If your boyfriend hit you and then always apolizes and then does it over and over would you leave him or not? What if he threatened your life if you left him? What if he was hurting your children too? Would you choose him over your childrens pain? I Know someone who wont leave him and he's hurting the children too
2006-12-01 16:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(1) Walk out.
(2) Obtain help/counseling.
(3) Get him arrested.
2006-12-01 16:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by blktiger@pacbell.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman or child should have to go through abuse, whether be physical or verbal. Either way, it will leave scars. Try and talk the lady into leaving and reporting him to the authorities. If she won't listen then you need to take the next step and report the abuse yourself. If you are afraid of losing a friendship over reporting this man, then you need to take VERY close look at your friend and her values. If she is willing to put the children in harm way just to be happy, then she doesn't deserve children. I know that sounds very harsh but you need to think about the safety of those children. Do the right things for the children. They are just starting out in life. Step up and give them the chance to have a life.Your friend might actually realize that she doesn't need the abuse and can have a good life without this coward who abviously thinks he is tough when he abuses women and children. The type of work I do brings me into contact with this type of situation on a regular basis and it makes me sick to my stomach each and every time. PLEASE, help that lady and those children.
2006-12-02 00:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're old enough to know what is good and bad.But since you're asking our humble opinion,well i would suggest you to leave him.But before that let me ask you is he the real father of your children or his just merely your boyfriend?If his just your boyfriend or whatever better leave him.Leave him for the sake of your children,if you really love them stay them away from your boyfriend.If you no longer happy with that relationship better leave him coz if not your life would be forever miserable.Don't wait for the time that you will regret everything when you children will be gone because of him.I know its not easy to do that one most specially he threatened your life but just pray and believe in yourself that you can do it.Don't lost hope because thre's a saying that "If there's life course there is always hope".Goodluck!
2006-12-02 00:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by cro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report it to children's services and the abuse hot line. He could hurt on of the children so bad that he could kill them. Imperative that you at least find a way to get the children out of that situation since the mother wont. You are obligated since you know.
2006-12-02 00:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you know that he is hurting children it is your obligation to tell the authorities!!! (if you know a minor is being abused and you don't report it, you could be held responsible and face jail time in some states) He needs to be punished. AND YES!!! LEAVE HIM NOW!! Doesn't matter if you are broke, if he promises to change, or if you love him!! LEAVE!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 00:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by elloel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sayin sorry doesnt change things. leave NOW. no matter how much he threatens you. find a way out. because not only is he hurtin u its the kids too. its time to make a change NOW
2006-12-02 00:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldn't hesitate in leaving him instantly!!! He can't treat you like this, you have rights and so do your children and you really need to think about and put them first.
2006-12-02 00:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS A NO-BRAINER!!!!! THE CHILDREN SHOULD COME FIRST! SHE ALSO SHOULD NOT BE GETTING BEAT!!!
THIS PERSON IS A TRUE LOSER AND NEEDS TO BE IN JAIL!!!!!
ANY,YES ANY SO-CALLED MAN THAT FEELS MAN ENOUGH TO SLAP ON A WOMAN IS DOING THIS BECAUSE HE CAN'T FIGHT HIS WAY OUT OF A CARDBOARD BOX AND WOULD GET HISS *** KICKED IN A FIGHT WITH A MAN!!!
2006-12-02 00:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, file and police report and get an order of protection.
2006-12-02 00:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by bailey88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋