Why do women always boss guys around and the only place for a guy in a marriage is be blamed?

Question

As a single guy I was free to do as I wished but now I'm married my sole role in life is to be a chauffeur and gofer and general dogs body for women (Wife and daughters) and to accept that every thing that goes wrong is due to the male sex. I pity guys with more than one wife!!!!!!

Answer 1

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

Answer 2

Relationships are complicated. If you really want to change your situation and aren't just having an on-line moan, then contact Relate (I presume you are in England) and they will help you think things through. Counselling is best BEFORE you get to crisis point and will work better if your wife will go with you, but still can be done on your own.
My hubby and I have had counselling on more than one occasion for our marriage and each time it has helped. We still aren;t perfect. Nothing is always one person's fault. Even if we are the hard done to one in the relationship, we still need to be willing to make changes (ie stand up for ourselves and assert our rights). And changing isn't easy.

Answer 3

So if you liked the single life so much why don't you go back to it, you don't have to stay married.
Does your wife not do things for you such as, cook your meals, clean you home and laundry, run errands for you?
If you don't like what you HAVE to do you can always hire it out. But then you'd complain about spending the money.
I don not blame my husband for everything that goes wrong and as far as him doing EVERYTHING, he'll be the first to admit he doesn't. Our marriage is 50/50, we both do our share in keeping our home up, unfortunately there are some things I can't do, but am willing to try or at least assist in getting done. Like I said if you don't like where you are get out or maybe try talking to your wife about the situation

Answer 4

Why do men have to whine, complain, expect us to do everything, and then still have something to say? I'll tell you why. Cuz we all have good days and bad days, AND because it's ALL in perception. If you automatically think that's what marriage is all about, then you'll set yourself up for it to continue that way every single time. Act towards her as you do the beauty queens you see on the street or your good female friends, and see what happens.

Answer 5

Take some NyQuil and go back to bed. when you wake up in the morning you will see your life is better. You should be thankful of what you do have and not bi*ch and moan, some people would love to have a wife and children. Don't you feel lucky to have something in life. Do you have your health? a home? a job? a car? money in the bank? Really now can't you come up with something meaningful?

Answer 6

YOU have ALLOWED yourself to be in this role. Put your foot down man, dont blame the male race for the fact that you let your family punk you down.

Answer 7

Because you failed to see the 3 rings in marriage, not 2. The engagement ring, then the wedding ring, and... Pay attention... The suffeRING.

Answer 8

It makes girls feel better to be a boss its just what we do not that we mean it cause some times i catch my self bossing my boyfriend around and well im doin that i cant even stop my self .I just keeep hearing my self talkin and i feel bad about it ....

Answer 9

Okay, if females don't assert ourselves, who take over? The dude. And you might want to talk to her about that, if you're getting tired of it. But, before you do that, think about what she does for the family.

Answer 10

Get a spine you loser. Don't let the ***** run your life.
Back hand her!