let me explain u in short i having affair with a guy in india who really loved me a lot and liked his house and his family members and they all liked me.But one day my parents got to know about him and then they called him he asked my parents that he want to marry me but they said no because he was poor and works in army at a very small post so my parents asked me about him i kept on saying yes for marrying him but they were not happy and beated me alot then i was afraid and told them a big lie that was that guy is in underworld and warned and scared and pushed me to say yes to him and i acted like i am innocent so they thought i was true and took me to punjab i was livin in M.P. then this reached here also but i was still the same that i am innocent and then my parents found a guy and married me with him and sent me to usa illegally and he didnt knew anything.then i got married to this guy who is 32 now and i am 19 i told him everything and he took everythnglet me post again cont.
2006-12-06 17:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU MAKE YOUR LOVER CULPRIT YOURSELF AND KNOW ASKING SOLUTION FROM US. I THINK IT IS GOOD FOR YOU TO SETTLE YOURSELF IN THE SITUATION WHERE YOU ARE BECAUSE WEEK PEOPLE CAN NOT WIN THE BATTLE.
2006-12-06 17:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a old fellow..i am just a young guy of 20 so wont give u a very big helpful tip but firstly jo hogaya so hogaya...i mean whatever has happened has happened...u cannot change it...i would say just accept ur present husband and try to be happy with him...and probably also get a friend to talk to since u look lonely..if u get nobody then i am always there.....ok and take care.....
2006-12-10 06:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by lyonelboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear friend...
Admit that u made a mistake by telling lies, to one innoscent person, who is sincerely working for his country. its okey for u. Now that u got married to some one and probably i think u r passing time at home...u started rethinking about ur past.
U can never repeat history. Now u r a wife to some one. Atlest comitt to him. You told him every thing about ur past and he is so sweet that he could listen as gentle man. Donot screwup ur relation with him too. then ur life become worst.
What u can do is search for a job..ask ur husband to findout a job otherwise. then u will forget the past temperorry.
Pray God to keep people safe. Donot contact ur previous friend and donot disturb the poor guy.
You can construct a temple, Church and destroy also. But not heart. Once it is broken....broken.
2006-12-07 01:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. however you can only do this when you are able to take care of yourself financially and emotionally. you need to love and take care of yourself first. stay with this guy until you can take care of yourself then move out and do what you want to do. if you live in the US then you are not required to do anything by your parents command unless you want to. If you want to stay with this guy then do it. don't let anyone tell you want you want in love because only you know. however listen to advice carefully.
2006-12-07 01:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spent too much time explaining your situation. What is your question?
2006-12-07 01:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Charles d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you specify your problem nobody can help you dear
2006-12-07 01:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋