2006-10-24 05:45:28 · 24 answers · asked by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If a guy really likes you then he would not talk about sex unless you brought it up. Has the guy brought it up, if so then all he out for is sex. If it all he wants then ditch him and find someone else who isn't out for sex. But if a guy really likes you he would treat you really good and not look at other girls when you are with him. He would also try to get to know you if he doesn't know you already and start out as friends and work up to boyfriend/ girlfriend. I know what I'm talking about because I'm a guy.
But when I meet a girl I never want sex. I am a Christian and believe in Absence till marriage. So take my advice and see if that's all he wants. Oh and a guy would also not even think about it unless you started talking about it first. That's what I think, I may be wrong or I may be right but that's how I feel anyway.
2006-10-24 05:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is just after sex, then he will not stay with you for a long time if you are not putting out. There are men out there that could care less if they have sex right away, to them it is all about being with the other person. You should be able to distinguish pretty quickly the bad seeds from the good.
2006-10-24 13:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy no sex until after you are married. It will reveal how the guy is real fast. If he is willing to wait until after you are married, he is really interested in you as a person and not as an object of sex. My wife and I both were virgins on our wedding night and have never regretted it even after 28 years of marriage.
2006-10-24 12:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I can tell if I like a girl or if I just want sex. If I do really like her then I will respect everything about her. If she says she is not ready then of course I respect that and don't make any moves until she is comfortable and ready. So if he is doing something to that degree I think he really likes you.
2006-10-24 12:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by brandon_fargerson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you take sex off the table for now, he will show his true colors. If you have already had sex, you might not be able to now draw the line. I don't know any guys who lack interest in sex. It is part of our makeup. That being said, any man who pressures you for sex is not a keeper anyway.
2006-10-24 12:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't 'give it up' and see if he sticks around! Not all guys are out for just sex - many want and need intellectual conversation and companionship, and are willing to spend time getting to really know a woman - not just get into her pants!
2006-10-24 12:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. If he's always trying to get you alone and vertical fro some action then he's only in it for sex. If he's into hanging out with you and your freinds or you and his freinds than he should be alright. Also never let your slef get into a situation that is uncomfortable for you. Your gut always has the answer listen to it.
2006-10-24 12:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u never know girl..even if he married u..u can't say he isn't after sex..but there will always b a voice deep inside u which will tell u and u have to trust this voice if this guy likes u for u and sex comes second...u'll know if he's the kind of guy to stay beside u if u r sick..or he's just after ur body..no matter what ur actions r
2006-10-24 12:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think on some level all guy's want sex it's just that some want both instead of just one. Just be careful and pay attention there are signs just no one pays attention.
2006-10-24 12:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy really likes you when he doenst constanly ask you to have sex with him and when he actually shows interests in you and your personality and not just your a**!
2006-10-24 12:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋