Other - Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

And whats your slant on keeping things from the past.

2006-10-24 02:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2

My friend is married and he and I are into each other. He has young children with this woman, but he will not leave her because of the kids. I have voiced my opinion about it and now I am not sure what to do next? Any suggestions?

2006-10-24 02:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by lildew73 1

Well shes 13 and I think shes going through puberty shes NOT the sweet little girl she was last summer... I think I saw the change coming but Im just not sure when it fully came.. she use to be into girly stuff, like cheerleading and stuff like that, but over the last month shes been wearing dark make up Ive caught her smoking and then recently she left her email open and I wouldnt have read it but something caught my eye it was about her recently sleeping with a girl!
I took her to school this morning and I asked her was she into dating the same sex, she said no, she continually disrespects my mother who gives her, her all being the single parent she is, I take care of her also, but Im in college.. my mother was married twice my father is in my life and hers isnt.. I try not to abuse her but shes been so out of control the other night I found myself choking and slapping her around because she was being really rude to our mother I know this isnt right but she needs to be disciplined

2006-10-24 02:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are there so many problems in life, and who could help me though these problems?

2006-10-24 02:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Master Vigeant 1

2006-10-24 02:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by purpledesteny 2

I have been in a relationship with a man from England for the last 6 years, I live in the US. I have visited him many times - he is single and I am divorced. We have had many problems over this time and always we worked things out. He has been with other women during this time and each time he came back to me. His words were that he needs me in his life. I have just returned from visiting him and with 1 hour left to the vacation, I discovered that he was seeing someone else again. After a week of fun, we parted not speaking. I must admit that I sensed a problem because he seemed to be texting too much and being very careful with his phone. He did admit to seeing someone and when I got on the airplane, we just said good bye. My question is, do I try to get back with him and if he does call me, do I resume this relationship? He is almost 50 and I am in mid 40s. I really need some advice as to what to do. We would always talk each night and sometimes twice a day. Did he use me?

2006-10-24 02:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by irishME 2

She extensively plotted to put own mother in bad situation so court would award her guardianship of (little known) 13 year-old half-brother, who called wanting to come live with mother and leave custody of abusive father in Missouri , all so she could get Michigan money for having him to help pay for her newly acquired house. She went to pick son up for mother, supposedly as a favor, because mother didn't have good running vehicle, came back with son, moved to hide him from mother and alienate him until she could get legal guardianship. The mother had been working up to 3 jobs and spent thousands of dollars and shed millions of tears during the past 7 years, in order to gain custody of her beloved son while living in Missouri so she could visit him all she could, and recently moved to MI . Father's attorney good friends with MO judge. Plus she said she'd watch her other grown brother's dog while he spent a couple months in jail, and she had the dog fixed without him being aware.

2006-10-24 02:10:10 · 1 answers · asked by babeboomer 2

I'm an adult, and divorced.My ex always called me fat, ugly, made fun of my body, i felt so terrible about it.It might be bad, BUT i paid a lot of attention to my face, and my ex always made fun of my face, i always wanted to kill my self.I felt like cutting my face.I NEVER did, he broke up with me.I feel much BETTER now.I remember i was little and my dad used to say in a playful way that he was going to exchange me for the neighbors little girl because
she was beautiful.I always felt sad and bad, i was 7 or 8 years old.
Today in my thirties, i feel BEAUTIFUL but men make me feel ugly.A co worker in a playful way said HI ugly, i felt like ****.i just smiled. As a teen girls didn't want to work next to me, one used to makfe faces. WHY if i feel sexy and beautiful men make me feel
ugly ??? Today i'm single, i liked a men , but i notice that he looks away when i come his way.what is wrong with me ? help me ?

2006-10-24 02:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know when things don't add up, you know you are not going to get the truth if you ask out right.... Can anyone tell me a way to find out??

2006-10-24 02:04:07 · 28 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2

I am always nice and she is too but always want to punch her in the face! My man doesn't even know how much I hate his sister! Should I continue to pretend to be nice? or should I beat her skull in the to floor? tuff call!

2006-10-24 02:04:01 · 9 answers · asked by Katheirne R 1

I'm being accused of being a child's mother and about to have my wages garnished for child support. I keep telling the Friend of the Court that I am not the parent of this child. I tried providing proof and they keep insisting that I am because the real parent (mom) and I have the same name. I been fighting this since February and I'm tired of it. What would you do?

2006-10-24 02:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by Rita 1

I've been sleeping with him for over three years now...... He will never leave his wife and kids (please try not to be judgemental) I would not want him to... I'm trying not to call him ever so I can let it go..... I love him, I want him and he's my best friend. Every time I get to a point where I'm ok with out him.... he ends up calling me.... I've prayed for God to remove him from my life and for strength to not answer his calls-- to no avail...... what purpose could this affair possibly have????????????? except to provide momentary companionship for me (a single mom w/4 kids who does not want to bring a man into the family picture)....... and brief sexual encounters for him....
he tells me months ago he's in a bad state emotionally???? what the heck was that... he needed time... he'll explain it at a later date??? what the heck does that mean????? and why do I feel closer to him even though I've seen him way less than previously??? I guess I'm just really confused.

2006-10-24 01:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by who me? 3

i need to know how to get her address so that i have proof.

2006-10-24 01:57:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my view respect is not an attitude that we adapt towards things we love and value in life, but it is a living emotion. We can feel respect the way we feel love, compassion and humility.

We assume various roles and develop special attitudes to interact with children. We often adore them but at times we also tend to patronise. Do children need our respect more then anything else, or just a simple atmosphere of love and trust?

2006-10-24 01:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Shahid 7

my boyfriend is really nice until I make him mad or make him feel uncomfortable!!! Then he like pushes me a little and cusses at me and says hurtful things!!! He makes me feel like im less than a human being? What should I do?

2006-10-24 01:43:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 01:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 01:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 01:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by ~niLu~ 2

she is poor and very innocent, has some little responsiblity in her shoulder. 3 years of love came to a stand still when I conveyed her that Iam leaving city for better job & even parents agreed, she accepted that with grace and love. everything fine but from very next day she is avoiding me. once i spoken to her, she said evasively he wanted to finish her Studies , part time MCA doing along with here work,now Iam dilemma whether to forget marry somebody or go behing here, she is totally incommunicative.even my parents and friends advice to forget her

2006-10-24 01:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1

I fill really bad but now she is at a new family and the guy who did it did;nt even go to jail i dont know how to comfort her

2006-10-24 01:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by KaitlynWonders... 1

I know this is prolly an age old question but I am posting this because I want to hear it for myself i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 1/2 years and like all relationships we have had our ups,downs,an way downs anyways I love her with all my heart to the point where just seeing her makes me want her I dont think i'm a pervert or anything unless being a perv is willing to do anything an everything my partner wants to do sexually to make her happy even if she wouldn't ask for it for example if we are forplaying or whatever an things start to heat up i'll voluntarily ask an do what she wants to do whether it be mutual masterbation,oral or sexual intercourse and thats exactly where my dilema lies it seems that I am not getting this kind of feedback from her which really hurts because it seems like i'm putting 110% when i'm only gettin about 55% back I just dont think it's fair but then again for all i know i could be at fault here please help me out.

2006-10-24 01:31:39 · 22 answers · asked by Josh G 1

my boy wants to buy me a $250 gift but he keeps insisting that he is going to buy it

2006-10-24 01:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by ((¯`•¸·´¯)Canovanas(¯`·¸•´¯)) 1

The q I posted last nite was 'There has been no infidelity--I am SURE, but what are some signs my husband is gay?', and a couple of responses stated that we were separated and that I should move on. I am ok with us being separated, and I actually have moved on. I didn't mention in my original details that we have a daughter, so its not like I can just shake this one off and pretend it never happened. 2gether, we had 7 kids-- his, mine and ours so we will 4ever be connected. He had an odd fascination with bjs and anal sex, but he never had a sex drive. It was nothong for us to go 2 months w/o any intimacy, and he never wanted to kiss. I honestly can't remember the last time we kissed, not even when we made love. His porn movies were always girl/girl (mostly) or girl/guy; I don't recall ever guy/guy. He never 'acted' gay, like wearing girl clothes or anything. I'm his only real friend, and want to confront him, but I need facts 1st. What are sure signs that he may be gay, besides these?

2006-10-24 01:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by summgirl5 1

How come when talking about Ex's, it's remarkable how many were the at fault/psychotic part of the relationship. Do you know people that freely admitt they were the cause of the split.

I can confirm all my Ex's were fruit-loops....

2006-10-24 01:19:01 · 13 answers · asked by Stevie t 3

ok my boyfriend want to spend money on me but i dont want to cuz i dont like people spending money on me but he wants to anyways

2006-10-24 01:14:50 · 14 answers · asked by ((¯`•¸·´¯)Canovanas(¯`·¸•´¯)) 1

My sister has only 2 days left of highschool until she graduates and has been thinking for a while to tell this guy that she has liked him.

She even asked me! Which i was honoured to know but ofcourse being her brother and a guy, i would simply have laughed at her.

She told me she found out that this guy likes someone else though but since it is the last days of school, she thought it would be fun and nice to tell this guy her admiration of him. Or at least tell him that she thought he was cute.

My sis even told me this guy gives her lots of hugs in the corridor, which i think gross lol.

So what should i tell her? "What the heck, just go for it?"

2006-10-24 01:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

need i say anymore

2006-10-24 01:01:40 · 15 answers · asked by naturalherb_101 1

Is suicide an option or helplessness when someone is really sad?

2006-10-24 00:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by a 2

My sister has only 2 days left of highschool until she graduates and has been thinking for a while to tell this guy that she has liked him.
She even asked me! Which i was honoured to know but ofcourse being her brother and a guy, i would simply have laughed at her.

She told me she found out that this guy likes someone else though but since it is the last days of school, she thought it would be fun and nice to tell this guy her admiration of him. Or at least tell him that she thought he was cute.

My sis even told me this guy gives her lots of hugs in the corridor, which i think gross lol.

So what should i tell her? "What the heck, just go for it?"

2006-10-24 00:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been dating for 4 months now but have known each other for over a year.

2006-10-24 00:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by Trista K 1