I am a SAHM and we have a 6 year old son whom we homeschool. My DH got a job 1 hour away and we would like to move closer to work. We want to rent but can't find a place yet.
BIL tell mom they want to "help" us. BIL told mom he wanted to buy a property for us to rent. They tell us to go to moms and we all will diascuss it then. We went to moms and they sat us down, pulled out a budget form and showed us shack places and gave us a lecture "Why do you want to move"? Why can't you buy?" They basically ridiculed their mom by claiming she got it all wrong and they are not going to help us other than inform us what we need to do. This is not the second time. This time I told them off, my MIL told them off and my DH is going to yet tell them off. I told DH :"no more mrs nice guy". I am going to be bluntly honest. I am tired of the tummy aches and headaches I get because I am so nervous around them. Any ideas on how to keep them from doing this again?
2006-10-24 06:40:32 · 4 answers · asked by home_maker97 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont ask them for help and if they offer tell them you dont want thier help either. that will keep them away.lol.
2006-10-24 06:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore their invitations to help you. You married your husband, not the rest of his family, if you dont have contact with them its ok!
2006-10-24 06:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow dealing with crap like that over here too. good luck.
2006-10-24 06:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Daphney T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AVOID at all costs-----talk to , but avoid physically.
2006-10-24 06:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋