i used to hang out with this guy like everyday. he would even sleep over at my apartment and hangout with all his friends there. i never minded because i liked his friends. i always had a crush on him but he always said that he didn't feel the same about me. three time i confronted him about it and always the same answer he liked another girl. well i moved out of the area and he said that he would never visit me because we weren't that close. well i went to my home town after being gone for a few months just to visit. while i was there we hung out and he told me how he had been chasing the wrong girl while the right girl was in front of him the whole time. meaning me. now my friends think that he is just settleing for me because he couldn't get the other girl. i don't know what to think. i hope they aren't right but they bring up a good point. now what should i do? how should i feel. i still really like him.
2006-10-24 06:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe the answer to your question is clear and obvious. You have to first be honest with yourself. Do u love him or not ? If you do den remember that " love is not about what you are expecting to get. It's about what u are expected to give which is everything" when u love someone u must knoe that a true love is a one way street and u love someone unconditinally ... so if u care what he thinks den u are not in love .. when u r in love u just wanna be with that person no matter what .. good luck
2006-10-24 06:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by bandari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friends because they are very much right! this guy is a loser and he just wants to get you lay because he was unsuccessful with the girls he first like and knows he can use you! be smart stay away!
2006-10-24 13:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you don't know what you want til it's gone. it may be that way for him.
give it a try; who knows?
If he's just "settling" for you, his eyes will wander soon enough.
2006-10-24 13:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him don't be stupid obviously he likes you and just didn't know it befor
2006-10-24 13:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by LilMama_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the answer is no
2006-10-24 13:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Real Voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋