Other - Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

2006-10-24 07:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie s 1

I'm Christian and so is my husband and children but his family is not and they want us to celibrate christmas with them. Last year they didn't want to say a prayer before we ate and when I did I got a lecture how I was weak in the mind cause I needed to believe in God. Well I don't want to celibrate Christmas with them. It's a christian holiday and they are not christians. My husband only sees his family 2 or 3 times a year and thinks I should just buck it up and get along with them for christmas. I would rather stay home alone and let him and the kids go than celibrate christmas with non believers. Should I stay home alone or buck it up and go??

2006-10-24 07:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been w/my boyfriend for 8 mths. He has been divorced for 2 yrs & has a 12 yr old daughter. About 2 mths ago I met his daughter & she is the sweetest thing & her & I got along really good. Last month my b/f & I moved in 2gether & thing is her mom calls late asking stupid question 2 my b/f that r none of his concern anymore, things I think she should handle on her own (they r divorced) Also the other night he & I got into a big fight & he bought some liquor & got drunk @ the house. Well he called 2 talk 2 his daughter b/c they talk every night & he asked 2 speak 2 her after they hung up, her mom called right back & asked my b/f if he was drunk, he said "I'm fine, I'm fine...bye, what? No, I am fine & hung up." That's all I heard & he told me she was asking if he was drunk. My thing is y is it any of her business. My b/f told me well she knows me (they were married for 10 yrs.) But regardless I think it's disrespectful her calling if it doesn't involve his daughter. Am I wrong?

2006-10-24 07:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

All peaple in the world are looking for happyness. but can you tell me haw shall i find it?

2006-10-24 07:25:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 07:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going through a bit of jealousy right now, tips to cope with it?

2006-10-24 07:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Bea 5

No matter how hard you try to please your parents,it's never enough yet your older sister who never phones,never visits has their undying devotion.

Why is this?
Even one word of appreciation or love would go a long way towards making me feel wanted.

Why do they tell me that they love her more than they love me.
Isn't that the cruelest thing to say to any child of yours?

2006-10-24 07:23:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 07:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by ana.mellise 1

2006-10-24 07:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

when people close to us pass away do they look after us or is it just a myth

2006-10-24 07:20:00 · 20 answers · asked by lolly_lolly_06 1

She usually doesn't take me seriously, although I'm old enough to be certain of my identity. She thinks it's some kind of disease or phase that I'm going through. How can I convince her?

2006-10-24 07:19:27 · 22 answers · asked by ana.mellise 1

THERE IS A GUY I HAVE KNOWN FOR THREE YEARS WE WENT TO SCHOOL TOGETHER. HE WOULD COME TO MY HOUSE EVERY DAY BECAUSE HE WOULDNT LEAVE ME ALONE I CUSSED HIM OUT AND TOLD HIM NOT TO COME BACK WELL AFTERA YEAR OF NOT SEEING HIM HIS NEICE WAS AT MY HOUSE VISITING AND I ASK HOW HE WAS WELL NEXT THING I KNOW HE IS AT MY HOUSE AGAIN BC HE CLAIMES HE IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME AND WANTS TO BE WITH ME... THE THING IS I HAVE TOLD HIM THAT I DONT WANNA BE WITH HIM THAT WE COULD ONLY BE FRIENDS HE EVEN WENT OUT AND BOUGHT A ENGAGEMENT RING...
AND NO MATTER WHAT I SAY OR DO HE DOESNT GIVE UP.
HE IS NICE AND THE TYPE OF GUY MOST GIRLS WOULD WANT BUT ME HE ISNT I JUST DONT SEE THINGS EVER WORKING BETWEEN US HOW DO I MAKE HIM SEE THAT IT IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN

2006-10-24 07:16:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

They weren't dating anymore, they would just meet up for a drink and sex. Eventually he stops talking to her, but she is still emailing him almost every month sometimes with pictures of herself or with her new boyfriend. She's still doing this and its been over a year. What does she want?

2006-10-24 07:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by rob207 2

2006-10-24 07:14:17 · 16 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2

she hasn't talked to my three daughters in over a year and last time she did my girls were mest up cause of her lies and promises we don't want her out of thier lives but i want to protect my girl s they are my first prioity. she also lives in another state and lost the girls to child wefare there it cost me alot of money and time just to prove i cared and wanted them and i'll be damned if i was gonna let the state adopt my girls she also lost to other children got preg by some other guy and adopted that child and calls and says my girls are her baby we pray for her to get her life together but i worry for the girls to be safe so i refer to eccl 3 and mathew 18 but i need to know should i wait till they can make thier own dission or allow them to talk to thier mother?

2006-10-24 07:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by hawop 3

If a guy cries for a girl does it mean he really loves her???

2006-10-24 07:09:35 · 20 answers · asked by ABCD 1

2006-10-24 07:06:15 · 27 answers · asked by annu k 1

My bf & I finalized things last night. After 4 years, he is now officially my ex. We got rid of all the bad blood & resentment and agreed that the breakup isn't for lack of love or effort. We each just have things to work out in our lives. I was certain that having that talk would be the 'cure all' I needed. I guess not, because I still had that ache inside of me when I woke up this morning. It's for the best, I know, but how do I get myself out of this funk? I miss him US so very much, it hurts. I just want to be able to walk into a store or drive on a highway without some memory coming to haunt me. The pain? It's almost physical. I literally have to take deep, slow breaths sometimes because I feel like my chest might explode. I want to stop crying all the time. I want to be ok with the fact that there's no 'us' anymore. He's ok. He bounced right back up. Why can't I? I'm not a weak person, At 28, I've pulled myself through a lot of crap in life. What's wrong now? Why is this so hard?

2006-10-24 07:02:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who was the first boy/girl you ever felt you loved So Much that you couldn't stop dreaming about them and when they noticed you .......Your heart Leaped ???
My Daughter has all the signs of Love Sick But i can't get anything out of her ???
So people who was your first love and what was so special about them ?

2006-10-24 06:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

It keeps bothering me all the time and I really want this to come back to him.I can't wish anything good for him because he caused me tremendous amount of pain.I did alot for him.

2006-10-24 06:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by ABCD 1

My Finace, whom I love very much watches porno way to much in my opinion and I want to know why! He watches them after he gets home from work when I am still at work or whenever I leave the house. He always watches them when I am not around. He is well aware that it makes me feel very unwanted and like **** pretty much! I wouldnt feel this way but I think he would rather watch porn than have sex with me because I am willing to do it most of the time! Its not like I dont want to have sex!I even took all of his pornos and hid them from him in a VERY GOOD SPOT and he found them! I would have never thought he would have found them where I put them. And so I knew he found them because I saw a few of them were gone and I asked him about it and he lied to me and said he cant find them! So somebody please tell me why he is lieing to me about watching porno and why would he rather watch other people have sex than to have sex with me! I am not ugly or fat so I dont know whats wrong!

2006-10-24 06:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy and I have been dating for two years...we rushed everything and had tons of problems in the first year, but the second year was pretty good and I am extremely happy with the progress we've made. Sometimes I get discouraged and have the thought in my mind...is he the one? I'm kinda scared to settle on that decision because it is the rest of my life...

2006-10-24 06:56:17 · 25 answers · asked by Benny 3

ive been waiting for her for so long

ever since last year.

i have never said i love you to her before.

nor say ive waited for you

ive known you so long,

we smile, wave like youre my dream girl and im your dream boy.

but now i found out you broke up with your fcked up boyfriend i heard about.


and now you go to someone else.




i dont know whether i should tell her my feelings right now.

to tell her i love her, ive been waiting for her


the thing i fear is,

what i say,

will it change anything?

if it does change, will it change for good or change with a heartbreak?

will it worsen the chance of being together with her?

2006-10-24 06:54:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is Polish & just saw my question. Now i have a bad head! So Maybe most but not all Polish people are crap?

2006-10-24 06:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife admitted that she has been sleeping with an old boyfriend for the last 2 months. She does not "love" the other guy - its a pure physical relationship she says, which I believe.
I kind of expected the news - I have not been attentive to her, and we had been living more like roomates it seems for years than husband and wife.
Anyhow - she has been more "in the mood" the past 2 months. We have had sex more since her affair started, than the past 5 years combined probably. And, odd as it seems, we usually make love when she comes home late!
Her boyfriend is due to move out of town in January. She is
willing to stop everything now, but if it has lit a spark between us - should i let it continue until January? Is it odd that an affair seems to have brought us closer together? I know they have been in our house, and in our bed - that for some reason was more EXCITING to hear about, than hurtful.
Should I put up with it until Jan.?
Has anyone had an affair that "helped"

2006-10-24 06:53:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 06:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by blueskys 2

My wife of 17 years has found a new love online and wants out. She says she told him she was married. Why would he keep talking to her.

2006-10-24 06:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by skipper 1

Does true love ever die????/

2006-10-24 06:45:22 · 23 answers · asked by ABCD 1

2006-10-24 06:43:48 · 2 answers · asked by Sandy P 1

friend...Now she starts asking you questions that you feel he WOULD NOT WANT HER TO KNOW???? ISN'T IS BEST TO JUST SAY...'I do not know, you may want to ask him?",,,,that way you will not be in a three ring circus...and it is a white lie...BUT since it is family, you feel you have to!!!Otherwise, you will be involved in a three ring circus and everybody will be MAD AT YOU FOR TELLING.....

2006-10-24 06:43:19 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4