Other - Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I want a Rolex, it is not really expensive (less than 10,000). Friends are telling me Rolex is overrated. I think you can say that only when you can afford one. I am not buying it to show off, it should be only watch I ever need. friend always told me what a great car i have because he have a used kia. if you think watch doesn't need to be that expensive why does he think my lexus is better than his kia? he even brrowed my car for his date. I am not very rich, but I work hard and I just want the best quality if i am going to spend money anyway. what's so wrong about it? how do I deal with jealousy from friends and coworkers.

2006-12-06 07:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by L 2

I have a student staying - very pleasant and nice. However..... he does seem to eat an awful lot and I was wondering if people have had any similar experiences and what they have done about it. Also he goes out and asks me to leave some dinner on the side for him. Is this reasonable? Should I say dinner is served at 7 and if he is not here there is no dinner?

2006-12-06 07:28:07 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

As a single guy I was free to do as I wished but now I'm married my sole role in life is to be a chauffeur and gofer and general dogs body for women (Wife and daughters) and to accept that every thing that goes wrong is due to the male sex. I pity guys with more than one wife!!!!!!

2006-12-06 07:26:58 · 15 answers · asked by ianinstantservice 1

As a single guy I was free to do as I wished but now I'm married my sole role in life is to be a chauffeur and gofer and general dogs body for women (Wife and daughters) and to accept that every thing that goes wrong is due to the male sex. I pity guys with more than one wife!!!!!!

2006-12-06 07:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by ianinstantservice 1

my ex and I broke up months ago. even though we broke up we were still benefit I never left her side. Then she wentout and met other guys she told me she doesnt want do anything with me nomore and I should leave her alone. It was hard for me to do it but I did for her. couple weeks later she calls me and said she miss me...she miss the old day and everytime she hang with her friend she think about me. I ask her if I asked her back out again she said she cant because she has a boyfriend. It hurted me so much she told me if I have feeling for her hide it because she doenst want anything do with it. I thought she would do the same but she didnt when she told me those it just brought me back from where we seperated and it just kills me because I regret losing her first time and now I really want her back. more we doing this the more she hates me now she wouldnt even look or talk to me. i waited for outside and said hi but she didnt look at me and just walk pass me. i really love this girl

2006-12-06 07:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 07:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has a daughter but at the same time im his girlfriend who he claims he loves but we are on college break for christmas and we both live in ohio i live in grove city and he lives in xenia ohio. it takes 45 minutes to get to his house to mine.he was continplating on if he was coming to see me but as soon as his baby momma called and needed him to babysit he was there the next day....i dont know what to do or say im only 18 and he is 23..but he wants to marry me??? i need help

2006-12-06 07:18:59 · 25 answers · asked by diamond 1

divorced 4 yrs now and he is living at his moms, no job, no child support-hes in huge debt and his car was repo-basically he has hit rock bottom finanacially but still pick up the kids with a big smile on his face and takes them to the park..but always asks for $ to get something for them ie a slurpy at 7/11 or takes them to a matinee on my dime....is it wrong that i give him $ knowing he has no way to pay it back???

2006-12-06 07:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by anabella 1

Ok so I am engaged, and my fiance is a total mommas boy hell bent on supporting his parents when his father retires which is all good with me but when i mention moving out of the state he proclaims it will only happen if his parents are stable- which i dont see how they won't be; They have a house and 2 new cars.. the thing is they are Columbian, I am not- they speak spanish I do not, and his mother has this mentality that no one will ever be good enough for her sons. What is one to do in this situation? She has had some unjustified things to say about me behind my back, but to him she says she has no problems with me. Friends have suggested that eventually he will have to choose and I know I will not be the choice because his thing is that his mother sacrificed for his family so he would never not support her. Don't get me wrong I am all about helping them but he even went as far to say "maybe they will move out of the state with us". HELP!

2006-12-06 07:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

My boyfriend has a page on another website and he has nothing but girls sending message and I think he is seding them back so I have a page on same site and I have men on them so now he is going crazy but the only thing is my page is just for show. I don't send message to any of the guys. He wants me to erase mine but he won't erase his.

2006-12-06 07:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by honey brown 0001 2

I would really only like answers from acutal addicts. I'm sure there'll be plenty from some smartassses but I would really like to know what drives a Heroin Addict to totally destroy everyone around them. It's happening to a good friend of mind and with children involved it really pissses me the f*** off!

2006-12-06 07:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by Jackie P 2

I'm a very responsible young lady, I go to school (senior in college), I have a part-time job n pay for my own bills. I try not to ever bother my mom cuz it's all about her and her money. There is a language barrier, I can speak way better english than spanish while she can barely understand english. When we try to communicate we get "lost in translation". It seems like i'll talk to her bout something n she'll take in a completely different way then how i ment it. I try to explain but she won't even hear me out. I've come to the conclusion that there is no talking to her. She takes her anger out on everyone in the house n blames everyone else but herself for everything wrong in her life. I can't take it anymore! I think it's horrible to feel so uncomfortabel in ur own home. On top of all that she has this crazy 11:30 p.m. curfew for me. I don't know what to do anymore. I would hate to move out n leave my dad and sister behind. Should i move out? Don't know if i can afford it....help!

2006-12-06 07:06:54 · 42 answers · asked by g.l.e.n.y 1

2006-12-06 07:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by tim k 2

2006-12-06 06:59:57 · 27 answers · asked by tim k 2

2006-12-06 06:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by tim k 2

Right now, it's my Pakistani friend, he's a Libra(like me)
It was one of my exes, and he is a Scorpio(love them)
I'm looking forward to my Indian friend soon(Scorpio)

2006-12-06 06:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5

I have a boyfriend that I went out about 2 years. I felt kind of tired, because I found out in his computer that he has instant messages with two girls. In those messages, he was flirting with those girls. I got mad, and he didn't understand me why I got mad. He also told me "even if that happens again, I still love you." He also liked one girl last year.
So, I kinda decided to take the revenge, and I met a guy through myspace. I talked with him through online, and I talked with him on the phone. I got a feeling that he wants to meet me. He even worked the place that I'm working right now and asked me when do I get off from work and what do I do afterwards. When I said I might be busy, he said he has friends around the work place, and he will visit his friends and have a barbeque party. I think he wants to surprise me or follow me. I'm worrying, because I work with my boyfriend.

What should I do?

2006-12-06 06:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by asianlover 1

2006-12-06 06:50:15 · 12 answers · asked by clair 1

i'm recently engaged to a wonderful man.I have never been married he is divorced with one child.right now we have bank accounts set up as his,mine,and ours(for household bills only)i really want to keep it this way for at least awhile but he does not.he wants us to pool all our money together with no seperate accounts.the problem with this is his spending.his exwife uses their son like bait to get what she wants mostly money and i don't mean child support she already gets that but she always wants more.because of my bf's inability to say no to her or his son he is now 26k in debt.i feel and know if we "pool" our money he will see all the extra money as free money to pay of his debt.talking to him about his over spending on his child will not work,i have tryed and it falls on deaf ears.so i feel if we pool all our money it will cause alot of tension in our marrage about where "our" money is going.am i wrong to feel this way?would u pool all your money and just hope he did not blow it?

2006-12-06 06:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by sarahmackey0606 1

2006-12-06 06:40:18 · 25 answers · asked by Dez 2

I've just found out that my partner has been putting about about £600 - £700 on his credit card every single month for since about April. I'm somewhat horrified because I didn't know. We share bills except that I pay my share from what I earn (I don't have a credit card at all). I don't really know what to do next. I gather that a lot of it is his exwife who, errr, gets as much money as she asks for otherwise she threatens him that he won't see his kids. So he says. At the moment I'm so p*ssed off and really feel cheated... Although I have a bit of money saved up I refuse to give it away but just don't know what to do next.... Btw we're not married and I haven't got any kids.

2006-12-06 06:36:14 · 16 answers · asked by little_friend 3

I am divorced, a single mom working two jobs to make ends meet. I have been divorced for two years and decided the wedding ring isn't doing much sitting in the jewelry box and it certainly doesn't mean anything to me anymore. I want to sell it so I had a jeweler look at it and they said it was worth $1200....she said whatever you do, don't go to a pawn shop. So I called another jeweler...they offered me $125!! I about died. There are a TON of wedding rings for sale on eBay so I don't feel I would get much out of it there either...any suggestions?? I would love to have the money for Christmas shopping....

2006-12-06 06:34:35 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley 2

i dont get that so u arent like clean or something? And u arent innocent anymore. I dont get that so ur innocent when ur born but when u have sex ur not anymore? if someone could explain this to me that would be great! I have been wondering this for a while and i just cant really get it. and also does that mean ur like filithy for the rest of ur life? thanks- confused

2006-12-06 06:32:47 · 2 answers · asked by Gerard Way is the Boss 3

Can you love your X as a friend?..and still want to spend time with him as a friend?................But at the same time Love your new (long term) partner and want to spend the 'rest of your life' with him?

2006-12-06 06:24:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

at the supermarket ???

They want to go to the cinema after shopping but i wanna watch the match.

I will obviously pick them up afterwards.

So should i leave them or go watch Some animated pengiun film ???

2006-12-06 06:21:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sincerity pays but very late/ how long one can carry this burden that one day the things will move in his or her favour/ what is the remedy of one sided love?

2006-12-06 06:02:35 · 1 answers · asked by raashi 2

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2006-12-06 05:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, in my college in the States(Oklahoma), there's this girl i used to like last year and i started hating her when i found out about her, in the past 3 years she had around 7 boyfriends, and currently she has 2 boyfriends who don't know about the other guy. I heard that she is a bad girl and goes out with boys and that she goes out with many boyfriends. I used to like her, but now i know about her, i hate her, and my friend told me that she goes out with the boys and then has s*x with them, and out of the 7 boyfriends she has made love with atleast 5. i feel angry at her and hate people like that. so that's why i dont like her, because of what she is and what she does, how she changes boyfridns

does any one know what you call people like that?
do u think she is a good person or a bad?
i don't think i want to be with someone like that.
what ur opinions, am i being harsh? or am i doing it right?
bye

2006-12-06 05:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by John-Wokinson 1

I have two children and recently found out that I'm pregnant again. It wasn't planned, and neither of us wanted anymore. It seemed logical that a termination was the best way to go, for many reasons, I don't need to justify them here. However, when attending the counselling session, I realised that I don't want a termination. My partner though, doesn't see it like that, he says he can't support my decision, as he's so anti having another child (his reasons are fair, I agree it's not ideal right now). He says that if I continue with the pregnancy, he might be forced to leave, or worse still, stay for the two children we already have, but not help me at all with the pregnancy, or the new baby, until something long term can be established.

I love him, we've been through alot, and I'm not ready to lose him. But I'm not able to go through something like that against my will. I'm torn, and really don't know what to do. Sensible answers only please, this is my life.

2006-12-06 05:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anon 4

My boyfriend has just split up with me and I want to know if he has told me the truth why. We were together for four months, but have been great friends for 5 years. I was 4 months pregnant when we got together, and he knew this. We planned to take things as they come, and see where the relationship goes. Then 2 weeks ago he splits up with me, saying he doesn't want to get attatched to the baby incase we split up further down the line, and he doesnt know where that will leave him. He has 2 other kids, and has had problems getting to see them with the childrens mothers, but I want to know if hes telling me the truth or does he not find me attractive as Ive got bigger, or if he doesnt want the resposibility or whatever. He's 3 years older than me and we were living together and had plans. Now I dont know whats gonna happen? Any comments?

2006-12-06 05:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by jojobass86 3