2006-11-26 16:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by gaurav c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi there,
Do you love her? Does she love you? Ask youself one question "Is she worth waiting for?" and you will get the answer. The truth is it does not matter how long you wait if she has confiremed that she will marry you than its fine but if she is not even sure about marriage then i suggest you move on.
2006-11-26 16:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that Wicca is the Craft of the Wise. We do not have to be the Craft of the Politically correct, or, when challenged incorrectly, the nice. Pagan religions existed in all places all over the world. No one culture "invented" it or started it. It started as a religion of a shamanic nature and carried forth from there. With so many branches of Neo-Wicca, many of them do not know the difference between Wicca, Neo-Wicca, Shamanism, druidism and all of the other sects and groups within The blanket of Paganism. Explain that to him. Explain that you have been a practitioner of the religion for however many years and ask them how long they have been a Pagan priest/priestess or HP/HPS and how long they have been in that position? As an initiated Gardnerian Witch, I am careful to explain that there are differences between various sects of Paganism, Wicca and Neo-Wicca, the latter of which is more often practiced here in the US. I am also careful to make sure that people know that while I have a great deal of information, I do not know what my HPS and HP knows just yet and can find out anything that is not oathbound, that they wish to ask and get back to them if I do not personally know at that time. You do not need to take any flack from some kid that got all of his information on Wicca from a bunch of books that are as likely to be sensation and misinformation as fact. You and I both know that there are a lot of good authors, but there are a lot of fakes and oathbreakers that have written books on the subject as well.
2016-05-23 07:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know one of my friend was waiting for a guy for 5 long years, only to find out, he lost interest in her after that.
If you truly wants to live with her, why don't you get married. Your job, money, convenience can wait for her to catch up. It is not fair to make someone wait or put on hold, when it breaks it feels so terrible.
Live life, don't waste time. No one is gonna be living for ever to waste a precious 5 years waiting.
Do it now!!
2006-11-26 17:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it depends up on the ur mental balance can you hold your family to not to search a husband for you untill 5yrs and is it worth for waiting 5yrs for tht guy.Y nt atleast 3yrs as i can say life is short nd there are many things we should complete before leaving this place or life.think from all angles coz time never waits for anyone we shoul only move and sometimes run with it.so think and deside.Best of luck and May God Bless you
2006-11-26 17:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by lekha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the absence of some more input, it is difficult to answer your question. You say, you are waiting for 5 years, for some one's marriage. Is it your sister or your brother? Or is it your girl's sister?
Be clear in your thoughts.
2006-11-27 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really know a person very well i dont think dat dere is anythin wrong. n not to forget if u n ur partner really love each other. bcoz i think without luv n trust no relationship can stand. if ur relation fulfil dese basic requirements i think its a correct decision. so all d best.
2006-11-26 16:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by neva_mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and that person made a promise to get married when you are capable to , so it could be right decision .But if you think the person is making excuses even you both are capable to marry now or in past years .so it probably is the waste of time.
2006-11-26 16:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how much committment u both have. and what are the situations? and you both have to take a decission, and look at life practically. if u become old and then get married, even children would get suffered. give a though again and take decission.
As per me, u should talk to the person once and take a decission strictly.
2006-11-26 16:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is really u who can answer this question, if u really love this person, if u trust and feel happy with this person im thinking u r making the right decision...but if u are confused then maybe u have to give it time...but good luck!
2006-11-26 16:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by sWeeTcHe11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i am currently waiting that same amount to get married to the one i love... we have about 2 and half more years to go till we can get married... its hard but if you really love this person give it a shot!. good luck.
2006-11-26 16:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋