ok so i been gooing out with this girl for a month now the first 3 weeks where great she would ring me and text me nice messages all the time, now she dont and when i ring her she sounds pissed off, i asked her if she still wanted to be with me she said yes why u asking that for? and says im paranoid, but i really get the feeling shes distancing herself from me
2006-12-01 14:09:42 · 19 answers · asked by Skillz_That_Killz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes she is distancing herself from you but yet part of her doesnt want to let go. you try telling her you want some space and then see how she reacts. give it week or so and if she doesnt say she wants you back then she was going to break up with you
2006-12-01 14:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just being having a rough time at home or at school. Try telling her how you feel and let her say what she wants and then drop the subject. If she continues it still, you can bring it up again. After that, If still no change, you should cut your losses, there's no point in being in a one sided relationship.They don't work. Good luck to you.
2006-12-01 22:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she does not want to be with you and does not know how to break up with you with out hurting you. So she figures if she puts you at a distance that you will get tired of being the one doing all the work in the relationship and so you will break up with her making you the bad guy.
I wouldnt give her the satisfaction. I would tell her that your not going to break up with her that if she is tired of you that she will have to break up with you. However, the case you will not tolerate her treating you like crap. Ask her what it is going to be. That should get her attention.
2006-12-01 22:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I think you are right about your feelings. Just leave her alone for a few days. If she calls, she calls, if she doesn't, she doesn't. You don't need to have this mental manipulation. Either she's nice all the time, or she can forget the relationship. Nobody needs to take other people's crap.
2006-12-01 22:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Darby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound like she is doing something she doesn't want you to know, don't get a pissed though.
! day you should tell her your going somewhere but call her and then if she is pissed go to her house and see what is really going on
2006-12-01 22:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a while u dont get all 24/7 like u are in the beginning of the relationship. You get used to each other and dont need to be with each other and talk to each other all the time
2006-12-01 22:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by jessiebabie824 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes probally feeling what most girls usually feel like love the boy at first then they get him and after like a month they dont feel the magic anymore so she is afried to tell u that cause u have not done anything wrong!! That might be it....
2006-12-01 22:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mabe she is mad because of something personal give her some time to cool down and then ask what is going on but not in a mean way cause it will make things worse if it dosen't work ask another question and i'll try to answer it
2006-12-01 22:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skillz u should sit down with her and explain how u been feelin weird if she freaks out she maynot be the best choice
2006-12-01 22:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by Aoumous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its that time of the month!!! lol or maybe shes just tired of being the happy go luck lady!! lol you should talk to her and see maybe shes having some family or other type of problems!!
2006-12-01 22:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by tab12988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋