so many people stay with their partners for convenience or because they find it hard to let go..do you think this is wrong as there is more to life or do you think its ok cause too many hearts get broken??
2006-10-24 06:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the other person is similar with that you have dreamed of or if beside you is someone really special, well love will end someday....
Its about trust, sincerity and comunication. If you fell something deep in your heart, if there is an inner voice which tell you that "this is the one", than it is worthing to stay near that person.
In my opinion what realy matters is if your life companion is a wonderfull friend and if when you are near to him you feel you are special.
In the end, there is nothing in the world which lasts forever, nothing except a friendship between two soul mates. Every thing else related to love it has a physical nature.
2006-10-24 06:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well neither one of them are OK really but truly it's easier to just stay where you know your alright. I've done it myself so I can't say anything bad about staying where it's convenient but as for staying so someone doesn't get hurt that's just crazy talk if you don't love the person then you eventually will leave and the longer you drag it out the more it hurts don't think your doing anyone a favor but yourself don't feel bad about 90% of people do this same thing it's hard to get by these days you have to do what you have to do and since your already doing so mite as well stay the course
2006-10-24 13:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complacency is the enemy of a marriage. You need to work on it and rekindle what you once had. Life is relatively short, but hurt memories can be long.
In a marriage you must both learn to love, trust and forgive. Telling your spouse how you feel and communication are the biggest things in a marriage.
I did stay with my marriage for convenience (the kids) but got marriage counseling and also went on a weekend retreat called Retrovaille. Retrovaille are for couples divorcing or separating. It did a world of good and I longer stay in the marriage because of convenience, but because I chose to love my spouse again.
2006-10-24 13:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's time to move on move.yeah your heart may be broken but time will heal all wound.seek in your heavenly father and you will get past that season.read Matthew 25:1-11 it's about 10 virgins and the moral of the story is to be prepared for what ever situation that may come your way.
2006-10-24 13:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by JUST US 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asking myself this same question lately. i'm certain i love my boyfriend but we've been arguing a lot and have almost split up twice in the last fortnight. i'm always upset at the thought of us breaking up as i love what we have together, but it's making me unhappy to think perhaps we're not right for each other. i've wanted to leave him recently but can't bring myself to do it. Neither of us want to break up and that's why we haven't, but when things aren't working - why IS it so hard to leave?
It's nice not to break hearts for this reason but i guess i'd hate it if someone stayed with me coz they found it convenient.
2006-10-24 13:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with my ex because I thought I couldn't get any better, and for convenience. But once we broke up, I realized that I didn't really even love him like I thought I did!
I'm now happily married and we have our first baby on the way :)
2006-10-24 13:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man in my life is there for a reason. I love him, I respect him, and I cherish him. I don't have to tell him - I show him, every day. And he does the same for me.
I never used to believe in this kind of love, but now that I know it's out there... If our relationship ended, I think I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than settle for something less than spectacular.
2006-10-24 13:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely I couldn't be more happier we've been together ten months but I have known him 16 years and I get all weak and butterflies when I see him every time. I was with my last partner for ten years and it wasn't a happy relationship at all, it was violent and he was seeing another girl who he had a baby with think I stayed with him all them years coz it was all i knew back then.
2006-10-24 14:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to stay with your partner if you have children together...other then that....just do what your heart tells you. My mom and dad just stayed because they already had three children to keep up and love. Its not fair to the kids...but i guess it just really depends upon if the relationship is going to work out for years to come....
2006-10-24 13:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Snap Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with my ex boyfriend for 3 years because I was with him so long that I felt I would not know what to do if I were suddenly alone. Nobody wants to be alone.
Luckily, I finally realized that we really weren't going anywhere, and I broke it off. Then, only months later, I met my husband.
I definately see what you mean about being scared to be alone... but it is no way to live your life...
2006-10-24 13:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kera Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋