I'm married but constantly thinking of someone else. This other person is always on my mind. Is this terrible? Any advice?
2006-10-24 06:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by tankgirl190 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmmm...i've watch this show once...i think its called ...american top model...Tyra Banks once said' i dont care who u think of at the dinner party...but whoever u think of...just do me and picture her i dont care...just do me and not anyone else'
i hope that answers it.
2006-10-24 06:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, is the other person single or married like you? If they are single, then you will need to confront your wife about this matter and tell her what is going on. If the other person is married, there is not much you can do since she is in love with someone else.
Are you happy with your marriage, it does not seem like it if you are constantly thinking about someone. Try to work out your marriage first before going after someone else
2006-10-24 13:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have crushes. You are probably idealizing the person that is on your mind. Try and focus on thier flaws and the thoughts should stop.
2006-10-24 13:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that it is okay to think about someone else as long as you don't act on your thoughts. Because, in truth, it is very difficult to control your thoughts.
2006-10-24 13:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop it.
Control your thoughts and focus on your marriage. Or get a hobby.
2006-10-24 13:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is missing from your current relationship? What can you do along with your husband that would make you feel less lonely? There is something missing--only you can answer that.
2006-10-24 13:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best answer is this keep it in your thoughts because people are going to get hurt including yourself.
2006-10-24 13:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by porra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal. but don't get beyond thinking of that other person.
2006-10-24 13:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are thinking about me go ahead and have your way with me . I will not tell
2006-10-24 13:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce
2006-10-24 13:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by jooje@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋