Q for all emotionally strong/high pride(?)guys.I am married 4yrs,separated 2yrs but we’ve been seeing each?

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other on&off.We live&work in the same neighborhood so we see each other everyday unless I go out of my way to avoid it.He said he loves & misses me too but what I can’t understand is why I am always be the first one to call to make up with him even it his faults.I stop seeing him for a week every time he hurt my feelings then I will call him he always makes it hard for me before he gives in.Even when he was just my boyfriend I asked him why he can bear not calling me for weeks if he really love and miss me, his answer is:“I am just a strong guy”.He said whenever he sees me walk by, he look away because he said it melts his heart.Times I let him see me pass by & he would do something to call my attention to look his way.We made up but it is still true that if not for me walking by where he works, it will never happen.Is he really just a strong guy with high pride or he really doesn’t love and miss me that much anymore?He said he doesn’t mean all the mean&cruel things that he says to me?

Answer 1

I do not know what it is going to take for you to get the message, he is just using you, at your insistence, you wag your booty in front of his face, Why not? he doesn't even have to walk across the street, you are doing it all, because you are the only one interested, You admit, if you did not keep up the relationship , there would be none. Now you have two choices, let him keep using you , until he finds his true love, or you go out of business and find some one that will appreciate your efforts,, a word to the wise. When your dreams turn to dust, vacuum

Answer 2

that is so true. he is just using you. if he really wants you, he'll do whatever it takes to make up with you, he won't wait for you to come to him..he'll be the first to apologise etc. so i think it is better for you ignore this guy. he's not good enough for you. no woman deserves that kinda guy.. there is a better man for you out there. maybe not now or tomorrow..but one day, there will be.. cheers!