she is poor and very innocent, has some little responsiblity in her shoulder. 3 years of love came to a stand still when I conveyed her that Iam leaving city for better job & even parents agreed, she accepted that with grace and love. everything fine but from very next day she is avoiding me. once i spoken to her, she said evasively he wanted to finish her Studies , part time MCA doing along with here work,now Iam dilemma whether to forget marry somebody or go behing here, she is totally incommunicative.even my parents and friends advice to forget her
2006-10-24 01:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IT is aBLESSING IN DISGUISE: FORGET THE PAST AND KEEP THE EXPERIENCE: NOW YOU CAN DISCOVER SOMETHING:
2006-10-24 06:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by agni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should try and get to speak to her and find out what is bothering her.there must be something wrong in your communication, you need to make sure that she has not misunderstood you or find out if any of your friends or family are telling her that she should forget you. if you just go ahead without closing the relationship properly you will not be able to handle another relationship in your life. the memories of this girl will not allow you to do so. Just talk things over with her and if you must break up let it be without hurt or resentment.let it be mutual with both of you wishing each other the best in your future.
2006-10-24 08:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by ruth esther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk of leaving that "Poor" soul ....Did you tell her about your commitment to her....and expect her to wait wiothout a commitment. .....Dont you think this may be tough...what do you expect her to do....
Probably i think she loves you but does'nt want to stop you from your development so she is keeping away ...instead of demanding support or commitment she is jus sacrificing.
U seldom get such people today...If you don't have any other reason to leave her....stick on to her...if serious probably marry her and then leave
2006-10-24 12:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Vijay God Loves U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make her talk until she answers ... one day she'll be sick of you asking and she'll tell you what's the matter ... and it may get solved then. just tell her how much you love her just be sincere and she'll end up saying what wrong ... the way she acts means that something's going on and she's trying to fight with it and so she totally ignores you because either you made her suffer or she thinks it will help..... i dont know
2006-10-24 08:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by meera c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion , your friends and parents are rights. you might forget her and concentrate on your career
2006-10-28 05:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by kamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep cool.
it is all a way in love life
when love fails
love the life lovely
2006-10-24 09:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her
2006-10-24 08:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by KaitlynWonders... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her TRULY then stay with her
2006-10-24 08:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋