Ok here is the situation. I am in love with a wonderful man. The problems that I have is my Ex-husband I think still wants control over what I do and who I am with. He said that he doesnt want his kids around my Fiance and that he is going to try and take my kids from me and all this BS. He is remarried (to my best friend for 18 years. she left her hubby for mine!) That is number one. Number two is my parents are racist (exhubby also racist). My Fiance is Indian/black/white. I moved to another state just so that I could be with him and we have not told anyone. He has his own place. I have mine but we spend a lot of time together. We have been seeing each other off and on for almost 3 years now. His mom feels the same about me. We make each other very happy and want to be together all the time but we have all of this stress from our Familys. Family is important to anyone and they are important to us but we also want to be happy. We are to be married on June 22nd 2006. What should I do?
2006-12-06 08:17:10 · 2 answers · asked by Believe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my guess is what are you willing to loose to keep this relationship, as your husband and parents are never going to change their thinking, Your ex hubby has to prove you an unfit mother and that will take some doing, so perhaps he is all talk and no action, You deserve happiness and to let others control you is just wrong, just be prepared to tell them either respect me or loose me, they may turn their backs but that is their decision, and not your problem and you can't fix it
2006-12-06 08:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married,you can't risk your happiness because of your familiy,maybe not now they won't understand but they will later,that always happens.
2006-12-06 16:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋