How can I get this guy to leave me alone?

Question

I live w/ my dad and he works all the time, and his best friend, mike just pasted away not too long ago (I called Uncle Mike). He had this son named Michael and he goes to college in our city so he stays w/ us so he doesn't have to pay room & board. But since my dad is rarely around, Michael is very uncomfortable. He started out okay, but now he rubs up against me and stares at my butt (until it gets uncomfortable) and he asks me awkward questions like: he stands behind me and asks me do I like it when he touches me, and he says how he can teach me to please a man instead of boy! I tell him to stop and push him away, but he's stronger than me. Last time he wouldn't stop, so he pushed me against a wall and said," Just tell me that u don't like it and I'll stop." I tell him no, but he said, "Oh well..." or "You will." I've tried kicking his ***& hiding.My dad won't hear it when I try to tell him, but it kills me to be home alone with Michael. He hasn't raped me, but he's getting close!..

I'm 16 years old

Answer 1

Girl... don't put up with this!!!!!
Forget about trying to get proof like others are saying.
Your dad is your dad and he better believe you.

First things first....

Immediately go to a safe place.

Call a trusted relative and stay with them until your dad gets Mike out of the house.

I think you should call the police and make a report about Mike. (Please do this!!! But if you won't do this, then at least just get out of the house until Mike is gone. But remember Mike could come back angry and hurt you.!!! Please call cops on him!)

Your dad's failure to listen to you is really is disturbing. Have you told your father, "Mike is sexually abusing me and I can't fight him off anymore and if you aren't willing to kick him out, then I will not come home."

Again....go stay at a friends or another relative immediately!!!!!

And regardless of whether you get him arrested or not, get a restraining order ASAP.

Answer 2

You might consider talking to a school counselor, or if your dad has a female friend you can trust, tell her of your concerns. Perhaps she can talk to your dad.

If you can get a small tape recorder, one you can carry with you, record Michael's conversations with you. Let him know you have the recorder and are taping everything he says.

If you don't have a lock on your bedroom door, put one on. Get someone from school to help you. A simple bolt lock with work. Lock the bathroom door every time you are in that room. Eat your meals in your bedroom, telling your father you have a lot of homework to do. If you have a close girlfriend, stay overnight with her as often as you can. Absent yourself from Michael as much as possible.

Avoid involving Social Services unless absolutely crucial to your safety. You may find yourself being taken out of your dad's custody and placed in a foster home.

Many young girls are faced with your situation; and, unfortunately, many do not escape the family friend who is also a sexual predator.

Answer 3

Will your dad listen after you're raped? You need to MAKE your dad listen, or go to someone that will. If you're uncomfortable being alone with this guy, maybe you have a close friend that will help you out, by just hanging around or letting you sleep over, at least until you can feel safe again. Good luck.

Answer 4

Do you have a friend you can hang out with until your dad comes home? Or maybe they could even be with you at home, so you are not alone with this person. Is there another adult around you can go to, since your dad is not listening? You could always call the police-or threaten to call the police. Your safety needs to come first-if it gets to the point where the police need to be involved, don't be afraid to do so.

Answer 5

If your Dad won't listen to you, go to a school councilor, your church pastor or the police. This is not a safe situation! Get outside people involved before it is too late and he does rape you! What he is doing is building up his nerve and at the same time intimidating you. Get help now!!! Don't wait!!! If there is no one else go to the police, and file sexual harrassment charges against him. Then they can talk to your Dad, and perhaps he will listen to them.

Answer 6

This is VERY serious. You must tell your Dad EXACTLY what is going on IMMEDIATELY. If your father will not rectify this situation i.e. Kick him out then you must leave and move out on your own. If you are not old enough to do this then you may need to report the situation to the authorities for appropriate action.

Answer 7

I'd hang out at a friends house or other relative until dad gets home. I wouldn't be alone with him again.If the behavior continues, you definitely have to tell someone, authorities, school counselor, someone

Answer 8

Please tell youre dad as soon as possible. Sounds like this guy is up to no good. If youre dad wont listen then the next time he does something to you if all else fails then let him have youre knee right in the family jewels.

Answer 9

If you have anelder brother,he can solve this prob easily, but i thn u dont hav..by the way now,simplest way to solve this problm is just tell all the sentences what you wrote here to ur father nd i m sure he will be with you...........nd another way, take ur chappel nd i thn u know for what it is used,ifsituation like ths came against girls

Answer 10

Please call the police or get your Dad to listen to you before its too late! You better not be joking because I really am actually worried right now! If you still have problems call this hotline!

NO MEANS NO: 1-877-666-3267
Good luck & God Bless!