I do not know if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not.from my experience.He will start doing things completely out of his character.He starts making excuses to leave the house without you/leaves work early/tells you he has to work late/tries to keep you in the dark about the things he is doing/places he is going.The phone suddenly starts ringing off the wall for him.He is always right there to answer it.He starts talking about a certain female.She becomes his favorite topic of conversation with you.can not seem to get her off his mind. Becomes evasive/defensive/accuse you of cheating on him.Either becomes very loving to you/with drawls from you completely.change in your sexual relationship with him. hang up phone calls when you answer the phone.starts calling you to check up on you.These are just examples of a change in a person"s character even then it does not mean they are cheating on you.His friend's would probably know.In my experience the husband/wife/bf/gf are always the last one to find out the truth everyone else around them already knew.Did not want to hurt the person by being the one to tell them.You should ask him if he is cheating on you.
2006-12-01 16:47:52
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answered by noga 3
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Changes in his attitude towards u are the biggest signs. They are not as attentive or affectionate, they spend more time away from u, the have less sex with u, they become emotionally distant, little things they may have done before that were sweet, they no longer do. It is a feeling u get in the pit of your stomach and u just know something is not right. You need to sit him down and seriously talk. Don't accuse him of cheating because that will be the end of the conversation whether he is cheating or not. Men get very defensive and shut down after and accusation like that. Just tell him your feelings and see how he responds to u. You can say stuff like.......I feel something is wrong between us, do u feel it to? or Is something bothering u because u seem so distant.........etc. This will give him the opening to share his thoughts with u without feeling u are attacking him or accusing him of anything. Good luck and I hope it all works out. :-)
2006-12-02 03:21:50
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answered by Amber 6
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One way you could find out is tell him that you went to the Dr and that they think you may have an STD and see his reaction. If he gets nervous by the information, instead of being scared, and wanting all the details and info, then you know he is probably cheating. If he wants to be involved and wants to be there for you and does not pull away or get totally pissed off at you then you know he is probably true. Then after you see his reaction wait til the next day and tell him that the Dr called and said it was a false positive and that everything is clear. Also watch his reaction to this.
2006-12-01 14:56:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Why do you want to invite drama in your life if all is good! Trust him till you bust him or if you can't then it's time to talk. don't put your man in a situation if he don't deserve it-that kind of attention will get you no where but dumped on your booty-and the word will get around that your psycho!!!
2006-12-01 14:57:41
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answered by dodlydink 4
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hes very secretive, doesnt spend more time with you n if hes free n u wanna hang out with him, he'll suddenly remember some excuse, n go off.
2006-12-01 14:59:46
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answered by ? 6
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When he acts differently such as wanting less sex are talks to you less or doesnt return calls that fast
2006-12-01 14:55:38
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answered by Wasabi 3
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if your bf is lieing u very much or acting over then he cheating u
2006-12-01 14:56:43
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answered by Anonymous
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if he is never around much anymore, and complains about having a headache when he is around.
2006-12-01 14:59:46
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answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4
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Follow your instincts,they're almost always right.
2006-12-01 14:53:54
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answered by BubbyWubby 2
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when u dont c him as much as u did. when u feel it. when the sex is not the some
2006-12-01 14:53:51
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answered by demon 1
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