What's too soon, what's a good length of time?
2006-11-26 15:09:00 · 16 answers · asked by Chavahleah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A minimum of a year would be a good start. Things have been know to go well for people who don't wait that long, but I'd guess that to be rarer than some would lead you to believe.
I suggest you just don't rush. If it feels to either one of you that you might be rushing, you are rushing.
2006-11-26 15:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say because every relationship & person is different. But i think the right time is when both people could not think of waking up to anyone else for the rest of thier lives. Marriage is more than a party & a white dress....it's being with that other person every day for as long as you live....if you can think of that and still be wildly happy & in love then i think that's a pretty good sign. I think living togather is a good idea before marriage.....because living with the other person gives a good inication of what you're in for. I've been with my man for over a year now & i knew at 3 months that he will be the one i'm going to marry.....now i'm just waiting for the rock!!!
2006-11-26 15:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i could say 2-3 years. think of roughly it. till you have prevalent this individual for a mutually as then it takes a minimum of a year to get to understand them, outwardly besides. provide one yet another time to be sure the actual you. Then, after the 1st year the quantity of intercourse you have usually decreases. you may desire to pick in case you have adequate in user-friendly for the intercourse to not be why you're mutually. It additionally delivers time to probably bypass with the aid of some life stories to be sure in case you will stay mutually and help one yet another. you will get to understand each and each others families, if it applies. substitute into friends with each and each others friends and benefit user-friendly friends. be waiting to get financially good in case you reside mutually and get to a element which you would be able to attend to being married. Then, i could provide the engagement a year, in basic terms in case you regulate your ideas. Divorce can fee so lots greater advantageous than a marriage, so which you have the choose to be certain you're making the the final option decision.
2016-10-13 04:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by lipton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how well you know him / her.
The length of time to wait to get married is not important -
Its the life long commitment both of you are wiling to accept in getting married.
Are you engaged to be married -If not this should be the first thing both of you should do
An engagement will cement your loving relationship until its time(when you are both absolutely sure) its time to cement the the relationship by marriage
Marriage is not something anyone should rush into
This is the mistake many young couples make.
2006-11-26 15:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Met and started dating my husband in July, engaged by September, married by the following April. We have been married 29 years. You just know when it's right.
2006-11-26 15:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends to individual actually! If you find that he/she is the right one for you, pop the question but before you do...marriage is not just based on love and sex. You both gotta be pysically, emotionally and financialy prepared! If your answer is YES to all these 3 basics, go ahead and get married.
2006-11-26 15:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sportivo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no right or worng. I married my first husband after 2 years of dating. It didn't last. I married my current husband 2 weeks after I met him. so far everthing's great. We've been together 5 years, now.
2006-11-26 15:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the longer you get to know them the better. a rushed marriage will lead to definate divorce. if u dont know what hes like to be around him constantly then dont do it. at least a minimum of 1 year is good but you probably wont listen....at least do 8 months if ur under 25 years old.
2006-11-26 15:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Now days men and women get married and then start dating.That is how it seems any more,I hope you both will fall in love and stay in love when the time is right you will know,when it happens i wish you good luck and be happy
2006-11-26 15:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women usually start when they are getting ready for the first date with the guy. But don't tell men this, it will scare the crap out of them.
Peace.
2006-11-26 15:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋