We have two concepts here: in love has the gushy, makes me feel greeeeaaaaat, can't wait to see him/her, whereas loving is choosing to be kind and constant, even in crisis.
Being 'in love' happens when 'chemistry' is good and the moon is in the right place. It feels great, but can also disappear if a bad thing happens. In love is a bit fickle.
Loving, however, is a choice you make, even when the other person you are committed to in the relationship (or married to) does or is something you would like to change. A committed loving relationship is continuous, and will not be stumped by ups and downs.
2006-12-01 14:19:24
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answered by thisbrit 7
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when your in love you want to give it your all can't stop thinking of the person and you miss him more than anything, when you love some one you just love them no matter what....
2006-12-01 22:11:03
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answered by Itza 1
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when you love someone, you love them, but arern't crushed when you don't get to be with them, being in love is more, it's hell I don't know, I thought I was in love once,,,,
2006-12-01 22:08:05
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answered by ladylunamina 3
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i really dont know either so when you find out let me know ok.
2006-12-01 22:08:49
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answered by bluepacificbeach 1
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i think there is, but not much. but i can't define it either, so i don't think i'll try.
2006-12-01 22:08:21
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answered by marisha z 3
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well from wut i learned when u love someone like a bf/gf u love them but like when u r in love wt someone u love them as a husband but when u love someone like a friend it means u care alot about them well idk thats wut i think
2006-12-01 22:36:21
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answered by Bouncer 2
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