my friend's husband has been trying to get with me since september. he stole a kiss from me while his wife was waiting for us in the car. my boyfriend wanted to go beat him up but i didnt let him because my friend" sister didnt let me. i stopped talking to my friend so that her husband would back away but he hasnt he looks for excuses to have her call my home and he talks to me also i dont say anything because i dont know how she would react.Im having problems with my boyfriend because of this since her husband began to come to my house lookking for me. Im confused at how exactly should i react. i love my boyfrien and i dont want this to come between us, but i also dont want my friend to come against me or not believe me and start thinking that it is me who wants to be with her husband. HELP!!!
2006-10-24 06:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by mercerluisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
STOP PLAYING AROUND WITH HIM. you don't need help with this if you really love your boyfriend, you let your man step in, that is his job, you are his not a married man's toy. If she really is your friend you'd better be one back and tell her how you feel. Then your friend and her husband need to evaluate their feelings. You are only adding fuel to this, if he is doing this to you what else do you think he is doing? Do you really think he is trying to be a good husband? Stop playing and start talking, and stop putting the man you love in the position of being silent, you need to get your priorities IN order and your loyalty to your man, or you'll lose your man and your friend, cuz if she really is your friend, she'll be thankful you stepped in, if she gets mad at you then she doesn't trust you which means she isn't truly your friend.
2006-10-24 06:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I know it's hard when it comes to a thing like this but I think the best thing to do is tell your friend what's going on because if you don't and she finds out on her own he her husband might twist everything around and blame it on you. And if it's causing problems for you and your boyfriend then that's all the more reason for you to tell her and maybe it would be a good idea for your boyfriend is present well you do this..... good luck!!!!
2006-10-24 06:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Happy Birthday. Second be sincere. If you do not inform her then it'll harm her extra whilst she reveals out for herself. Plus if she reveals out that you just knew it'll make matters extra tricky to your friendship. Sit down along with her begin a excellent informal dialog then lead into it via pronouncing "(insert peers identify) I'm most effective going to let you know this considering you are my first-rate pal and I take care of you." then inform her well that her boyfriend is dishonest on her. Tell her that you just noticed him kissing or snogging an additional lady the opposite day. Good good fortune!
2016-09-01 01:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by kernan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her about what happend, if you don't she will be upset, I know if you do tell her she will be upset and not believe you cause that is her husbandd, if he is doing this to you there is not telling who else he is done that to as well, a good friend will tell if her husban is cheating, if you tell her you will feel alot better knowing that you told her, she will be mad, but when she finds out that it was true she will come around in her own time, but no matter what happends, tell her I know your mad but I will always be here for you.
2006-10-24 06:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by lionaness813 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the wife about it and how its causing problems with your relationship, if u can get your bf to go with u even better so she will know that its not like the other way around.....
2006-10-24 06:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the husband know that you will tell the wife.
2006-10-24 06:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ASAP she will thank you later.
2006-10-24 06:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋