2006-12-06 06:40:18 · 25 answers · asked by Dez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 18 and he is 22, and my house with my parent, brothers and sister, and friend
2006-12-06 06:45:25 · update #1
sure, why not!!
2006-12-06 06:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are comfortable with him living with you and you are ready for that kind of move yourself. Just remember if you decide to let him move in with you, when two people live together it does change everything good or bad. He could do things that might annoy you like not cleaning up after himself, watching shows that he only likes, stinking up the bathroom, asking you twenty questions all of the time, you might fight more than you did if he lives with you. But, it has some upsides too, like you won't have to live alone anymore, you can do practically everything together, share things together and most of the time there won't be anything to talk about because you two are living together so you know how each others day has been. And, if he snores it gets to noisy and very aggravating, and if you have lived alone for quite a while having someone move in with you can be a very big change. It can be a good or bad experience if you let it, its all up to you, if you are ready for that kind of change and you have weighed the pros and cons then I say go for it, but, its up to you if you want to make that kind of commitment, only you can decide that and if that's what you want. Good Luck!
2006-12-06 14:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask Whom if he can stay with you?
Give it a try - there's no harm - if u dont get permission the situation wont change, but if u will - it may be a good idea.
But if u wont ask - u'll never know if u could have helped him.
It may add a spark to ur relationship too if it works out
2006-12-06 14:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. just deal with long distance or break up. if you aren't old enough to move in together, then you are too young to be concerned about him living with your family.
what would you do if you guys broke up?? seriously, entertain that for a moment. imagine you are somewhere with your friends and all of a sudden some guy catches your attention. your interest is piqued and next thing you know...you are breaking the bad news to you bf....you found someone else and he needs to move to live with his dad.
bad deal all around. losing bfs is part of growing up....make the most of your time left with your bf and then let him go.
you'll be fine, i promise.
take care.
2006-12-06 14:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ages are important to this. The situation is completely different if he is not of age than if he is. If not, there will be legal issues such as custody to deal with. Otherwise, it is simply a question of whether the other members of your household are okay with the idea.
2006-12-06 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your of legal age.If he has a job.If your not living with your parents too.If you actually love him,this requires more than a six month relationship.It's not like he doesn't have somewhere to go.He's not homeless.Is this more for your own personal agenda or his? In other words,are you sure that he wants to stay with you or is it you that wants him to stay?
2006-12-06 14:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with my parents still, (its the cheapest way) and my girlfriend moved in with us...works really well, but you have to make sure that your other half does their fair share in the house to keep the balance. Go ahead and ask!
2006-12-06 14:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by ADAM M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st - How old are you? If you live with ur parents I don't think it is a very good idea especially if you are not old enough to be out of your parents home.
2nd - If u are old enough to be out on your own, ask urself the questions, can u live with a bf, are u ready to commit to that next step?
Give urself time to think!
2006-12-06 14:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by I Love Pink! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume "here" means "in my parents' house"? Even if so, your parents might go for it if you explain that you don't want him closer for any age-inappropriate reasons--you're just concerned for his welfare because he has no place to go.
2006-12-06 14:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age, I don't see why. It never hurts to ask. The worst anyone can say to anything is no.
2006-12-06 14:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by James Dean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just know before you do exactly what you are getting into.....That is a huge step...don't take it lightly or you might end up regreting your decision.
2006-12-06 14:43:26 · answer #11 · answered by rwade0484 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋