I have a wife and baby now, in another country. I'm having a hard time seeing why I shouldn't date liberally, like I did before, in another country besides where my family is. Instinctively, I feel the need to do it. But, at the same time, I instinctively feel it's wrong. What gives?
2006-12-04 22:00:36 · 17 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well iove you knoe what is actually deep down inside your heart weather we say you should not or should it would not change much so pls just take time out to find out what you really want.
2006-12-04 22:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA. First, if you truly love her, you wouldn't soil yourself or your marriage that way. Second, sexually transmitted diseases are REAL. You could bring home something that you can't get rid of, and pass it to her or an unborn child, if she gets pregnant. Third, what if the girl or girls you date get pregnant? You are now responsible for more children, and several countries now have paternity laws that work with each other; eventually you will get caught. Your instincts are right; it is wrong. And innocent people get hurt.
2006-12-05 06:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if its ok if your wife does the same while you are gone. If you mess around with other women, just picture your beautiful wife back home having sex with other guys and maybe you will think twice about it. Personally I think its wrong anyway.
2006-12-05 06:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is morally wrong. If you have a family that is your obligation. Do not commit adultery, infidelity. you need to commit to your partner and child. That should be your main priority. Dating while committed is WRONG and if you instinctively feel that it is wrong then it is wrong. It's immoral and it shows that you have no respect or honor to be committed for your family.
2006-12-05 06:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by TiredofIdiots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts
2006-12-05 06:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheating dog is a cheating dog no matter what country you are in. I suppose it's ok for her to do the same?
2006-12-05 06:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong that is why you have that feeling. Would you like it if someone who you loved done that to you. or think about it when your children grow up and their partner done it to them?. what if you catch something and give it to your wife loser loser loser.
2006-12-05 06:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you usually pray?
How can you think this way?
Of course it's wrong. Think a bit.
May God help you to have good thoughts!
2006-12-05 06:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong to do that
if u have no feelings for ur wife anymore then go for a divorce
2006-12-05 06:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's wrong.
Divorce your wife, give her everything, and continue your pathetic pig life.
2006-12-05 06:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋