My boyfriend lately has been coming in and then saying hi and leaving.He has gotten many text messages on his phone from strange numbers a not his friends.He has been out at 3:00am and then he gets messages at 5:00am.We share an apartment sometimes.Is he cheating on me? Should we break up?
2006-12-01 16:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by JanJan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel he isn`t true 2 you, dump him!
2006-12-01 16:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Action speaks louder than voice.From what you've wrote I can say "yes" his cheating on you.Yu know what sometimes we girls are so stupid that even we already saw or felt that our boyfriends are cheating but still we go on with the relationship its because we still love them.Right?But you know what girl he is not the only guy in this world,there are a lot of guys out there who would love you more than the love your boyfriend can give.I know its hard because I guess there is already something happened between the two of you based from what you've said you shared the same apartment.If that so still better live him,I know you dont have a child yet he is just a boyfriend.But done this thing by a good conversation of course.And when you said goodbye to him please don't show to him that you are crying coz that thing would prove that you're not ready to live him that any time he wants to be with you again he would say "sorry" and then back again to normal.Girl once you decide to say goodbye no more second chance because the more you would give him a second chance the more he could hurt you.Think about it girl!
2006-12-01 16:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by cro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text messages and staying out late doesn't mean he is cheating on you. Just means he is getting text messages and is going out. I can understand where you are coming from though. Maybe you should call the person back that sends the text message and find out who it is before you dump him and jump to conclusions
2006-12-01 16:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probally cheating. but dont jump to conclusions.get solid proof and confront him about it. i dont think u two should break up because (1) u arent sure if he is cheatin. (2) if he is cheating there is a chance u two could forgive and forget. start over fresh. (3) if u two break up over something this simple you'll never know what could have been. (4) u will probally be heartbroken and no girl likes that
2006-12-01 17:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is not providing the close and intimate relationship that you need. He is creating emotional distance and that is not the kind of boyfriend anyone needs.
I have put up with guys like him. Trust me, there are better ones out there. He is too young an immature to value a good relationship. You want ot be with someone who is your best friend.
2006-12-01 16:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you too.......... Im dating this guy for 2 month or I think 3..enywayz... the first weeks he would visit me like 3 or maybe 2 times a week.... but afterwards it was only 1 but from 2 weeks ago we havent seen each other, but we still talk on the fone like everyday.....IS HE CHEATING ON ME????
2006-12-01 16:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what's bothering you. If he downplays it as nothing to worry about or tells you that you're being paranoid, then go with your gut. If you think he's cheating, he is. You could wait for the proof, and you'd get it eventually, but don't put yourself through the wait. Move on.
2006-12-01 16:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Venzen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's being shady (and it sounds like he is) or gets defensive when you ask him about it, there's a pretty good chance he's cheating on you, or at least snaking around. . . Think about it-- go with what your gut tells you; it's almost always right!
2006-12-01 16:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let others decide this for you so you must listen to your heart. Ask your man what is going on and decide from there if you want to take his words. If you find yourself doubting him then it's time to listen to your ownself.
What would you do if you discover he is cheating on you?
2006-12-01 17:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask him and if you don't like what him tell you then you do what makes you feel good or what you think is the right thing to do just ask him.
2006-12-01 16:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Felicia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi JJ P, It sure sounds like he is. Just go up to him,and ask him if he is seeing someone else. If he is, just walk out, and never see him again.
Clowmy
2006-12-01 16:40:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋