I am always nice and she is too but always want to punch her in the face! My man doesn't even know how much I hate his sister! Should I continue to pretend to be nice? or should I beat her skull in the to floor? tuff call!
2006-10-24 02:04:01 · 9 answers · asked by Katheirne R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay I just told him that I don't like his sister and I don't wan to live with her. I told him i will not be mean to her but I will not live with her either. He got all pissed off and was like '"*******". So I guess I will just be moving out! I can not tell her the she can't move into her parents house!
2006-10-24 03:20:23 · update #1
i think you should tell your husband that you really don't like his sister and explain to him why!!! you shouldn't let someone move into your house that you don't like cause that will just cause problems for everyone else that is living there. And as much as i would love to say to beat her skull into the floor...you would just into trouble with your husband and the cops....so just stick with talking to your husband about your feelings!!!
2006-10-24 02:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't imagine why you would want to punch her in the face if both of you are always so nice. If you are going to let her move in with you and your hubby, then you have to confront him about your true feelings or it will fester and cause problems. I would strongly suggest looking deep within to figure out exactly when these feelings started, and why, before you go to your husband with this. But you need to do it quick. You could also call her up and discuss some things that are bothering you. Let her know that you are a bit aprehensive about the living situation, but that you want to do all you can to make it work. DON'T put your husband in the middle of your feuding, tho, if it goes that far. He will feel pulled and may not make the choice that you want him to make. Tell him your fears and your concerns up front, then drop it.
2006-10-24 02:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by summgirl5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither.
Tell your husband that you don't want his sister to move in with you. If he doesn't listen, let him know it's either her or you. You don't want to be in the same house as her, and you shouldn't have to be. It's your home too, so he needs to respect your feelings.
Then I suggest you have a long and serious talk with him about why you don't like her. Make sure that he understands that you will welcome her as an occasional guest, but not a roommate. For the sake of your husband, you should tolerate her as much as you can, especially at holidays and special events. This doesn't mean you have to learn to love her, just don't get violent :-)
2006-10-24 02:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your man how you fell. Maybe he will stop her from moving in. Don't beat her up, You will just end up in jail. Keep your cool and remember that she will be in YOUR home, where YOU call the shots. Where You can make her feel Like she is being a burden by being there. YOU are in charge here. Good luck!
2006-10-24 02:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she is nice with u then why dont u like her ? But if she is not then i think that u must tell ur husband about her if he loves u then he will help u to solve this problem .If still the problem arise then just go straight to ur sister-in-law and tell her whatever u want to say.
2006-10-24 02:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she thinks it has some thing to do along with her being iranian and the finished relatives no longer being waiting to understand i visit risk a wager and that i could desire to be incorrect. Does her relatives hate Iran, did they flee after the revolution in 1979? i've got met cubans who hate castro and cuba by way of fact thier grandfather left there. So on an identical time as they're iranians they could o.k. have been westernized and hate Iran themselves. she could desire to be the unusual one out. perchance she has many iranian or muslim buddies, the place she have been given it from no longer from the familys ideals. that being pronounced do you hate iran, do you disagree with them? particular you like iranian people in simple terms no longer what they're doing in thier very own u . s . as in case you think of them to all be slaves of ahmenijead. i assure you there are conservative iranians who accept as true with iran and the ayatollah and that they flow alongside willingly. So are you like the cuban who left cuba and has no longer something yet undesirable issues to declare approximately it now? in case you flow around and locate expatriated people residing god knows the place, possibilities are high they have been given no longer something effective to declare approximately u . s . of america or george bush. it quite is the only element i will think of of and that i'm no longer iranian. long tale short, do you and something of the relatives dislike ahmenijead, do you help revolution in Iran. you think of they could upward thrust up and turn iran right into a western style u . s .. particular you want to fulfill people yet do you comprehend thier custom or do you want to alter thier custom in some erroneous attempt to assist them?
2016-10-16 08:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by graviett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u´l like her, unless u got an attitude problem, then u need to work on it before hecking the poor unsuspecting sis-in-law. Just remember, if u mess up with ur in-laws, u might mess up ur relationship with hubby.
2006-10-24 02:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dickson L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is she moving in? Why not you propose that you and your husband move out then.
2006-10-24 05:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can move out lol
2006-10-24 02:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by danial w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋