Other - Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

My boyfriend lately has been coming in and then saying hi and leaving.He has gotten many text messages on his phone from strange numbers a not his friends.He has been out at 3:00am and then he gets messages at 5:00am.We share an apartment sometimes.Is he cheating on me? Should we break up?

2006-12-01 16:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by JanJan 2

hey, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 8 months and its been a roller coaster ride because of our perpetual negativity.I know there are the things that are really bothering him in his personal life. he hasnt opened up much yet about things but im not going to force it out of him . im still waiting for him to do that on his own. but now it's getting to the point that he's constantly ridiculing, sarcastic, harsh and mean towards me and now i see my self-esteem decreasing more than ever before.God knows i dont have the best self esteem in the world right now , so i really dont trust my own advise for our situation. please dont suggest that we break up. i dont want to leave him, i've tried many times but it only made us feel worst when we got back together. how can we be postive and still be together?

2006-12-01 16:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Wild Rose 1

i dont really wnat to go into details except that yes it has to do with my..fiance actually.. lying and cheating....(i got my revenge)....we dont want to leave eachother, just start over and have a better begining......any suggestions (besides breaking up) or advice on how to forgive and forget?

2006-12-01 16:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 16:22:33 · 5 answers · asked by anantha m 1

or perhaps have already met, and just don't know it????

2006-12-01 16:21:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live w/ my dad and he works all the time, and his best friend, mike just pasted away not too long ago (I called Uncle Mike). He had this son named Michael and he goes to college in our city so he stays w/ us so he doesn't have to pay room & board. But since my dad is rarely around, Michael is very uncomfortable. He started out okay, but now he rubs up against me and stares at my butt (until it gets uncomfortable) and he asks me awkward questions like: he stands behind me and asks me do I like it when he touches me, and he says how he can teach me to please a man instead of boy! I tell him to stop and push him away, but he's stronger than me. Last time he wouldn't stop, so he pushed me against a wall and said," Just tell me that u don't like it and I'll stop." I tell him no, but he said, "Oh well..." or "You will." I've tried kicking his ***& hiding.My dad won't hear it when I try to tell him, but it kills me to be home alone with Michael. He hasn't raped me, but he's getting close!..

2006-12-01 16:17:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy that i wuz really friendly with, and I could seriously tell that he had a crush on me... but all he did was talk bad about other people and insult me, such as calling me chubby and blubbery, I knew that he meant it like as a joke, but it wuz still insulting. But, I liked his company, so I just stuck to him. And for a moment, I thought my heart started beating. However, as his continual insult of other people and me began to increase, I figured out that his personality wasn't what I thought it wuz (and I can't believe I didnt figure this out for 4 years). Since I'm the type that's realy sensitive to insults (even joking ones) I decided to drop all contact with him, and just ignore him. However, this has increased his insulting of me... did i do the right thing?

2006-12-01 16:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by Bubble T 4

If your boyfriend hit you and then always apolizes and then does it over and over would you leave him or not? What if he threatened your life if you left him? What if he was hurting your children too? Would you choose him over your childrens pain? I Know someone who wont leave him and he's hurting the children too

2006-12-01 16:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3

She likes to lie a lot about her life and stuff i still want to be her friend but her lying is annoying because you know its a lie because you can tell

2006-12-01 16:06:49 · 6 answers · asked by Flavor Flav!! 2

2006-12-01 15:55:03 · 6 answers · asked by miarose g 2

My boyfriend has been living with me since 2003. I am tired of this relationship already. His controling and lately we been arguing alot. I really want to leave him. But when I tell him to leave, he ignores me and the next day when I wake up his sleeping in the livingroom. What should I do? I want for him to move out. Because I'm paying rent,cars,and supporting our daugther.

2006-12-01 15:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by latina 2

What would be like a price average for a present.

EX. $20 dollars

2006-12-01 15:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by Batsy 2

I find myself actracted to men emotionally and physically. So i guess that would make me gay. I am not sure if that is ok. I mean i want to tell my friends but is it okay... and what about my family..

2006-12-01 15:12:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i was on my way out of school when this girl who i had known before (not good friends with her before) was waiting for someone and she was with someone else who was carrying her baby. she was talking on the phone and she said

"you know what i hate? when these f***** people stare just becuase i have a baby."

i wasnt staring but i didnt not look becuase i was surprised to see her with a baby. also she is only 16 or 17 and a junior.

was she right that people are stupid to stare just becuase she has a baby or did she have it coming?

2006-12-01 15:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by ... 3

i already have a boyfriend and i like my boyfriends best friend, so what should i do?

2006-12-01 15:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by blockbusterpugblue 1

everyone is talking about me behind my back and there are so many dirty rumors about me that every1 thinks im a whore!!! what should a do???

2006-12-01 15:07:46 · 1 answers · asked by jedi_kt13 2

during sexual intercourse and how?

2006-12-01 15:07:20 · 3 answers · asked by Allie c 2

2006-12-01 15:05:17 · 5 answers · asked by aguerin 1

your always faithful,but something tell you that he is cheating.aldo you have never see him nor have any eviedence.

2006-12-01 14:51:47 · 11 answers · asked by tamara 1

You see there's this girl, she's not ugly or anything and it's not me it's my friend she never get asked out by guys at school and they just ignore her but then this other girl gets way more attention then what she wants. What's with that?

2006-12-01 14:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, need your honest opinion here. What do you think when you hear the name "Ethan."

2006-12-01 14:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 14:35:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have be married 11 years. have a wonderfull 5yo son, he is my bud we go everywhere and do everything. How do i get my wife to loose weight? she says its baby fat but the baby is 5. her dad comes to our house takes her and our sons clothes to there house washes folds and returns them, I told him not to touch mine. she wants to eat every evening at her mom and dads. and the house has stuff piled up old books, magazines, clothes etc. our sex life has gone from 3 times a month to maybe 1-2 a month. we both work full time jobs, she takes our son to shool, i pick him up, he stays with me at work. I take care of the dishes, keeping the yard work done, garbage taken out. my clothes washed, cars clean and vaccuming. i am not perfect! what am i missing. when i try to walk by and smack her on the butt she doesnt like it. or if i try to give her a hug she doesnt have time. what am i missing.

2006-12-01 14:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by dax 1

ok so i been gooing out with this girl for a month now the first 3 weeks where great she would ring me and text me nice messages all the time, now she dont and when i ring her she sounds pissed off, i asked her if she still wanted to be with me she said yes why u asking that for? and says im paranoid, but i really get the feeling shes distancing herself from me

2006-12-01 14:09:42 · 19 answers · asked by Skillz_That_Killz 2

my boy is 15 me partner wants me to cut my duties down as a mother to my son, my partner isnt my boys farther, me and my partner have been together now 14months now and all my partner wants is me on my own with out my family, but i came as a baggae not on my own, can any one tell me how do i get them to sit down and talk and keep my partner quite so i can lay down boundries.

2006-12-01 14:07:55 · 2 answers · asked by A A 2

2006-12-01 14:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by mundoskisis4life 1

How can I suppress this nagging desire to have more kids? It's all I can think about and I know my husband is getting beyond aggrivated because of it. Our son just turned two and I'm already dying to have a newborn again. I'd really love to stop this obsession but no matter how busy I keep myself or how much I listen to my husbands 'Common sense", nothing works. Am I going nuts?

2006-12-01 14:03:49 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan's Ma 3

This has been going on for about 6 months already and it hurts a lot. HE is just so cute and so nice. But he hates me beucz of an incident we had last year. HELP PLEAZ

2006-12-01 14:03:06 · 3 answers · asked by dancegirly1995 2

I'm in a mixed relationship and I love her very much and don't want her to break up with me. She has never met my parents and she wants to meet and spend christmas with my family, but my dad is racist and my step-mom isn't peticularly fond of black ppl either. So my question is,"How do I tell her that my family is racist without her wanting to break up with me?" (preferably I would want a black woman's opinion)

2006-12-01 13:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by allen 1

Well if u knew that it was wot u both wanted, and ur other half would NEVER find out ??

2006-12-01 13:55:38 · 35 answers · asked by Tommy D 1