together having fun. and about a month ago they had sex and now she is a complete ***** to me and is his little puppet, she went from having her own views to following him, and he is just a total cynical *** to me, ike i am lesser of a person bc i havent had sex yet.. why????
2006-11-26 15:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He now thinks he's all that eh? Well, when he comes cryin to you about the situation (girl gets pregnant) it will be your turn to be a d..k to him. He's just struttin right now cuz he thinks he's reached manhood. Find someone new to hang with until he can bring hiself back down a notch.
2006-11-26 15:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh thats the HO syndrome what we referr to as the phase that one goes thru afta havin sex. honey trust me u aint missing much. its not all that its made out to be..and i am 30 so i should know. ya its a good feeling but so is other things in life. dont put up with it. u may have to drop her as a friend or hurt her feelings but she aint special just bc she isnt a virgin no more. and the most sacrid thing a girl has to offer n protect is her reputation not virginity. so when u lose urs dont brag keep ur private bedroom life private
2006-11-26 15:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no longer that you have not HAD sex...your no longer the single giving IT, and they do no longer have time for you because your getting contained in the way of them having IT. that's all they are wondering about, and all they are going to do, even though it is going to provide up and he will come operating decrease back declaring what a b**** she is, and how he might want to no longer have ditched you for her.....till the subsequent one comes alongside, or you've one.....you both will make sure it out. finally, it would make you extra useful acquaintances (till between the girls is one the different has been with..) do not do this.
2016-11-29 20:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to grow up. Tell him how you feel, and then just stay clear of him until he starts to act more like a friend. Don't think you need to rush into sex to be more "mature". In the words of Shakespeare "To thy own self be true"
2006-11-26 15:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by will.hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a dude, the reason she is being a ***** to you is ocs her boyfriend doesnt want you hangin round her no more. guys dont like other guys sniffin round their girlfriends. if you are a chick, then she feels she cant talk to you cos you havent experienced that yet. if the guy is older then her, he can easily influence her. a girls first will always be something she holds onto.
2006-11-26 15:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You not the problem.. she is. She became his little slave and because your not his type of friend she doesn't want to be friends with you. Just tell her flat out what you think and if she doesn't want to listen stop talking to her.
2006-11-26 15:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll get over it. Please be there for her. A girls first time puts them in a state of mind called "whipped" it happens to guys also. Just be there but at a distance especially if/when he breaks up with her.
2006-11-26 15:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking with the wrong end of the body .
2006-11-26 16:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋