Other - Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Ladies, Would you stay in a relationship in which you would be financially better off by yourself? I'm not talking about supporting each other. I mean in a situation where you pay all the bills, i mean for every little thing, gas, rent, grocery utilities, school everything. You are in a relatively good paying job but not able to save.

If by yourself you could save for back to school etc. But the guy is a good father, helps around the house etc.

2006-10-24 06:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by ayanagin 3

I am a SAHM and we have a 6 year old son whom we homeschool. My DH got a job 1 hour away and we would like to move closer to work. We want to rent but can't find a place yet.
BIL tell mom they want to "help" us. BIL told mom he wanted to buy a property for us to rent. They tell us to go to moms and we all will diascuss it then. We went to moms and they sat us down, pulled out a budget form and showed us shack places and gave us a lecture "Why do you want to move"? Why can't you buy?" They basically ridiculed their mom by claiming she got it all wrong and they are not going to help us other than inform us what we need to do. This is not the second time. This time I told them off, my MIL told them off and my DH is going to yet tell them off. I told DH :"no more mrs nice guy". I am going to be bluntly honest. I am tired of the tummy aches and headaches I get because I am so nervous around them. Any ideas on how to keep them from doing this again?

2006-10-24 06:40:32 · 4 answers · asked by home_maker97 2

Both of my exes wants me back..one of them has been an ex from a while back but has wanted me for years and i kn ow he would treat me like a queen. we broke up cause we went to different schools...my other ex is my most recent and we broke up cause we just didnt get along..it became an unhealthy relationship..i gave him so many chances and he always ****** up, but he told me this time he is willing to do anything. we went out for 2 years..shared so much.. i just dont know what to do ..cause my first ex is such a great guy but i know if i date him it will be serious and i dont want that now..and my 2nd ex is someone that i miss ..but dont know if its worth it

2006-10-24 06:35:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend's husband has been trying to get with me since september. he stole a kiss from me while his wife was waiting for us in the car. my boyfriend wanted to go beat him up but i didnt let him because my friend" sister didnt let me. i stopped talking to my friend so that her husband would back away but he hasnt he looks for excuses to have her call my home and he talks to me also i dont say anything because i dont know how she would react.Im having problems with my boyfriend because of this since her husband began to come to my house lookking for me. Im confused at how exactly should i react. i love my boyfrien and i dont want this to come between us, but i also dont want my friend to come against me or not believe me and start thinking that it is me who wants to be with her husband. HELP!!!

2006-10-24 06:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by mercerluisa 1

I never seem to be able to keep a razor. every razor that i have ever bought ends up in the shower. I can't seem to keep them away from her. i have given them to her and bought others and still when i go to shave either the razor is in the shower or it pull the hell out of my face. what is the problem

2006-10-24 06:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by staqk3 2

i have no family or friends, i am in a relationship with somebody i dont love. i have told him how depressed i am. uni jucked me off because i didnt do the work. i dont believe in myself. he says if its what i really wanted he would help me die. He loves me and is the only friend i have, i am so scared to be alone.
i have felt suicidal for a year.
i am 19, and i dont know where to start, i am totally lost, i feel totally alone and unhappy.i am not resigistered with a doctor.
can anybody help me?
thankuxxx

2006-10-24 06:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by not really here 2

2006-10-24 06:26:35 · 6 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4

i used to hang out with this guy like everyday. he would even sleep over at my apartment and hangout with all his friends there. i never minded because i liked his friends. i always had a crush on him but he always said that he didn't feel the same about me. three time i confronted him about it and always the same answer he liked another girl. well i moved out of the area and he said that he would never visit me because we weren't that close. well i went to my home town after being gone for a few months just to visit. while i was there we hung out and he told me how he had been chasing the wrong girl while the right girl was in front of him the whole time. meaning me. now my friends think that he is just settleing for me because he couldn't get the other girl. i don't know what to think. i hope they aren't right but they bring up a good point. now what should i do? how should i feel. i still really like him.

2006-10-24 06:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle W 2

I have and 8 yr old girl who is close to her grandparents, her grandmother has bone cancer and her grandfather is 87 and is in bad health, they have been with her since birth and she is real close to them, her grandmother is in the last stages of her cancer and is not expected to live much longer, her grandfather is 87 and will go not much longer than her, How do I explain to my daughter about them being gone? I went to the library and try to find books on death in families but I could not find anything there on this situation, is there a website or other resources to get the help I need for my daughter?

2006-10-24 06:24:12 · 4 answers · asked by lionaness813 2

A sperm donar or doing it for free. (having a baby when you are gay?)

2006-10-24 06:23:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

u know that dress u put on to get a certain someone's attention and let him know u tryna get sometjing started?

2006-10-24 06:20:28 · 20 answers · asked by MsNic 4

2006-10-24 06:16:47 · 1 answers · asked by Josh B 1

2006-10-24 06:16:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Plague

Thoughts of you plague my head

Without you, my heart feels dead



You bring out the best in me

Why oh why, can’t this be



Me your girl and you my man

Don’t be like the others, they ran and ran



My love is deep and true I say

You loving me, I hope to see that day



Just fine, I can live without you

Its by far not something I want to do



A future with you is something I want

A need not necessary, or something to flaunt



You’re love I will await

If it is meant, if its fate



Otherwise, I will move on and live my life without you

Because without you in my life, I really don’t know what I’ll do

2006-10-24 06:15:13 · 5 answers · asked by Earthy Angel 4

I'm married but constantly thinking of someone else. This other person is always on my mind. Is this terrible? Any advice?

2006-10-24 06:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by tankgirl190 6

i mean why do u women always break up with a man and then want to get back with him. Is it because u see a change in the man or u realize u made a mistake by letting him go. Because im in a situation like this. Me and my girlfriend broke up but she still wants to go to the movies with me and hang out with me and she still tells me that she loves me. And she still worries about me and care about me. And im confused because she is the one that broke off the relationship and i still have strong feeling for her and she has a son that she wants to call me Daddy when im really not the child's father but im the only father figure in his life. And i love him and her a lot but im scared to make a move and tell my ex that i want her back because like i said she was the one who ended the relationship. So i guess the best thing for me to do is to respect her decision to end the relationship and just see how things turn out. I hope things turn out for the best and we get back together.

2006-10-24 06:12:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

we went out clubbing lastnight and got very drunk we decided to have an afternoon nap at about 3pm an hour later i got up feeling more refreshed but he was still asleep

should i wake him up so he can buy me my birthday tea he promised me?

i actually feel hungry now...

2006-10-24 06:11:27 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

so many people stay with their partners for convenience or because they find it hard to let go..do you think this is wrong as there is more to life or do you think its ok cause too many hearts get broken??

2006-10-24 06:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

Daughter is 14, son is 10. I had been separated from my high school sweetheart for one year and nine months. We live in a different state now but, still very close to all of my deceased husband's family.

2006-10-24 06:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by MMCC 1

I'm looking for something that might mean a lot to him from a daughter. He's not a materialist & he doesnt have any hobbies. So I'm lost on what to get him. He does enjoy his walks,his newspapers & some music though.

2006-10-24 06:04:07 · 20 answers · asked by april showers 1

Is it boudary you have to agree on? Is flirting allowed? Is a lady allowed a male friend and vice versa? How far would you allow someone to go before you said 'THAT IT!'?

2006-10-24 06:00:36 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

K i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of romantic things I could do with my bf to celebrate our anniversary? Like where we could go, what we could do? p.s. we're only 16 therefore no car

2006-10-24 05:58:03 · 5 answers · asked by cherrysours28 1

2006-10-24 05:56:56 · 34 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3

I am tired of waiting for some construction guys to come rip up my walls to test around my window and it's driving me nuts. I should've told them no they can't come over. I hate waiting for them, and who knows if they will leave a mess?

2006-10-24 05:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This includes childhood puppy love. . . .please list them by their first name.

2006-10-24 05:53:12 · 27 answers · asked by ang_172 3

2006-10-24 05:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by <3HeavenZ AngeL<3 2

2006-10-24 05:45:28 · 24 answers · asked by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2

Is it a decision you make in your head or does it need to be backed up by actions such as avoiding the person in question?I guess what im asking is: Is it possible to detach without actually avoiding the person in question?

2006-10-24 05:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-24 05:37:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a question............. I have 2 kids and my childrens dad and I are not together anymore. We both have moved on with our live and are somewhat friends. He is staying with his new baby's mother and I want my kids to stay with him more to give me time for myself. BUT he will not let me meet her. I have no problems with her, I just want to meet the person who will have some say on how things will be done while my children are over there. But he really don't want me to meet her. So should I let my kids go over there even though he refused to let me meet her? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 05:36:59 · 25 answers · asked by Mohogany Brown 1