i heard some guys cheat because obviously theres something the #1 person isn't giving them and looks for it w. someone else (other than sex). it is because the lack of Attention? Love? understanding? Space? I want to know why would you guys cheat and don't want to let go of the one your cheating on, why not just break it off and there wouldn't be any cheating!!! thats why i need to understand.
2006-12-06 07:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by yalamea2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The reasons you listed actually miss the mark ,,,, I assume you are talking about young guys ,,,, Young guys but including guys as old as 30 or more cheat because they lack the maturity it takes to commit to just one person ,,,, It's always I do until they don't want to anymore ,,,, This is why there are so many divorces today ,,,, The sad thing about that is they usually come to this decision one or two or possibly more children too late ,,,,, This happens to women too though ,,,,Regardless,,,, these people don't stop to think about how much they love their children before they have them ,,,, They finally realize that they were in lust instead of love ,,,, They haven't the mental maturity to handle this in an adult manner ,,,,, So the basic answer to your questions is that along with immaturity ,,,, THEY LET THEIR GLANDS DO THEIR THINKING FOR THEM ,,,, The other reasons you mentioned might fall true for some people ,,,, that's true but they are fewer than the others,,,,
2006-12-06 08:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some folks, men and women, just aren't naturally monogamous.
Most of those, considering the social atmosphere we live in, will cheat. Some can resist the desires. Some convince their spouse to open the relationship. Two of the more common open relationship styles are swinging and polyamory. The former is more about sex, the latter more about love and multiple longer term relationships. Both require a great deal of honesty.
Open relationships are generally frowned upon by society. Many will consider it worse than cheating. I've lost at least one friend, who cheated on her husband multiple times, because she disapproved of us being polyamorous. Seems that cheating is preferable to honesty to many.
2006-12-06 07:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are MANY excuses people use to cheat, and it almost never has anything to do with not enjoying sex with their partner (due to the partner's age or having borne children)... People who cheat are selfish, morally deficient, pieces of trash who put their own immediate desires ahead of consideration for anyone else...they get what they deserve eventually though, but sometimes a lot of people are hurt in the process...
2016-05-23 01:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated, but I think some guys cheat because they are bored or don't want to say no to the chance of being with another hot chick. Some think quantity instead of quality.
2006-12-06 07:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tara sounds very bitter.
We cheat because we can. There will always be some pathetic woman out that that will glady do the deed with us. Buy her a couple of drinks and you cvan bang her all night long. Probably her friend too.
2006-12-06 07:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a man cheats its because his wife is not giving him any, When a man helps his wife with her problems but she doesn't give anything back then he will cheat because he will get some whether his wife gives it to him or some other woman
2006-12-06 08:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all about EGO.Men cheat so that they can proof to themselves they still have pulling power (bless their cotton socks lol). They want to be with the woman they love but they need to boost their ego now and again,its just a shame they cant do it with their pants up.
2006-12-06 07:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think some men do because the place their own self value on the attention they get from women.
2006-12-06 08:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They cheat because they know they suck in bed and they wanna start fresh with someone who has not seen their small pee pee's
2006-12-06 07:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they're idiots
2006-12-06 07:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by electrophoenix 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋